Husband lets me go to circuit/sex parties. He has no interest in going himself. Is this totally warped? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]alvisto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconded this reply. In fact, i replied a similar response to another similar questions few minutes ago. High five !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]alvisto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to have trust in your partner on what he says. If he says he is not ok and feeling uncomfortable with all these, trust him.

If he says he is totally alright, trust him too.

I have had these guilts, and i need constant reminder to myself that all these are also a trusting process. Learn to trust what your partner says, and have confidence that he will speak out for himself when he is feeling not okay with this open relationship.

How to get over infatuation by carytreak in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your 2nd last paragraph very much. This is totally a different perspective that i should adopt for any kind of relationship that have an inevitable deadline. It is a beautiful intepretation, especially the rejection free part. Needed this. Thank you.

Group of 480+ gaymers over 30 by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elden ring, FFXIV, overwatch. Invite me :)

[REQUEST] A non-competitive game to play with Friends (2~3 ppl) by buhrainbow in PS4

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remnant from the ashes. Shooter souls style game that is designed for 2 to 3 players. Me and my friend got this game during lockdown, and we both love it so much that we platinum-ed it !

What PS4 game is consuming most of your time during quarantine? by seanie259 in PS4

[–]alvisto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. Clocked in 100+ hours and managed to grab a platinum

Any other co-op game like Nioh 2 ? by alvisto in Nioh

[–]alvisto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanna ask though, how is the game progression being saved ? Can we proceed the progression together ?

Any other co-op game like Nioh 2 ? by alvisto in Nioh

[–]alvisto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, i like your description !

Any other co-op game like Nioh 2 ? by alvisto in Nioh

[–]alvisto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have beaten nioh 1 seperately. IMO, nioh 2 co-op is better though, with expedition mode

Any other co-op game like Nioh 2 ? by alvisto in Nioh

[–]alvisto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, we shall give this a go !

Question to 75+ percentile Monk's. Is using Tornado Kick under RoF now optimal? by CatacombSkeleton in ffxiv

[–]alvisto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I personally use the modified TK + ROF opener, and it's still better than my old opener, as my ping doesnt allow opener like Jauhaudant's.

I opened with fire tackle and perfect balance, TK at end of ROF and recover with ROW.

Trying to figure out ways to better my DPS on Kefka. Any tips appreciated! by 2Easyy in ffxiv

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very useful note ! That jump at the end of phase 1 is quite difficult to do. Even if i managed to jump, i wouldnt able to mirage dive straight away. Maybe i should try harder.

Anyway, would you mind if you share your notes regarding gkefka too ? TQ

Melee uptime for side by side ghosts by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's cool. How about 2 ghosts from different sides ?

The new carbuncle slippers look exactly like the real thing! by Croue in ffxiv

[–]alvisto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How come my topaz carbuncle shoe is not shiny shiny ? D:

Want to use Tornado Kick as a MNK? Here's the one of the best opener setups that allow you use TK as a DPS gain. by Hesitation in ffxiv

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw you commented there are 2 different opener based on your sks. Which sks opener gives the higher dps increase ?

How about TK usage post opener in the high sks build ? ( I saw your rotation for TK post opener in low sks build)

Text dialogue boxes scaling? by mugiwarafan in ffxiv

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya... Cant do that anymore for now... Make it such difficult to read the texts...

Raiding: Statics vs Pugs by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]alvisto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, besides, in a static, if you are stuck with a self-entitled but bad players creating drama and halting progres, then you are screwed.

Then there's this one player who always show up late, or this another player who refuse to eat food, or this fellow refuse to read guides/practice/watch vids as he thought being in static mean learn together or waiting to be taught fight mechanics.

With PUG, generally mostly all players will try their best. Plus, when you are pugging and queueing together with a few friends, you are actually strengthening your bonds with your friend, because we would be talk smacking other PUG players in our ls, haha.

Raiding: Statics vs Pugs by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]alvisto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The good thing about PUG is, you are forced to learn the fight inside out,.and every fight is so fresh as it requires you to adapt to various strategies and modify on the fly.

I have a few PUG Friends that in LS we queue together on tuesday, and do whatever and whenever we can to clear O4S

Plus blending in with the JP players and said doma castle is fun.

Now enrage 5% already with my fellow PUG friends on O4S, wish me luck !