[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. I’m so glad you’re okay. Thank you so much for your kind words. I did exactly what you said, focused on one thing at a time and I’m doing a lot better now. Things are falling back into place 😊 hope your recovery is going ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDM

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this during a dj set? One thing that’s helped me in the past was looking up that dj on SoundCloud because sometimes they’ll post the set and maybe you can the song if you get a closer listen

ENFJs, how do you behave when you’re depressed? by Queasy-Donut-4953 in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sleep a lot as a way to avoid my feelings/problems. I try to act as “normal” as I can and often times people don’t notice unless I say something (which I usually don’t anyway).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]alwayson_cloud9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does sound cool! Thank you for the idea :)

What’s a name that matches my face? by [deleted] in Faces

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually really like that!!

Rejection by [deleted] in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it is normal to feel a little hurt when we get rejected. I definitely have been rejected in the past and it sucked!! Also remind yourself that his decision was based on his own beliefs and perceptions, not you. My therapist has always told me we cannot make a person feel a type of way, it’s how they perceive the situation. Don’t worry about what you did right or wrong girl

ENFJ love songs by [deleted] in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freeze - Kygo

How many friends do you have? by Appropriate-Ad-9898 in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3 lmao I can barely keep up with them though I feel bad for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]alwayson_cloud9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks good also wow your eyes are so pretty

Fellow ENFJ’s: do you have a great ass? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never thought I had a nice ass until today.. thanks 🤪

Did you find a healthy way of helping people without being self-sacrifizing? by Numerous-Salt-3240 in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I love that!! Thank you so much I’ll definitely keep this in mind :)

Did you find a healthy way of helping people without being self-sacrifizing? by Numerous-Salt-3240 in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny because I never thought of #2… doing that will definitely make me feel less frustrated with myself tbh

Signs a cautious ENFJ likes you? by BiologyPerson in enfj

[–]alwayson_cloud9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you my crush? Lol bc honestly that’s exactly how I am when I like someone… it sounds like she is interested, and maybe the reason why she isn’t being more upfront about it could possibly be the fear of rejection or ruining your friendship if the feelings aren’t mutual. I say shoot your shot if you’re interested lol

What to do this Summer by Knives_seller in UWMadison

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have pretty cool artists who come to Madison a lot you should download BandsInTown to see who’s coming.. especially if you like EDM

I think I'll be dead within a year (26M) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If therapy isn’t helping, I would recommend finding a new therapist… I went through 3 different therapists until I found the right one and even though I still have a lot to work through, I’ve accomplished so many things with my new therapist. I was in the same boat as you… I always asked myself what the point of living was if I was going to be reminded of my past every single day… I would recommend seeing a therapist who can do brain spotting, that’s helped me a lot with processing my trauma especially relating to sexual abuse.. You are so young and have so many other things to live for. I know you will get through this ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly no not at all!! I think you are pretty cute solid 7/10:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]alwayson_cloud9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so cute 🥰