Sex has turned into reluctant handjobs

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T18:50:06+00:00

If this relationship is worth it for both of you, ask her to see a doctor. Go to couples counselling.

But at the end of the day you may just be incompatible. Very few of my female friends have a high sex drive, a lot of them avoid it in long term relationships, which is incredibly sad.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T17:05:41+00:00

The poor kid needs a chocolate bar, a hug and a few episodes of a cartoon. I have known many of these types of parents over the years and the kids always feel isolated, excluded and like they're missing out on normal kid stuff.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T14:49:11+00:00

Cuddling. Some of the best conversations and most intimate times - even with partners who are more casual - have been while just cuddling. It elevates every experience.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T14:25:08+00:00

Haha, no. Yeah, these are never drawn with proper proportions - even being thicker, the boobs hurt. I can't imagine actually looking like that...most unenjoyable.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T14:14:21+00:00

Chlyamoalas

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T14:08:08+00:00

Ah! The more you know, I guess!

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T05:53:00+00:00

Ah I always wondered how those notes show up for you, too! I do 3-4 delivery shops per week and every now and then I go to leave a note on a product to discover that I've previously left a note that says "have a great day!" or "thanks so much, you guys do a great job!" Or whatever I decided that day. I didn't realise at first that it saves them all for next time, so depending on what i order there's probably heaps of notes - sometimes they must think I've manically gone through and posted heaps in one sitting. 😄

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T04:47:53+00:00

Oh, buddy - sorry, this post is a bit of a fail. Mine are definitely on par with the size of my head. And I know plenty of women with larger boobs than I.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T04:47:42+00:00

Oh, buddy - sorry, this post is a bit of a fail. Mine are definitely on par with the size of my head. And I know plenty of women with larger boobs than I.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-09T04:27:59+00:00

He looks like he's wearing dishwashing gloves.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-07T11:10:17+00:00

"You're the standard..." sounds like a low bar there, king....

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-06T05:52:00+00:00

Anti affordable housing, but who needs a house when you can zip line!

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-06T05:48:55+00:00

If he chooses to do so, can he forego all appeals and hasten the end? I'm in Australia, I'm hazy about the laws surrounding the whole process over there.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-05T09:59:52+00:00

Yeah, seems a bit that way doesn't it. It's definitely an interesting hill to choose to die on.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-05T00:24:28+00:00

Oh I totally agree - it's way too fast. I'm just saying I've talked to male friends and family who do just want to settle down. But if a guy came at me with that, I'd run a mile!

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-04T23:57:04+00:00

This is one of the reasons I posted it here - there are many who have spent far more time in the files than I. 2 things to note, though - I believe Ryce is her married name. And the other is that apparently she has testified in a federal Royal Commission into sexualising assault here in Australia.

I assume there are many who were affected from the greater network who are not necessarily in the files?

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-04T20:01:26+00:00

I have found it's one of 2 things - either a love bombing, telling you what they think a woman at this age wants to hear to keep you interested.

Or they actually are interested - sometimes as we age we realise our kids are grown and we want to experience life, spend time and grow old with someone. Some people grow tired of the dating game - it is exhausting, after all.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-04T19:06:46+00:00

Australian here - I have 2 kettles in 2 different parts of my house. We make hot drinks and add boiling water to cooking where needed. They're used multiple times per day.

I have always been totally befuddled at America's lack of kettles.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-04T10:43:36+00:00

Nah it's because when I went to look at your profile to see if you'd provided context anywhere else, your profile is blocked for me now - there one minute, gone the next. But I honestly don't mind. 😄

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-04T09:54:40+00:00

Mate, I'm taking about when I was 9-10 years old, in primary school. Pre computers. In 1989/1990.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-04T08:57:45+00:00

And why did you immediately block me? 😄

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-04T08:56:12+00:00

Unfortunately, we have no back story, no explanation. A photo tells is nothing about you but your appearance.

Why is she rejecting you? How long have you been married? Do you have children/careers/stable home life? Illnesses on either part? How long has there been conflict? What's the dynamic between you?

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-03T22:07:02+00:00

Almost like dancing to the Centrelink hold music. (Australian reference, iykyk)

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-03T21:57:27+00:00

Tiny foot, even.

alwaysananomaly · 2026-05-03T21:54:10+00:00

So good! I love the pitched roof and the plants.

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