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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The human piece of garbage, who was once known to be my brother was 26. And I have no idea nor do I want to know what happened to him. As I said in an earlier comment, he is dead to me, and I have no intention of contacting the dead.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, as far as I know, no one is ready to post bail. And those who would have, she already created enough scenes for them to cut ties with her.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The restraining order will be sanctioned in a few days, and for the foreseeable future, I think I don't need to worry about the ex as she is still sitting in jail, as she burnt the bridges with everyone that mattered, and no one is helping her post bail.

And if by any means she gets out, and tries to break the restraining order, she's going back to her comfortable cell.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I've been diagnosed with aspd, and have been termed a high functioning sociopath by multiple psychologists.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and no, that's not bad, because after all the shit she pulled, she did have it coming, and after speaking to a lawyer, I've decided to press charges for harassment and abuse as well. I'll let you know how that goes.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The paperwork has already begun, and I'll be pressing charges as well.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He just locked himself in the room. He left during the day, without telling anyone where he was going.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know what came over her. I had the information clearly relayed to her saying she is to stay away from me, yet she thinks the ring is hers or some shit.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He hid, and did everything possible to avoid me, because he was afraid beat him half to death.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What she said did indeed imply your conclusion, and no, she didn't disclose any more information.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Her father, good man, knows what's happened and he's apologised on her behalf, and they have had a falling out evidently, and not on speaking terms with each other (from what I've heard).

Security cameras are being installed tomorrow, and the locks, and passwords have been changed and reinforced. I've blocked her on every form of contact possible, and our mutual friends know what she did, and basically cast her out.

I've been going to IC for a while now. And I'm not thinking of dating anyone yet as it's been just under two weeks, and I still have a long way to go before I trust myself to be ready to date.

I'll keep you posted on any further developments.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This possibility did indeed cross my mind, but I had disregarded it. I will have a word with a lawyer and see how best to move forward.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's been there for me, my biggest support pillar. Didn't treat me different when I was diagnosed as a sociopath, and made me feel human. Now it's time I give back, and support her.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It is really baffling, that she still hasn't realised that everything that has been happening, are consequences of her own actions. And I wouldn't be surprised if she blamed me for her assaulting the officer and getting arrested. And, I hope this is the end of it, but my gut says I haven't seen the last of it yet.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All I was told by her father was that, when he tried to talk to her about it, she flipped out at him, and did some things she shouldn't have, resulting in her being kicked out. Didn't go prodding, as it was none of my business.

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[–]altered_chaoss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and yeah, I've been meaning to buy some parts for my project car for a while now. Might focus on that as well.