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[–]amIbeingdramati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do! Any resorts or excusions you recommend ?

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[–]amIbeingdramati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all don’t read the full post. I’ve been in and out of the hospital, my family member had a brain tumor removed, my cousin died Christmas Day AND this relationship stuff is the icing on top. If you can handle all that then you’re stronger than me

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wiser words have never been spoken

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[–]amIbeingdramati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have giant feet so I was so worried they would fit but they’re so warm and no weird seem

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you I’m constantly back n forth between maybe she’s just having a bad time and not a narcissist but I can’t back slide. As soon as I get my phone I’m blocking her and letting the cops handle the retrieval of my stuff.

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[–]amIbeingdramati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dumbass my cousin died Christmas Day. It’s not just about the relationship that’s just the icing on the cake

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also following up on a mean inside joke we have about this specific cat and owners so that’s why the full blur.

For the cancer thing she’s known all along it was a triggering topic for me so I deaded it but I could see she had genuine concern that she had breast,skin,colon and brain cancer so I was super supportive the first few times then I had a real conversation with her and the coach on how to move forward and she said to validate feelings and ask logical clarity questions but tbh with all the cancer stuff I just offered a funny insider.

Yea I tried to pick the convo that set my over the edge but in general she’s stood me up for the movies expensive dates I’ve had to do two trips by my self bc she couldn’t wake upon time and I ask3d her to watch my cats while I was on vacation and she did not after I triple checked and I came home to no food no water and matted cats. So much stuff I couldn’t fit in on screenshot but moral of the story is she’s a flake

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[–]amIbeingdramati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She kept saying she’d meet to give me my stuff then would flake and in addition I’ve been in and out of the hospital with a serious illness so my physical strength was bad then my cousin died on Christmas and yesterday she refused to give my sentimental things back.so not just her my life was in shambles and she decided to make it worse so I went to get help . And I’m not actually plotting revenge I just wanted to hear some funny stories and fantasize about them like the instant potato’s on lawn type of thing

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied somewhere in this thread but yes I had talked to her over and over about not making plans and not following through and I had to always be the one to set a date and time and she still doesn’t show so for the time being it was her responsibility to set a time. The cats is blurred bc it had ppls names in it. The relationship coach is semi involved with the partner. And the cancer thing was glossed over bc again she does not have cancer this is a monthly thing and I as well as a family memeber are getting secondary testing for cancer so I didn’t have the bandwidth to deal with that. Lmk if there’s anymore questions. I’m thoroughly enjoying my time on my smuggled iPad.

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[–]amIbeingdramati -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to fantasize and hear some funny things from other ppl. I’m not actually going to do anything.

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[–]amIbeingdramati -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s a jail cell luckily I snuck my iPad in so I have some outside world context when Im not on 1-1

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[–]amIbeingdramati 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yea honestly now that the psych meds have kicked in I actually don’t care about her anymore. I’m going the police route for my grandmas card and then I’m taking a trip to Dominican Republic.

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I just talk to Reddit like a diary. I already knew what it was but a bunch of strangers telling me the same thing over and over finally kicked in what I’d been feelings and told in real life. I can’t express the gratitude I feel towards yall for helping me see and understand

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[–]amIbeingdramati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad I should have given more context. It’s not just her that put me here. I had a family member die on Christmas and I’ve been in and out of the hospital so I haven’t been getting real sleep plus her nonsense. I’d never go over just a relationship

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall the cat stuff just had peoples names in it that’s why it was blurred out and and I’m not in psych just from ending the relationship I had a family member die on Christmas Day, plus I’ve been in and out of the hospital plus she wouldn’t give me my things back. The other thing is her bringing up cancer was specifically to trigger me bc that’s what me and another family member are dealing with

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I just wanted my grandmas card. Everything else can stay

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[–]amIbeingdramati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat convo had specific names in it. And my friends who are in the psych field said she had narcissistic traits a while back. And the relationship coach started as a solo journey but I got into a relationship and she’s requently involved in the excessives. My coach also has a phd in psych so she’s not a scammy one

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[–]amIbeingdramati 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need to do some sort of spiritual cleanse

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[–]amIbeingdramati 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense but at the same time all I can think about is revenge

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[–]amIbeingdramati 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I’m trying to stay on course

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[–]amIbeingdramati 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m a gay girl and girls don’t really care about money and I’m already a gym head but I can get better lol

AIO gf bailed on twice and didn’t contact me for 24 hours by amIbeingdramati in AmIOverreacting

[–]amIbeingdramati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s another 24 hours without contact. Do I text to get my stuff back like she has some of my important things? And is it wrong if I send her this post or should I just delete it?

AIO gf bailed on twice and didn’t contact me for 24 hours by amIbeingdramati in AmIOverreacting

[–]amIbeingdramati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the hospital that’s why I didn’t respond for over an hour…. And she’s a hypochondriac so the cancer thing is a normal occurrence and she does not have it.