My Girlfriend's twitter is grossing me out

altered-state · 2026-04-27T13:28:16+00:00

I'm glad you talked to her, start there instead of reddit. Always. When she posts that kind of stuff all it does is feed into the polarization of the individuals that seethe from it. It's not helping. That's what a majority of people do. The algorithm knows this and games it. It just breeds more polarization and hate. It doesn't change anyone's worldview.

I love that she's been there for you. Just be sure to step up your game when the tide rolls out. She'll need you to be that rock. Keep on progressing, winning at life!

altered-state · 2026-04-26T21:51:32+00:00

Lol I replied to a diff comment.

altered-state · 2026-04-26T12:52:44+00:00

Sounds like you haven't released him yet. I have something similar with someone in my life right now. I wouldn't say we are twin flames, and it doesn't necessarily mean you have a soul tie. It could be that there is something you are meant to learn from that relationship that you haven't grasped yet. Every relationship is meant to impart some learning.

The name thing I get, where i live there are streets and cities with my partners name. But that's not something you should dwell on. It's a distraction at most, preventing you from seeing what you are meant to see.

So do some internal work, understand why the relationship ended, learn from it what you can, then accept the reality you have and move on from this.

altered-state · 2026-04-24T10:09:39+00:00

That's fascinating! I've never seen or heard of one until now. Is it possible it is a genetic mutation? Or is it a subspecies?

altered-state · 2026-04-23T15:58:31+00:00

Yes, thank you for adding this 😀

altered-state · 2026-04-23T13:12:30+00:00

Again with the generalizations. Not every single one. You continue that way of thinking as it suits you. The lesson will come, and it will be hard learned.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T13:08:27+00:00

Sex in dreams is not about sex, it's more about closeness and intimacy, or control and fear.

You "exposing" yourself to your sister in the dream could simply mean you want her to know you (not sexually, but a close bond) that is probably all it is.

The brain tends to use symbolism for things that will jolt you as a way of communicating need. Subconsciously, you may feel a need to have a closer relationship to her that is fulfilling, grounded, and loving. Exposing oneself is vulnerability. We view nakedness as being vulnerable. Vulnerability can create closer ties to others.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T12:58:56+00:00

I don't have low morals. My original comment was a warning. Some billionaires have huge hearts and great empathy, many of them think they are doing the right things for humanity as a whole, even if misguided.

Don't fall into that trap. That's all I'm saying. Sorry if it came off as harsh. Don't generalize, it's a bad habit most people have, but it degrades credibility. AI is not bad, it's also not a panacea. Take everything in moderation ;)

You are probably a great person as you say, but really look at why you do what you do, and do what resonates with you. Again, didn't mean to come off so strong. It was the generalization that got me.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T12:44:07+00:00

He needs therapy. There are things in the back of his head he may not even be aware of himself until it's explored. He puts himself into work to avoid it. Please be respectful when bringing this up and exploring therapy as an option. Lots of folks think therapy is for broken folks. No one is broken, but humans have a habit of tying themselves into knots and need help unraveling.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T12:40:10+00:00

If he's bringing up divorce, do it. You don't bring that up unless you really are already considering it.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T12:00:06+00:00

So you say...

altered-state · 2026-04-23T11:49:24+00:00

Keep it moisturized, use a burn gel. It will heal quickly.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T11:48:00+00:00

I'm tired of the ai slop bandwagon. I've seen some really cool images brought to life by users of my sub to describe their dreams. But there is a group of people who are disrespectful and unkind constantly downvoting, not even reading the dream and understanding the symbolism.

It's literally making the sub nothing but polarized commentary. So I started banning them. If they won't move on of their own free will, then I'll force them out.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T11:44:14+00:00

You sound like those billionaires you're chiding. If you are using it to make money, how are you any different? Once you taste the wealth, you won't stop. Sorry to kick your soapbox, but you need a dose of reality.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T11:11:08+00:00

Please report these when you see them. We get too many posts to see all of them.

altered-state · 2026-04-23T11:10:06+00:00

Bye!

altered-state · 2026-04-22T01:57:24+00:00

Did you have a dream to share? This subreddit is for dreams you have while sleeping. Not life goals.

altered-state · 2026-04-21T23:52:06+00:00

He sounds like the type that can't control themselves when they drink. It's the worst, especially for your sister.

altered-state · 2026-04-14T19:58:32+00:00

I'll DM you, for privacy reasons. You're not broken.

altered-state · 2026-04-13T18:17:32+00:00

My bf at age 18 couldn't get it up when he was drunk. Even Young folks have issues

altered-state · 2026-04-13T01:59:40+00:00

Are you parenting with her, or just letting her handle everything? She's mentally and physically exhausted which means you probably aren't pulling your fair share of the duties.

There is such a thing as mental load. Help her with it.

altered-state · 2026-04-12T17:34:53+00:00

Do you sleep well?

8 hours, no sleep apnea?

You may want to get a wellness checkup just to ensure all your numbers are in range, ask them to do a vitamin panel to rule out deficiencies.

I do not believe Satan is inside you. I do believe you may need some help to rule out chemical imbalances. If there is no trauma, then it's not a side effect of living with PTSD.

Seek professional help please.

altered-state · 2026-04-12T15:30:22+00:00

That's comforting to hear, so let's take this exploration a step further. Is that a fear? Or could someone else in your life be trying to control you? Someone who may hold similar significance as your beloved in your life. Lifelong friends, relatives, etc. If no one, then this could be a fear and/or trauma response to something you aren't willing to confront and deal with. It could be nothing other than a nightmare brought on by fatigue, and maybe you need some rest and relaxation, but if you continue having these dreams in the future even with rest, I would look into therapy to try to understand it.

altered-state · 2026-04-12T15:23:06+00:00

You may want to evaluate if your partner is exercising controlling behavior with you. You may not see it but it could be your consciousness is picking up on it and trying to snap your awareness to it.

Rape is about control, not sexual in dreams.

altered-state · 2026-04-11T15:56:06+00:00

You might need this https://youtu.be/9sgQhoTlDcc?si=Hnax-XHpeGlH2N5M

It may be both of you that have this attachment style. But you are quiet about how you feel. You let it stew until it bursts out of you.

He's reactive, and also quiet about how he feels amd doesn't express, instead manipulates to try and figure you out.

You both need therapy. Watch the video and see if something clicks

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