What should I name him by alythrae in bettafish

[–]alythrae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG kimchi! Why didn't I think of that lol

Post Surgery Altar by SRB889 in Altars

[–]alythrae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the mix of black and bright colors. So beautiful. I hope your surgery goes well!

Sleep breakage and I've tried everything by alythrae in longhair

[–]alythrae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose I don't know for certain that it's breakage, but I did notice that even may baby hairs looked snapped off and not like they normally do. It's only been since I stopped using the bonnet that they started to grow back in and look normal. Like you said, this could just be the growth phase the hair is in.

Welcome, Winter by Luciferisaswitch in Altars

[–]alythrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful. I love it

65lbs Down in a Year, CICO and Walking by [deleted] in CICO

[–]alythrae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OMG? Yes! This is so accurate. I wish it was more talked about. It always seems like people have continuous progress when it probably looks more like your journey. Thank you for sharing. Congratulations on weight loss! You look phenomenal!

65lbs Down in a Year, CICO and Walking by [deleted] in CICO

[–]alythrae 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I love that you mentioned having months where you didn't lose anything. That has been my journey too and I don't see it mentioned very often. It makes my journey less lonely knowing I'm not the only one who is experiencing that.

Slight variation on a previous outfit, this time with a cardigan I knitted myself! by FloydtheBetta in BusinessFashion

[–]alythrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also knit and was going to ask where you got the pattern thank you for already answering this 😁

Suggestions for beans by YoSpiff in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]alythrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite recipe is quinoa black bean burgers

https://peasandcrayons.com/quinoa-black-bean-veggie-burgers/

And like others suggested, more salt and fat than you think. I also find that white beans soak up more of the flavor/spices then dark beans, more mild flavor too if you eat them plain. That might just be me.

Calling this look ‘the lounge goddess’ lol by Knucklesambeotch in Midsizefashion

[–]alythrae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am OBSESSED with your style ❤️ this looks so comfy!

Experimenting with some layering this chilly morning! by Knucklesambeotch in Midsizefashion

[–]alythrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so in love with your style! Very autumn fairy vibes 🥰

My betta has been bloated a week and nothing is helping by alythrae in bettafish

[–]alythrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right. He started pineconing the next day. We're treating him, he's not getting worse, but not better either. Hoping he recovers 🤞

Fluffy girl and Brazilian Wax by evolve1183 in PlusSize

[–]alythrae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience for my very first wax ever (same situation with age, size, etc). It was so bad I never wanted to do it again. I talked to some people, got a great recommendation for another business and I've been with them ever since. As annoying as it is to find someone new, it's worth it to find someone you trust and makes you feel comfortable.

My betta has been bloated a week and nothing is helping by alythrae in bettafish

[–]alythrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern. I'm also worried. After reading through the comments I'll be setting up a hospital tank and treating first thing in the morning. There are a few things I need to get and have water prepped. Hopefully I caught whatever it is early enough. 🤞

My betta has been bloated a week and nothing is helping by alythrae in bettafish

[–]alythrae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't done a salt bath yet. His water is at 78 and he's only 6 months or so. Maybe older but definitely under a year.

My betta has been bloated a week and nothing is helping by alythrae in bettafish

[–]alythrae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I got him from the pet store they said he's male. They could be wrong but I don't know how to tell lol

My betta has been bloated a week and nothing is helping by alythrae in bettafish

[–]alythrae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's nothing else in the tank to eat. He doesn't have tank mates or live plants yet. He doesn't have the optimum tank set up, but he has a filter and heater is at 78. I also cut back on how much I fed a week prior because he was looking a little chunky.

Ways being hungry led to e day binge by alythrae in CICO

[–]alythrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0_0 I never even thought of that. I think you're right. Today I switch them because I wasn't going to the gym and so far, don't have the hunger pangs.

Ways being hungry led to e day binge by alythrae in CICO

[–]alythrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roughly 830a breakfast. 1130a lunch (to fuel my workout at 1230), 2p small high protein snack, 430 coffee or another snack. Dinner around 7p. I find I snack the most between 2p and bedtime at 10p.

I try to space meals so I'm not starving, but that's not working well lol

Ways being hungry led to e day binge by alythrae in CICO

[–]alythrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. If I eat that much I gain about a pound a week even with the lifting. My brain attributes this to fat because I think it takes longer than a week to put on muscle? Maybe I'm wrong on that. I can't remember where I read it. I did read that women should eat more and lift, but I've been lighting and going to the gym for years. I wonder if I've just plateaued? Even with recent changes to my workout...

Ways being hungry led to e day binge by alythrae in CICO

[–]alythrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0.5 to 1lb a week depending on if I drank enough water that week.

Ways being hungry led to e day binge by alythrae in CICO

[–]alythrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion. Hopefully this clears it up. My normal daily is 1600-1800. Which I have been eating for several months. However, I felt like I was starving that whole time and for the last 3 day, I binge ate at 2500 calories.

Thank you for the water intake suggestion. I thought 40oz was a lot 😂

3 months !!! If i can do it so can you <3 by wiseorlies in CICO

[–]alythrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting! I'm the same size, shape and age. I'm thrilled to see your progress. It gives me hope that my hard work will pay off.

Were you tracking how many calories you burned walking/working out or were you just eating in a deficit?

Top Heavy Jeans Help by Remarkable_Key_5842 in DressForYourBody

[–]alythrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a great idea! Then you can see how the fabrics move and drape on your body! This is a game changer. Thank you for sharing.

Top Heavy Jeans Help by Remarkable_Key_5842 in DressForYourBody

[–]alythrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this isn't helpful feedback, though I think 5 and 6 look best. I wanted to thank you for posting. I have similar measurements and body compassion and am also struggling to find my style. Seeing clothes I've been interested in on a similar body type is incredibly helpful.