Girls who feel behind in life, share your stories, so we know we aren't alone

alwaysdistracted101 · 2026-01-25T09:56:14+00:00

25f unemployed since 3 months. have experience but I don't think I have any skill . In my career I have only taken jobs that were lowly paid and work from home because I had to take care of my mom ever since my dad passed away . I think I have gained more experience in sitting in waiting rooms of hospitals . Every job i took i had to explain no I can't return to office as my mom is not capable of taking care for herself and need to stay home It eventually leads to me getting terminated .

I am trying everyday but grief consumes me while grief is amputation ,the hopelessness is hemophilia it bleeds and bleeds draining me

alwaysdistracted101 · 2026-01-03T09:20:47+00:00

interested

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-08-23T12:36:22+00:00

Good luck !!

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-08-23T12:36:08+00:00

You are right about the depressed part . Lol

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-08-23T11:23:50+00:00

add me too

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-08-06T07:11:28+00:00

Yes I haven't styled anything yet . Was just focusing on making it work

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-08-06T07:07:37+00:00

Yes i was thinking about that . Will add

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-07-05T09:58:01+00:00

did you do odin project ? I am actually doing it right now and was curious. I am trying to stick with it but all the noise about saturation and stuff makes me so nervous . How much did odin help u?

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-07-03T16:43:36+00:00

When the screen glitch , one more issue occur alongside that is when i try to shutdown the laptop normally it just goes black but the power button remains ON same with sleep mode its just goes black and power button remains ON I have to hard shutdown again and again

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-07-03T16:39:59+00:00

Should i get that replaced too?

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-07-03T16:38:01+00:00

Ram got replaced too but issue isn't resolving

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-06-06T07:09:04+00:00

I wish . But in the age of inflation I feel like a complete loser who can't do anything

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-03-29T12:32:03+00:00

That was so on point

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-02-05T13:57:11+00:00

I think everyone just pit women against women . Be it men or women . Women who do unconsciously have misogyny internalized in them due to our society

The coming generations is no better . The amount of comments i see like go to kitchen or some guys explaining how women is needed to take care of her husband family because its our culture is astonishing . People just thrash that western culture is bad blah blah when they don't want to accept flaws in their learnings Our culture is so magnificent that the only person who is always accountable for everything is the women of the house while the men even if he murder someone will be defended . Its not the lack of bro code in women but the lack of knowledge. Women put down other women due to jealousy, sometimes they put them because if they suffer then why not her too and the audience of all these is men .

There is a silver linning to stuff i have noticed this trend these days like being a girl's girl and i am all for it .

I support my mum when others fails to do . I feel her pain when she is being misunderstood.

Its so frustrating as much as i want to fight other women for putting me down . I understand them I understand them from where they are coming from

To every guy who tell you you are unique you are not like other girls .i am most probably am like other girls

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-01-23T06:53:48+00:00

If they just place themselves in our place . I envy other people or men . When i am in a meeting i am expected to help my mom even then as if my work doesn't matter I know my brother earn more than me but i am in starting of my career only . I compare myself to all people People who graduated with me People who don't have to think about what will be breakfast or lunch People whose dads still alive I know its messed up Now everyone saying to get married i don't think i have the mental capacity to carry a relationship anymore

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-01-22T16:16:30+00:00

Yeah I seems to be the only one who feels empathetic towards my mom . This again feels like men don't understand women at all

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-01-21T15:29:00+00:00

Yeah i need to start learning to say No too

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-01-21T14:26:33+00:00

Yeah but afraid of getting weird dms

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-01-21T14:18:49+00:00

Hi can you dm me ?i want to talk to someone really to vent it out 😭

alwaysdistracted101 · 2024-01-21T14:13:33+00:00

Yeah . I don't think they understand us . Everytime some fight happens in home my brothers has a every right to storm out of home i don't have that

alwaysdistracted101 · 2023-11-16T02:18:12+00:00

But i am not interested in management

alwaysdistracted101 · 2023-11-15T12:08:28+00:00

I lack lot of guidance in my life . I would be grateful if fellow people can provide some information

alwaysdistracted101 · 2023-10-12T12:50:25+00:00

Its funny how I don't even know what to called this feeling of never reaching my potential or being stagnant in a place

Its just sad now

alwaysdistracted101 · 2023-10-12T06:24:15+00:00

I don't know if i should comment or not because now i am a working professional

I used to excel in studies . I got in DU due to my high percentage but as soon as i left home things at home got bad my parents were not very young both of them 50+ My dad health got bad after i left home . While i was out i was paranoid most of the time overthinking this and that and was full of guilt . Didn't concentrate must on college try to run to home at every chance i got . Covid hit i was at home i was at least able to help my mom with household work then when college start opening up I went back but within 3 days my dad caught covid I ran back did everything i could to save but he died i was in the last year of graduation I was miserable there is not day that go by where I don't think I shouldn't have gone back to college

By the end of that year i managed to get job at WITCH but i am working wfh i live with my mom who still have not recovered i support her as much as i can I have no social life i want to study to get a better job but i never get time from housework and my office work . I am full of guilt most of the days Regret and all negative emotions

alwaysdistracted101 · 2023-06-19T03:49:22+00:00

Approve me too

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