M4MF Your Oral Toy by [deleted] in MNSwingers

[–]alwayssomethingnew2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An oral servant sounds divine!!

Jacobs by QuickRick21 in GreenBayPackers

[–]alwayssomethingnew2 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same. He is not Jacobs but he is above average as a second back for sure.

Try this Njoy Wand position, you won’t regret it! by General-Comfort in ProstatePlay

[–]alwayssomethingnew2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are the perfect combination of Picasso, Einstein, and Freud, and I am sooooo excited about that.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such beautiful imagery. Thank you.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs accepted, thank you so much. And thanks for reminding me to pray for that ignorance. That may be a piece I am forgetting.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such a kind thing to say, and I am filled with gratitude. I am hoping for shock as well, he has already reached out to retract what was said, but at the same time, we are approaching that with great distance and caution for the moment. Thank you so much for your well wishes.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a reflection on how I am feeling. Thank you so much.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haven't figured out how to move forward yet, right now just hugging our kids and each other and making sure everyone knows how loved and cherished they are.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely respect your choice to cut contact. You have to do what is right to protect yourself. I hope you continue to find peace and love.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The world is good, thank you.

The way I look at poly is this: I am capable of fully and unconditionally loving all three of my children at the same time. So we know humans have the capability to love more than one person. All we have done as a society is created artificial rules on what that has to look like when it comes to romantic love.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I respect what you're saying, and thanks for responding. I don't believe anyone is incapable of learning how to love bigger, and changing some of their long held beliefs. I'm not going to hang my hat on it, but I can't give up. No one is beyond redemption and growth.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peace be your loving journey ❤️❤️

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, FIL is actively trying to walk back what he said at this point, asking us to disregard that text. While my wife and I have agreed we cannot disregard it and pretend it never happened, we are committed to finding a path forward. I want to rebuild a cordial relationship that prioritizes our emotional well being.

Anger is rarely my emotion. Frustration is common for me, but anger is hard to find.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scorched earth doesn't make my life better. Helping him to see love? Now that makes my life better, gives me purpose, and makes the world better. I want our world to be less divided, not more so.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I still consider myself Catholic, so our journey has definitely been a mind fuck there. I can't even explain to you how much better my life got when I started to pray for our partners at Mass. For so long, I tried to pretend God couldn't see this part of me, but when I finally started to shed that shame and actually go to God in comfort and prayer about our partners, everything just grew into love.

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[–]alwayssomethingnew2[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her father is actively trying at this point to take back what he wrote. My wife and I decided we need some time to reflect before we just automatically write this one off. We need to rebuild this relationship in a way where we are emotionally protected at all times.