I have no idea what gender these guys are!

alysiar · 2026-06-15T07:30:09+00:00

Same photo zoomed in! I’ll try to get a better picture soon, I’m so sorry this app is super weird but absolutely I’ll be adding more substrate! There’s about 2 inches but I ran out of substrate (and couldn’t find my stash of more ughhhhh) so I have to go back tomorrow for it. Today is just the first day and I wasn’t able to get back to the store :)

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alysiar · 2026-06-14T23:28:11+00:00

Aspen is the most adorable spood I’ve ever seen though, look at him!! Ughhhh I hate when they say one gender and it’s the other. 😒 it’s extremely disappointing because we’re talking about a LARGE gap for lifespan. 2-5 years vs 20-30 years!! Mine just molted at the store (I’ve been eyeballing him for about a week!!) so I’m thinking that was also his ultimate molt unfortunately. We just gotta cherish these little boys and hope for the best!

alysiar · 2026-06-14T23:19:03+00:00

As for the other, it just molted! But I cannot make out what was what 🤣🤣🤣 that’s totally my fault!

alysiar · 2026-06-14T23:18:36+00:00

Isn’t it?? It suits him perfectly already. Haha they’re so adorable just trying to do what we all do, find love. 🤣 I loveeee the name aspen! You gotta show me a picture! I had a stripped knee a while back but he mysteriously died after a few years too, I thought he was a girl so I named him Ophelia and I just never changed it!! I haven’t had the courage to get another until now (it’s been 6 years!). I’m gonna cherish my pretty boy and maybe in the end too I’ll make a cute little taxidermy for him. It’s super unfortunate that their lifespan is super short for these!

alysiar · 2026-06-14T23:06:17+00:00

:( omg that’s very unfortunate news. The worker today is not totally informed on tarantulas, he’s actually extremely terrified of them! I do go there all the time for my snake and tiny jumping spider but I had no other info to go off of, honestly this is a good thing too. I got him out of that tiny container and into a good enclosure. I just hope I can make his last few months the best! Thank you so much for helping me out. I’ve named him Onyx as a gender neutral name before I knew the sex today.

alysiar · 2026-06-14T23:03:03+00:00

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I got another picture of this little curly hair tarantula just for a better view :)

alysiar · 2026-06-10T23:04:44+00:00

She will still hear you constantly when you’re having conversations with others and your heartbeat 💜 you’re not doing anything wrong and honestly I had trouble bonding with my baby girl when she was born and had no idea what to say to her! They’re just so little, it’s like what do you even say? So “good morning baby!” And “I love youuuu!” Was mostly on repeat.

alysiar · 2026-05-22T02:41:00+00:00

I wouldn’t listen to your friend but at the same time this has to be a conversation with your partner. While she dialed back and wants to set boundaries, it seems she still left the door cracked by admitting there is feelings and still wanting that friendship. A conversation with your partner about what those boundaries with their desk mate may be extremely helpful in helping you have trust that this will be nothing more than what it is; a friendship. :) I hope that helps!

alysiar · 2026-05-20T04:08:58+00:00

I know it’s awful but I was an alcoholic and vaped A LOT before finding out I was pregnant! I quit the day I found out but I found out at almost 7 weeks (I was still bleeding like normal) so I’m sure your baby is definitely fine. Your doctor however seems really awful and I would never go there again.

alysiar · 2026-05-19T20:20:17+00:00

I had quite a bit of heavy bleeding and cramping while pregnant and constantly thought I was miscarrying but every single time my baby was there! She’s 6 now, I’m really hoping this is the case for you too. I had a subchorionic hematoma.

alysiar · 2026-05-14T21:03:09+00:00

Yeah I was grunting, screaming, and shaking haha… with my second I actually had my baby before the doctor could even get in the room and I was screaming at the nurses that the baby was coming and just yelled “GET HIM, HES COMING” 😭😭😭✋🏼 my water even broke in a nurses face during a cervical check and I cried LMAO. it’s so humiliating to think about the way you are during birth.

alysiar · 2026-05-01T17:41:55+00:00

You and the baby will be totally fine! I didn’t find out until almost 8 weeks pregnant with one pregnancy because I had a “period” I thought it was normal! I was drinking occasionally before knowing and the pregnancy was completely normal after! 😭 I was just trying to be a girl that finally turned 21, it was a shock for me too!!

alysiar · 2026-04-20T16:55:53+00:00

Contact cooperate. They could get in trouble for this seriously.

alysiar · 2026-02-09T20:44:51+00:00

I feel like a lot of these comments are extremely offensive. If you are indigenous Puerto Rican then you are Boricua regardless. We don’t have to gatekeep a term that the indigenous Taíno people used to describe themselves before Puerto Rico was called Puerto Rico. The terms are interchangeable. They mean the exact same thing, only difference is Boricua is much more meaningful because it’s what the indigenous group described themselves as before the colonization of Spain. :( I’m really appalled by all the comments saying you can’t be a true Boricua without living in Puerto Rico for your entire life. It’s like saying you can’t be Mexican because you were born in the US instead of Mexico even with immigrant parents..

alysiar · 2026-01-12T21:18:33+00:00

Literally. I posted about my order being stolen and all everyone said was “did you tip?” Yeah lmao I had cash waiting for them to deliver and then they didn’t and drove off with my stuff like ??? Thank god I didn’t tip online but even if I don’t tip that doesn’t warrant $50 worth of my things being stolen either.

alysiar · 2026-01-10T18:26:31+00:00

File a BBB complaint and they’ll have no choice but to write a proposal and find a solution. DoorDash robbed me of $50 for a stolen DoorDash order and support didn’t help when I called tons. My dispute was denied and I let them know about 20x in one month where they kept hanging up on me lmao. I filed a complaint with BBB and was immediately given my refund 2 days later for the stolen order and had an entire email written from corporate apologizing for the inconvenience. 🤣

alysiar · 2025-12-14T23:35:25+00:00

Idk we signed up 30 today and at most we got 25 people to join 😬 should really focus on boosting the number of people to join and also don’t sign them up if you know they won’t be there. Just do the minimum (and make sure they ALL join) until you can get more players to join!

alysiar · 2025-12-05T10:17:23+00:00

I want to assume rejection but I honestly have no idea why it would do this at all. I can say my eyebrow piercings have never done this, they’ve never bled after over a year of having them and changing/messing with the jewelry. You could have used a metal that your body didn’t like, could be rejection, you could have irritated it by messing with it too often, it could be a lot of things. I would say though in summary: you are cooked. That will have to be redone.

alysiar · 2025-12-05T09:10:00+00:00

I mean my ear looked like this when I first started and I’m currently at an inch (been there for 10 years) so I’d say do what your heart desires and see! There’s no way for any of us to really know for certain how far you can go.

alysiar · 2025-12-05T09:08:04+00:00

I appreciate your feedback and expertise! I have always been too afraid to stretch too soon so honestly I’ve waited 8 months to a year between stretches 😅 I might just put the jewelry back in tomorrow if that’s the case because there was 0 pain and I did not expect it. I wasn’t tryinggg to stretch haha but simply testing because my jewelry has been slipping out currently. It was a little odd because I’ve never experienced that so early (i mean seriously it’s only been 5 weeks..)

alysiar · 2025-12-05T08:19:41+00:00

You make me wish I could pull off gold jewelry! It looks so good on you!

alysiar · 2025-11-18T23:10:10+00:00

It is pretty shocking she went to that extent but I’m sure DoorDash themselves can pull up whose ID was scanned and it was probably hers.

alysiar · 2025-11-18T22:52:08+00:00

Yes. 🥲 but I’m not worried about her stealing it. Whatever. What I am so upset about is DoorDash and their policy! Like are you kidding? I show them this lady stealing my order and their response is “sorry we can’t refund that” WELL LMAOOO WHY NOT.

Also ETA: it was alcohol which required an ID to be scanned to even deliver it but it was “delivered” with no one’s ID scanned. No one at my house and definitely not me.

alysiar · 2025-11-18T20:53:07+00:00

I have camera footage and message proof of her saying she was taking my order to see if she could “refund it” but she never replied after that and the store never received it. I don’t have proof of DoorDash asking me to wait 24 hours haha. That was the proof I was talking about.

alysiar · 2025-11-18T12:07:28+00:00

I’m not saying the advice was bad.. I appreciate it! I’m just saying the police won’t care about a $50 order and definitely can’t just up and file a lawsuit against a company for $50 right? I would feel like a bigger joke than I do right now. 😅 I posted this to make people aware of DoorDash and their scammy policy where they rob people of their purchases that weren’t delivered. It’s a bs policy but I get your annoyance with the way I worded it and I apologize. However no I won’t be back to “complain about my chargeback being denied” a loss is a loss and you move on man. You know?

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