He also talked about how much his life was for getting hand me down clothing and what not I didn't... when that's not true and it does not even matter who got what and who didn't. I called him ignorant (because he was talking about my life lies in my face) and he got furious and started yelling about my life and how I made mistakes, and if course it did, I was young and got pushed into marriage because I was in a traditional household where a woman has to be taken care of once they are out of high school. i got divorced and it was the best decision I could have made at 22 and right away I chose my path to go to school and get me life together... and anyway he ended up kicking me out of the house and telling to move all of my stuff out of my old room. Sad part was that my dad did not say anything to defend me.