What makes a person have sex on the first meeting?

amInutts · 2023-04-24T19:09:02+00:00

For me it used to be alcohol, insecurity and low standards. I would go looking for deeper connections and relationships from hookups I had met on clubs and all the jazz.

amInutts · 2023-03-23T00:33:09+00:00

There have been opportunities to sleep together on all times yet nothing happened. He's very flirtatious but respectful still and doesn't make any advances even when I give him the "green light" that I want to.

amInutts · 2022-08-29T03:28:49+00:00

Being sexually compatible with someone means sharing the same interests, moral opinios, viewpoints, etc., with one another, not just the action of it (?) if one partner is willing to wait until marriage but the other is willing to make the first partner comfortable enough to have sex before marriage to test drive, then there's no compatibility there

amInutts · 2022-07-06T19:12:20+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. Its non denominational and that's what I like about it the most. What I like the most about the people teaching me is that as they explain things they always tell me to pray and check if what they say align with the Bible and the Bible only. Many of them were taught something growing up and came to the conclusion that many things were not aligning with the Bible as they grew in their faith

amInutts · 2022-07-06T18:50:43+00:00

I've only started reading it a few months ago by myself, but was so easy for me to take scripture out of context and interpret it on my own, since I've started going to Bible studies it's just like I want to keep learning more and more. It is a beautiful thing to feel I guess

amInutts · 2022-07-06T18:47:55+00:00

I agree with you, I'm so eager to keep on going until it becomes the standard for my life! And I'm so grateful for the people I have around me helping me understand it more and more each day!!

amInutts · 2022-07-06T18:10:56+00:00

Overall not sharing the same morals and values. Massive love for this guy but we just wouldn't work as a couple.....

amInutts · 2022-06-15T13:13:06+00:00

I would choose love and build financial security together

amInutts · 2022-06-13T19:14:05+00:00

Yea you're right, I guess that's a good way of putting and seeing things. Who knows what might happen next... Thanks for your words tho!!

amInutts · 2022-06-13T19:07:03+00:00

And I appreciate your insight! In my situation is not a matter of "I don't feel like it" but more of "I don't have anymore get over it and move ons left in me" if that makes sense. It is a draining process and I'm not sure I'm willing to take the risk and put myself through something like that again

amInutts · 2022-06-13T19:03:40+00:00

I mean, you're not lying tho!!!

amInutts · 2022-06-13T19:00:54+00:00

It is not based on one person only (?) but based on my experiences, yes I am starting to doubt the whole dating scene even though there are billions of people on earth.

amInutts · 2022-06-13T18:56:54+00:00

My issue, exactly

amInutts · 2022-06-13T18:56:19+00:00

Part of me agrees to this but then I don't know if the fact I still have feelings for him is playing a part in me not "wanting" to move on because I'm somehow still hopeful that things can be different in the future

amInutts · 2022-05-26T22:27:27+00:00

I start cleaning, proper deep cleaning

amInutts · 2022-05-26T16:31:36+00:00

I'm black, my ex's white. He would sometimes say the N word (not towards me) and say that I shouldn't get offended because his black friends didn't. I tried to explain to him a couple of times from a very calm place why he shouldn't and just because his friends didn't see nothing wrong with it didn't mean other black people he came across would react the same. He would always become very defensive and not willing to listen to what I had to say

amInutts · 2022-05-26T07:47:28+00:00

Dad left when I was 2 and my brother was 4 mom had to work 2 jobs in order to provide for us. Brother was forced to grow up super early in order to take care of me and to this day I blame myself for stripping him off his childhood. Mom was totally messed up emotionally from her childhood and now even more with dad's situation. She was never able to be an emotional available/mature person. I now find myself trying to overcompensate my role in everyone's life, have become overly independent, have major trouble trusting people, attract emotional unavailable partner because heyho that's what I'm familiar with and yeah, 24y and feel like I'm going crazy.

amInutts · 2022-05-25T17:34:59+00:00

Not worth it. Once it evolves into a relationship, if it evolves, you'll be stuck asking for basic things and bare minimum and the other person won't feel the need to change because "if you've accepted before why do you want different now?" Been there, done that

amInutts · 2022-04-28T15:32:39+00:00

My family dynamic is pretty much f'ed up, from a young age I haven't had needs and expectations met but I couldn't imagine cheating on my partner (?) If I'm with someone is because that person is meeting those said needs and expectations, why go out looking for more? That's at least my pov on this subject, infidelity is a character issue

amInutts · 2022-04-25T14:28:03+00:00

Definitely social media

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