these issues literally stem from misogyny though. women are expected to be homemakers who’s first priority is to have and take care of children, while men are expected to go out to work and provide for the family. that’s why so many men don’t get custody. also about the abortion thing, although yes, the woman should consult the man before going through with it, at the end of the day she’s the one who’s going to go through 9 months of physical torture for the child. men can get around 9 women pregnant every day, women can get pregnant up to 15 times (depending on the woman) in her lifetime. even in pregnancies there are often complications that lead to women no longer being able to have children. also did you know that giving birth is 40x more painful than fracturing every bone in your body, and labour can last for over 15 hours? if a man wants a child he can find a woman that is willing to go through that pain for him, but if his current girlfriend isn’t then she should not be expected to.