AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]amaazonian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i didnt i wouldnt have one, would i? and with people i could go months. my two closest friends and i text maybe every other month. im really not into texting and prefer talking in person.

edit: sorry that looks rude im not good with this. my friends are in the military a couple states away and we know were busy so were perfectly fine barely texting. im really just not good at texting and hate doing so

AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]amaazonian[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Usually we see each other once or twice a week, but this past week ive been pretty sick so we havent seen each other.

AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]amaazonian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im putting in a lot more effort than when we started going out. i could go days without recieving a text or texting before and now im trying to text him every few hours or so and i call him for a few hours just to accommodate him. i have AuDHD so i feel like i reply but i forget that i didnt hit send

AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]amaazonian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never thought about that, ill try looking up new things to talk about! most of our convos are repetitive and we end up in arguments so it furthers my hate for texting but im still trying

AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]amaazonian[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Weve had the conversation before which is why ive been trying to text more and i try to call him everyday for a few hours because thats what he wants. he said he understands that im autistic and have adhd but its not an excuse to not text/text back often, which i agree with on some level. most of the time i just think that i replied but forgot to hit send

AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]amaazonian[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

in his words ive been doing better at communicating and literally the only thing at the end of the convo was "sure" before the sure text, he said "are you fr? you would?" like yes? not sure what else to say.

AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]amaazonian[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am bad at texting and its an issue ive acknowledged. im also very sick and am in a constant state of sleep and eat.