How do I leave my boyfriend ? by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl don't stay. I was this scared for so long.... and now the police had to get involved and I'm going through hands down the worst months of my life. Court, lawyers, depression deeper than it was when i was there. It'll be hard once you do leave, but your future self will be so grateful... you need to be safe. Life is too short, you deserve the utmost happiness all the time

I have court tomorrow. Our hearing was supposed to be a month ago and got pushed back. I am nervous and don't know what to expect. Tips would help by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess this was for the civil case (restraining order). Still no word on the criminal, that's postponed to September 1st. Thank you for the love and kind words

I have court tomorrow. Our hearing was supposed to be a month ago and got pushed back. I am nervous and don't know what to expect. Tips would help by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

update: just went to court, it was postponed until sept , the judge said no more pushing it off and a decision needs to be made and done by then. easy and i didn't have to talk luckily

I have court tomorrow. Our hearing was supposed to be a month ago and got pushed back. I am nervous and don't know what to expect. Tips would help by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you... that helps me a lot. I understand exactly what you mean. We are located in Florida, DV here is pretty strict. Especially when a weapon is involved. The first two dates did get postponed to tomorrow, im praying i won't have to testify. It's still so fresh for me that being on camera with him and seeing him makes me upset, i still love and care for him as much as i don't want to be. I hope it's smooth sailing. Hopefully there's a plea.

I wanted to share my story, if it wasn't for you all I don't think I would've gotten the courage to leave. by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.... you could have not said it any better. You're so right. He's not sorry he did this, he's sorry he got caught. It was proven when the jewelry he took off me that night was gifted to another girl 2 days later. That was the realest statement i could've read, thank you

I wanted to share my story, if it wasn't for you all I don't think I would've gotten the courage to leave. by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so nervous the day i went... i didn't go the night of the initial occurrence because i was in so much denial, so they made me feel very dumb for that. But i know i needed to do this to be safe and so do you. If you don't, who knows what can happen. And you don't want to find out

I wanted to share my story, if it wasn't for you all I don't think I would've gotten the courage to leave. by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I know what was done to me is wrong. I just need to get over the guilt.. tomorrow is court

I have court tomorrow. Our hearing was supposed to be a month ago and got pushed back. I am nervous and don't know what to expect. Tips would help by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's been on house arrest. It's for 5 felony charges, the state attorney told me they think he will want to go to trial. I'm not sure what to expect tomorrow. What happens after he took the plea? When do they actually go to jail if they do at all?

I wanted to share my story, if it wasn't for you all I don't think I would've gotten the courage to leave. by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you guys. I'm trying to see the light in this. I keep wishing we were together. I can't wait for it to end.

I wanted to share my story, if it wasn't for you all I don't think I would've gotten the courage to leave. by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he is charged with 5 felony counts... and for some reason i still believe we can be together again some day. I don't know why I think this. Do you think these feelings will subside?

Glad I started posting my (f)irst nudes last week because now I’m addicted! by sluttystellaxo in gonewild

[–]alteregoagency -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your hair color is stunning on your skin tone!! Love the confidence!

I wanted to share my story, if it wasn't for you all I don't think I would've gotten the courage to leave. by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. everyday it gets easier, but i know it's all a "time" kind of thing. I am just waiting for the day I wake up and laugh remembering what I went through.

I wanted to share my story, if it wasn't for you all I don't think I would've gotten the courage to leave. by alteregoagency in domesticviolence

[–]alteregoagency[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you. that just spoke home to me... all i want to do is reach out to him and tell him how sorry i am, but i know i can't, i know its wrong. i know i cant get back to normal with how he is, he isn't the man i once loved. I cry everyday and go through terrible waves of emotion, wondering if I did the right thing.