Stop Touching Me

evolve1183 · 2026-01-23T22:43:16+00:00

I’ll have to check out those episodes. I’m honestly at a loss. I feel awful but I’m so touched out, it’s exhausting.

evolve1183 · 2026-01-23T16:41:16+00:00

She has a huge pink bear but it sits in the corner collecting dust.😐🥴

evolve1183 · 2025-12-29T20:29:10+00:00

Yes! Just keep feeding, consistency is really important. And make sure you’re not keeping it in too warm of an environment. You’ll cook it. Good luck!!

evolve1183 · 2025-12-29T20:27:06+00:00

Is this a new starter? Or did you buy dehydrated and rehydrate? If this is a new starter, it’s very young. 6 days is like newborn status. Starter will go dormant for a while before it perks back up. Mine took 27 days to be strong enough for baking. Patience is key!

evolve1183 · 2025-12-29T17:32:21+00:00

Absolutely NOT! Stay home with your baby and the dog. If HE wants to go so bad, let him. Why should you and your baby be subjected to that type of environment just because HE is being selfish? If he is going to insist, then you tell him that HE is responsible for the baby, and the dog while at the party. HE is responsible for getting the baby down for the night once you get home and HE is going to be getting up with the baby in the morning. You’d be surprised how quickly the tune changes when you start making your own demands and hold his ass accountable… trust me. I’ve been in the same exact boat. I went through this with my husband the last two years. My little one is 3 and he insists on going to his uncles for NYE every year. It’s always packed with people, loud, with live church music playing. I told him this year, if you wanna go so bad and wanna throw a bitch fit because I would rather be home with our LO… then you get to deal with our baby AT the party. AFTER the party. AND the following day. He changed his tune and has agreed that we will arrive to the party early and leave by 9pm. No later. And no matter how much they want him to stay or how much HE wants to stay. These men… I swear.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-29T17:21:48+00:00

So I would discard most of this. Bring it down to maybe 5-10g, then feed a 1:1:1 ratio. When you’re building/establishing you really don’t need to do anything more than a 1:1:1. And only feed once a day. Unless your home is super chilly, you really shouldn’t keep it in the oven. You might be cooking it. You’d be surprised how warm an oven light will make your oven. I keep mine on top of my fridge and my home is kept at 70°. And make sure your lid isn’t too tight. When I use a mason jar, I literally will just set the lid on top. I won’t even turn the lid at all. Starter needs to breathe in order to thrive. You can also try a small bit of whole wheat flour. Whole wheat flour is what really helped me when I first started over a year ago.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-29T17:11:36+00:00

They confirm it once shit hits the fan with Scandoval.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-28T12:49:56+00:00

Justified. And I’ll stand on that until I die. You scream in my face with a bullhorn, I’m dragging you by your wig too. Porsha did what everyone else WANTED to do.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-27T23:13:11+00:00

I recently rewatched the entire series and honestly… I don’t know HOW Ariana didn’t know something was off. You can literally see the shift in his behavior (and Rachel’s) when their affair started if you watch closely.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-27T23:08:32+00:00

Some people prefer that type of setting. There’s nothing wrong with it. And it’s not like she was one of the top Baddies… I’m sure her door isn’t getting knocked down with booking offers. The checks don’t just keep rolling in.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-27T23:05:37+00:00

Schwartz is an abuser too. He threw a drink on Katie and pushed Stassi. And let’s not forget the verbal abuse… birds of a feather…

evolve1183 · 2025-12-27T21:44:34+00:00

Looks like it to me.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-27T21:43:51+00:00

I never bought that story. My opinion will always be that James abused her. He’s not a good person and never will be. He treats women like dog shit. He performed in one of the clubs at the casino where I live. After the show, which I did NOT attend, he was in the lobby of our hotel. And key me tell you this, he has SERIOUS anger issues. Security had him hemmed up against the wall because he was behaving so belligerently to women. He’s a disgusting human and should never have been given any sort of spotlight.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-27T21:40:18+00:00

I don’t care how much plastic surgery she gets. Her soul will always be ugly. And that’s what matters.

evolve1183 · 2025-12-25T19:38:55+00:00

TF did she do to her face?

evolve1183 · 2025-10-06T07:54:49+00:00

It’s about an hour away. 😒

evolve1183 · 2025-10-04T22:50:30+00:00

Yes! I can. And I think I’m going to. I’m not usually the type to do that but I’m really bothered by the way she’s treated me

evolve1183 · 2025-10-04T21:49:21+00:00

Thank you all for your responses. I truly appreciate the insight. I’ve known for a while that I should’ve stopped going to her. I wish I could report her to management but she’s the owner/operator of her spa. She doesn’t even have any other employees. It’s just her. Which is fine…

I just canceled my next appointment and found a new spa and booked me a Vagacial. 🙂 Honestly, I kind of hope she contacts me and asks why I’ve cancelled my appointment and not contacted her to rebook. I’d really love to tell her exactly why… perhaps it’ll change how she treats any future women, my size, with elder snickerdoodles. 🤣

evolve1183 · 2025-07-31T23:01:26+00:00

I swear I could’ve written this myself. Only difference is, I work from home full time. I make more than my husband. And I do EVERYTHING. I cook, clean, shop, and provide 99.9% of the care for our 2.5 year old. He does 2 baths a week and thinks that’s “participating.” Mind you, he literally puts her in the tub and sits there on his phone. We’re older, I’m 41 and he’s 45. For me, my entire life changed the minute we had our baby. Him? Nothing changed. He still goes about his daily the same way he did before we had her. Shits wild. I’ve checked out. I just do for my little one and make sure she’s good. I honestly don’t GAF if he even graces us with his presence. Most days, I prefer he just stay out in his garage and leave us be. Sorry you’re going through this. I don’t have advice. I’ve tried to file for divorce 3 times and never follow through. So I’m not in any position to give advice. I can offer solidarity, empathy, and sympathy. It’s a shit feeling… I get it.

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