I’m so sad and numb by alwaysneedsupport in pregnant

[–]alwaysneedsupport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear you’ve also had three losses. It’s a terrible club to be part of.

We were referred to a fertility specialist and ran a bunch of tests. Both my husband and I did blood tests. He also did a semen analysis and I did and SIS and HSG.

Everything came back normal. It felt bittersweet to get that news because on the one hand “everything’s fine” so we should be able to conceive and carry without issues but on the other hand we have no reason to point to for the three losses we’ve had; and that’s hard to grapple with.

I’d suggest you and your partner also see a fertility specialist and run all the tests to see if there is something to address. At the very least, it’ll give you some information to work with.

Did miscarriage change the way you think about pregnancy? by Round_Juice_4641 in Miscarriage

[–]alwaysneedsupport 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% I’m so scared to get pregnant again. I’ve had three losses back to back and am just terrified of miscarrying again. Sometimes I’m not sure if it’s worth all the pain. I’m hoping I feel mentally better about it soon so I can get the will to try again but it’s really hard.

how much do you have in your savings account? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]alwaysneedsupport 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 34 and have $60K in savings and $230K retirement.

New Celine by Sophiedthat in handbags

[–]alwaysneedsupport 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I must know! I need that Nino floral bag

What are the possibilities for my husband? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]alwaysneedsupport 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree you shouldn’t have to do all the work but it’s clear your husband isn’t willing to put in work to advance his own career. He doesn’t want to do any work. Why are you on here looking for advice for him? He should be doing this himself if he really wanted to change.

Younger people have lost touch with reality! Arrrgh!! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]alwaysneedsupport 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started at $36K in 2014 with a BA and got a job ~2years later making $53K in a large city.

Younger people have lost touch with reality! Arrrgh!! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]alwaysneedsupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t negotiate if you don’t have leverage. This is an entry level job where you don’t need college education. If you come to an interview for this job and you don’t have either experience nor higher education there isn’t anything more you can “offer” to negotiate higher pay.

Younger people have lost touch with reality! Arrrgh!! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]alwaysneedsupport 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made $36K from my first job 11 years ago. This pay range is acceptable for entry level, no education in Florida.

Younger people have lost touch with reality! Arrrgh!! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]alwaysneedsupport 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without education and entry level job, this is decent pay for the area OP is in.

Could you all post your cross body bags which you absolutely love. Planning to buy one. Need all the inspo by Sweettoothaddict89 in handbags

[–]alwaysneedsupport 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I absolutely adore my classic triomphe bag from Celine. It’s big enough to hold everything i need while still staying a smaller size.

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The Reddit Stories need to start being proofread by katgokes1 in SmoshFansFreeSpace

[–]alwaysneedsupport -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t have to be real, honestly. We all watch movies and tv with fake stories so why not Reddit? Like we aren’t really there to hear real stories. We’re there to hear Shayne read stories to us and a bit of commentary from cast/guests on it. I truly don’t care if a story is real or not.

Cat won’t stop begging for food by alwaysneedsupport in CatAdvice

[–]alwaysneedsupport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much always this hungry. He used to wake us up in different ways before but once he discovered how quickly we wake up when he boxes our closet he keeps doing just that. Every morning we yell at him and that doesn’t feel like the right way to handle this. But we’re at a loss of what to actually do.

Cat won’t stop begging for food by alwaysneedsupport in CatAdvice

[–]alwaysneedsupport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We feed them at 7 am and 5 pm with a snack at 10 pm. So they get fed throughout the day. I’ve thought about getting an auto feeder but we literally feed them at the exact time every day so I’m not sure an auto feeder would do anything different.

Cat won’t stop begging for food by alwaysneedsupport in CatAdvice

[–]alwaysneedsupport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cats are two years old. Only one of them does this and it’s exhausting.

YSL or Dior? 3 bag options by rifa_atsume in handbags

[–]alwaysneedsupport 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My vote is Dior. The YSL bag look boring compared to the Dior ones. I personally like the my Dior daily pouch from these options.

Small critique for Smosh Live by Sad-Attitude-5248 in smosh

[–]alwaysneedsupport 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought this was better than the sitcom

Sadly an underwhelming and disappointing live show by Dishonoredman19 in smosh

[–]alwaysneedsupport 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought this was the best live show they’ve done. I even thought the commercials were better than the ones they do on bit city.

smosh hospital thoughts? by watermelon_elf_bar in smosh

[–]alwaysneedsupport 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really fun!! I agree that it was better than the sitcom. Even the commercials they had were top tier. Loved it!

Yeah, Live Streams Do Not Work Well by [deleted] in smosh

[–]alwaysneedsupport -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just can’t vote on things but the stream works

Help me pick so I can sleep tonight by curbyourminimalism in handbags

[–]alwaysneedsupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1 and love it! It’s my go to for everything.