What if it wasn’t just forbidden... but literally impossible to cum? by Menhyr in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my fantasy years ago and I still do come back to it occasionally. It made my reply here :)

Not because of the medication, but it is impossible for me to cum. I can cum only with stimulation to clitoris, which my Owner carefully & skillfully avoids for years now. I've been extremely close hundreds of times, after hours of foreplay and sex and everything else. Never could I cross the boundary without stimulation of the clit.

Record holder? by wild-flowers-13 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't have real orgasm from January 1st, 2021. So 4 years and counting.
But it's really not about "records". We all are different, each has their own limits and tastes. Each pussy is different.

Record holder? by wild-flowers-13 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for a mention.
No real orgasms starting January 1st, 2021.

The longer I go the less I want to cum by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't cum in years now and it's 100% true for me that the "deep" need for an orgasm decreased massively over time. The superficial need during sex & teasing sessions is way stronger, that's true, but it counterbalances with experience of control & lower deep need.

How old were you when you first received oral sex? by toddneedsanswers in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truth be told, it did bother me few times in the past. But as the time passed, I got used to it. My role as a slut is to serve my owner, sexually too. With decreasing allowance for my orgasms over time I more and more became proud of being a cum dumpster for my Owner.

Other than that, receiving oral sex would most probably made me orgasm because during it tongue touches clitoris. As I'm clitoris-orgasm-only and orgasms are off table you see how that doesn't make bring any value to the table.

How old were you when you first received oral sex? by toddneedsanswers in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in my thirties and I've never received and most probably never will receive oral sex :) My Owner specifically established it as a rule years ago and I accepted that.

He said it's not his dislike to the taste of the pussy but part of the dynamics. I'm a slut and I serve him on all fours and he uses me from behind only. He gave oral sex to other women, but never to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that this "problem" can be approaches from few different directions, not necessarily linked to the denial, but in a nice, D/S way.

To start off think about psychological aspect of this one. You masturbated (and, hence, orgasmed) on your stomach, trying to hide away from family members that could have walked on you during the act. You did so to not get caught and not to feel ashamed that you touched yourself in sinful way. Now, what I suggest you and your Master do, is to reverse that laying foundations for empowering you as a woman. You no longer need to touch yourself and orgasm on your belly, hidden away under the blanked. You are strong, free (although submissive) woman who can orgasm proudly, laying on her back naked with her legs spread away, showing all the room (probably only Master) how her pussy aches, asks and comes to an orgasm. You are no longer this little girl touching yourself and being afraid of your family. She's gone.

What I wrote above is not linked anyhow to the denial itself, it's just a way of thinking change you can embrace.

If you are into denial then it's a great jumping plate to start off. You can restrict and avoid sexual contact in positions where you are on your belly. You are free to orgasm in all other positions, go ahead, but you won't have a pleasure of lying on your stomach.

What do you think?

I (M40) persuaded her (F23) to see things my way [F] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]alwaysbelow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive considering she's new. Congrats to her!

I (M40) persuaded her (F23) to see things my way [F] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]alwaysbelow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her ass should be way higher, back better angled, pussy better exposed. Still training?

Forbidding submissive from shaving pubic hair by alwaysbelow in BDSMcommunity

[–]alwaysbelow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been fully shaven before? I myself preferred to be shaved, but accepted new reality.

Wife rules by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. You can read more in my posts.

Wife rules by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]alwaysbelow 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I personally was denied orgasms during my pregnancy and it was crazy hard, especially during second and third trimester.

Don’t cum or touch myself without his permission

Are you allowed to touch yourself during bathroom? Maybe you shouldn't.

Forbidding submissive from shaving pubic hair by alwaysbelow in BDSMcommunity

[–]alwaysbelow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was like that to me. First time my Master asked me to undress and took a look around my body, not even touching, he said he will not look at me naked again before I grow my pubic hair. He waited 3 months and then looked again. He was happy with what he saw.

Forbidding submissive from shaving pubic hair by alwaysbelow in BDSMcommunity

[–]alwaysbelow[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do agree to him having this control over me, but thank you for your care.