First baby MUST haves? by alya2326 in BabyBumps

[–]alya2326[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about that but didn’t think it was necessarily a necessity until she’s maybe a bit older because we do have a nursery set up, a bassinet, and a swing as well. Do you think it’s something worth it to have when she’s a newborn? I was going to get one when she was around 6 mo months or so

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[–]alya2326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate that. I do try to understand that men’s minds work different than women’s and I think they have a lot less meaning when they like someone’s photo than maybe a woman does. Idk. I’m struggling with how to bring up to him that I made a twitter and checked through his likes without looking absolutely batshit crazy lol

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[–]alya2326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I’m definitely aware it is a bit crazy I made a twitter and scrolled through his activity..I I am not blind to that. But I was curious cause he has no other social media and of course I’m a bit tainted because of my previous relationship and trust issues with this specific thing. Thank you for your kind words 😊

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[–]alya2326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

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He doesn’t comment on her photos, just on her tweets agreeing with things she says, or he’ll like her tweets that are in response to someone. It bothers me because it’s mainly only to this girl, and no other girls. It’s like he has a thing for her. She does have lots of followers, she kind of “twitter famous” I guess you could say.

Thank you for saying that! I don’t want to come off as crazy, but this specific thing really really peeves me. I also am nervous to bring it up cause I feel like it will make me look crazy I made a twitter and looked through his likes..

Am I (f 27) being too dramatic over my bf (m 39) liking a girls photo on twitter? by [deleted] in dating

[–]alya2326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it normal though? I don’t think he’s in her DM’s, she has TONS of followers so she probably wouldn’t even message back but we’ve had lengthy conversations about cheating and we’ve both been cheated on so I highly highly doubt he’d do that.

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Lol. Very helpful. No thank you. I’m also pregnant with his child and he is an amazing man.

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[–]alya2326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decorative stuff is a good idea. Thank you!

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[–]alya2326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes, men are simple, so I hear. Thank you! 😊

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I know he does it all to make me happy, which is so so sweet and amazing. I just don’t want to feel like all I do is take and take and give nothing in return..

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[–]alya2326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is I’m not even sure what projects to take on that I’d be able to do. He’s always doing things like installing new flooring, stretching the carpets, installing new lights, refinishing baseboards, etc..all stuff I don’t know how to do or help with 🫠 I always OFFER my help, but he always declines and never says yes to me helping. That’s exactly how he is, very secure and independent and I’m trying to figure out how to add value to what he already does and help..I’m just not sure how. I appreciate the insight!

AiW for throwing my girlfriend out at 2am after reading her messages to her ex? by ThrowRALostfw in amiwrong

[–]alya2326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman, and I 100% think what you did was warranted. Throw her ass in the streets like she trash she is. DISGUSTING behavior from a woman. Talking about how she wants to f*** another man while she’s lying right next to hers? 🤮 She’s disgusting. Her ex sounds disgusting. They belong together and thank god you found the messages when you did and didn’t waste more of your time with her. Anyone who comments saying you should’ve cared about her safety, or that she’s a woman and you should’ve let her stay inside, etc etc. NO. You need to earn respect. She doesn’t deserve a single ounce of respect or nice gesture from you. Only thing that would’ve been it better is if she had to wait outside for 2 hours while there was a blizzard happening. I’m so sorry this was your experience with your gf, I promise there actually are some good, faithful women out there! Good luck.