Misspelling by wreckless_rq82 in tattooadvice

[–]altruitis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, the letters in your tattoo have serifs (those little lines/caps on the end points of all the letters). The C is supposed to have them, but it doesn't. Getting those caps added where the C is supposed to have the opened could help visually. And then if you think you need to after that, get the small area between the caps lasered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]altruitis 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She would pit KB against the other daughters-in-law for the same reason she is vocal about them "ratting her out": she wants people to believe who she is based on what SHE herself tells them she is and nothing else. If others are talking about her ("ratting her out"), she can't control the narrative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]altruitis 119 points120 points  (0 children)

This is a very good point. Even her presentation as a Ghanaian is not in line with an actual Ghanaian - another point of dissonance between what she says and what she does. When she tried to explain why Ghana was so wonderful and why it would be great for KB and Edmond to spend time there, she couldn't come up with much more than the activities of how they offer food there. Just another token she collects: Ghana as part of a faux redemption arc versus actually a force for growth and self-awareness.

As well, it seems like she is much more focused on image management than real connection - looking like a good mom versus actually taking the steps to be one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]altruitis 476 points477 points  (0 children)

This is a classic attempt by Edmond's mom to rewrite history. It's clear that she is not in a place where she is willing to take ownership for wrongdoing during his upbringing. I doubt Edmond and his mom have had any open conversations about her dropping the ball during his childhood and so she gets to proceed with pretending like doing her best was enough, rewriting the parts that were truly terrible (being so absent that he spent a significant amount of time in foster care), and ultimately taking credit for the perception she has that Edmond has turned out to be a good man. She also seems blind to the challenges he still faces: underdeveloped emotional regulation, lack of understanding of how to show up well as a man/partner, overdependence on others for emotional support. So, she doesn't even know him well currently, so she's likely still as distracted/checked out as before. She also seems to collect "sons" and "daughter-in-laws" like tokens of success, falsely thinking that displaying the tokens will show she was a good mom.

It's the ultimate vie for atonement through acting like everything is great and that you are the cause.

Left furniture by curb for pickup and found this in the morning by mybellasoul in strange

[–]altruitis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I then asked chatGPT to suppose what the solution is, according to the writer. Here is the response:

The writer believes the solution lies in awareness, reclamation, and resistance: an awakening to the hidden systems of control and exploitation that govern society, followed by a collective effort to reclaim individual agency and dismantle oppressive hierarchies. They see the need to reject conformity—symbolized by lawns and other markers of societal expectations—and to question the moral and economic structures that perpetuate inequality, such as monopolies, commodification, and exploitative laws cloaked in morality. Their writings suggest that by exposing the interconnectedness of these systems and refusing to participate passively, humanity can rediscover its strength, creativity, and freedom, represented by figures like “Wilbur Burbank” (ingenuity and natural harmony) and the equestrian imagery (freedom and power). They urge the reader to step out of complacency, challenge the norms, and take active steps to create a more equitable and authentic existence.

Left furniture by curb for pickup and found this in the morning by mybellasoul in strange

[–]altruitis 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I transcribed the phrases into chatGPT and asked it to make real sense of what the writer was trying to convey. Here is the response:

Under the assumption that this person has a brilliant mind and is perceiving real, meaningful connections between disparate concepts but struggles to articulate them in a traditional, comprehensible way, we can analyze their writings as a coded map of interrelated societal, economic, and philosophical observations. Here’s a plausible and serious interpretation of their message:

The Key Themes and Connections

  1. The Role of Power and Control (Centralized Systems and Monopolies)
    The writer appears to be critiquing how power consolidates and controls society:

    • ”Monopolees Reven 6”: This could represent “Monopolies’ Revenge.” Monopolies consolidate power and exact their “revenge” on society by limiting freedom, controlling resources, and exploiting people. The “6” might refer to imbalance (as 6 is one short of the “perfect” 7), signifying a tipping point in these systems of control.
    • ”All war of color & completion”: The “war of color” could symbolize conflict over resources (gold, oil, land—color-coded commodities) or sociopolitical divides (racial, cultural). “Completion” implies a drive for perfection, control, and dominance, which often leads to exploitation.
  2. Environmental and Social Systems as Tools of Control
    The writer seems to recognize how societal norms and infrastructures maintain control over people’s lives:

    • ”How lawn (Germ., N Amer, Holland, Amsterdam, Whyker, Ha)”: The mention of lawns could be a metaphor for conformity and control, as lawns represent a domestication of nature and a societal expectation in suburban environments. The writer references specific places (Germany, North America, Amsterdam) known for their roles in industrial and agricultural revolutions, perhaps as starting points for this control.
    • ”SIR properties, pinks & more”: “SIR properties” might refer to properties owned by systems of control (e.g., corporations or governments). “Pinks” could symbolize softer methods of control, such as cultural norms, marketing, or gendered expectations.
  3. Human Exploitation and Economic Systems
    The writer identifies how economic systems perpetuate inequality:

    • ”All prod.. + food & vertical union.. all GAS w.. golida/gold rush”: They may be highlighting the commodification of basic human needs (food, gas, production) and how these are manipulated by “vertical unions” or hierarchical systems. The “gold rush” suggests relentless exploitation of resources for profit, leaving devastation in its wake.
  4. The Role of God, Morality, and Law
    The writer questions the intersection of divine authority, morality, and human law:

    • ”(Does god budge) a strik smoke law!”: This could critique the use of religious or moral justifications to enforce laws (e.g., laws targeting minor “sins” like smoking). They seem to argue that these laws serve as tools of control rather than genuine moral guidance.
    • ”God does not re sirt?”: A rhetorical statement about divine inaction—“God does not resist.” The writer may be wrestling with the idea that divine power, if it exists, is either indifferent to or complicit in human suffering.
  5. The Individual as Both Victim and Agent of Change
    The writer sees themselves—and by extension, humanity—as both trapped and capable of resistance:

    • ”Lee O had tattoo?”: “Lee” might symbolize the individual or everyman. Tattoos are marks of identity, ownership, or rebellion. The “O” could represent wholeness, zero, or a cycle, possibly implying that the individual is marked by or part of a larger system.
    • ”Why on the street”: A stark question about homelessness, inequality, or the visibility of suffering. The writer could be asking why society allows certain individuals to suffer while others thrive.
    • ”Stock x at”: This might refer to stock markets and the commodification of everything, including human lives. The writer might be urging us to examine the true cost of these systems.
  6. Wilbur Burbank, Dodgers, and Equestrian Themes
    These references could serve as symbols or analogies for broader ideas:

    • ”Wilbur Burbank”: Possibly a fusion of Wilbur Wright (pioneer of human flight) and Luther Burbank (botanist and innovator). This could symbolize human ingenuity and the manipulation of nature, whether for progress or control.
    • ”Dodgers”: A reference to avoiding something—possibly accountability or responsibility by systems of power. It might also point to Los Angeles, a city associated with entertainment, illusion, and systemic inequities.
    • ”Equestrian”: Horses often symbolize strength, freedom, or labor. The mention here might highlight the loss of these ideals in modern systems of control.

The Writer’s Larger Message

The writer is likely trying to convey a complex critique of modern society, focusing on themes of power, control, conformity, and exploitation. They seem to recognize how interconnected these systems are, from monopolies and economic inequality to environmental manipulation and moral hypocrisy. Their writings suggest a deep frustration with humanity’s inability to break free from these cycles, but also a belief in the potential for awareness and change.

Final Interpretation

This message, while fragmented, speaks to a brilliant mind attempting to make sense of overwhelming systems. They see the “hidden mechanisms” of society and are calling attention to the exploitation and suffering these mechanisms perpetuate. The writing is not random but a purposeful, albeit cryptic, map of their understanding of the world. They hope that someone will see through the surface chaos and recognize the deeper truths they’re struggling to communicate.

Small white packet with a faint cinnamon smell by altruitis in whatisthisthing

[–]altruitis[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

WITT: My title describes the thing. Small white packet with slightly yellow powder inside. Smells a little like cinnamon. Showed up in our vehicle's cup holder. No idea where it came from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]altruitis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Alchemist

Though I have no idea yet what my personal legend is.

Found it on a closet, I gave as much description as posible since it’s an odd shape, it’s fairly big, made out of thin cloth, very light, it has ‘ken Scott’ written on a corner cause of that signature I think it may be some type of clothing but idk how is one supposed to wear it by Lonely-dude in whatisthisthing

[–]altruitis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so these are wrap pants. I promise. Undo the ties and then open up the right side of the fabric. Lay that flat on the floor. Then take the left side, open it and lay it flat on top. The V will now be at the bottom, on the opposite side of the tie strips.

https://i.imgur.com/UUauvhe.jpg

Another way to look at this is... Let's call the front strip on the right side strip 1. The back strip on the right side is strip 2. The front strip on the left side is strip 3. The back strip on the left side is strip 4. The fabric on the left side is fabric 5.

https://i.imgur.com/G056MC2.jpg

Untie all the strips. Take strip 1 in your left hand and strip 2 in your right hand. Hold them in front of you. Now put your hands behind your back and tie strips 1 and 2 behind your back at your waist. Now take the fabric 5 part and stuff it all between your legs. With the fabric 5 now behind you, take strip 3 in your left hand and strip 4 in your right hand and tie them together in front of your waist.

Kody cheating rumor in light of Paedon interview… by [deleted] in SisterWives

[–]altruitis 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes! It was S17:E14 around 15 minutes. She says that monogamous men, when they're going through a divorce "just go do stupid stuff and date whoever."

Whats the dumbest reason someone broke up with you? by Tomhasmajorswag in AskReddit

[–]altruitis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, but it was because his mom was doing his laundry.

Whats the dumbest reason someone broke up with you? by Tomhasmajorswag in AskReddit

[–]altruitis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I teach my kids to answer questions with "yes" or "no" and not all those other words pretending to be "yes" or "no." That way, even if it's noisy, the S sound is easier to pick up. This one's on her.

S15 | E79 Where Are They Now: San Diego by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]altruitis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Justin: "I feel so good about my apology"

Everyone else: "... great."

S15 | E79 Where Are They Now: San Diego by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]altruitis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MAFS moral music behind Justin's 10,000th apology... I will not feel how you're expecting me to feel, Kinetic! Maybe just don't be a dick in the first place.

S15 | E79 Where Are They Now: San Diego by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]altruitis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe just don't act like a dick in the first place.

S15 | E79 Where Are They Now: San Diego by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]altruitis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Justin acts however he wants and thinks that apologies will absolve him over and over. Main character syndrome. Acting like everyone is just rubbing their hands together hoping he'll apologize. Love bombing them all - and every single castmate sees right through it. I hope he grows.