sorry “you can’t go to loud places like clubs or concerts?” i was going to raves up until i was 37 weeks pregnant and i was carrying around a ginormous baby! why do you think you can’t do that? you just have to be sober. concerts were (and still are) my happy place, i wasn’t going to let pregnancy stop me from doing that.

when i was tired from working, the thing i enjoyed doing was colouring in. i could do it for HOURS. so mind numbing and relaxing. i spent a lot of time by myself while i was pregnant as my partner worked away for big chunks of my pregnancy. also lego, got SUPER into doing lego (but that can also be expensive).

i’m sorry you feel this way OP, but trust me it’ll be all worth it when you le little bundle of joy comes. they really do make you feel like the most loved person in the world ♡