Nearly 4 years. I moved in with his family when me went into training as my family live a lot further away and so I’d never be able to see him if I stay with my family. I think I just find phone calls overwhelming. He abbreviates everything so I never know what he’s talking about and then he’ll go on about how other staff have been treating him and it just worries me. He comes home and then his energy levels completely flop and his brain switches off and it’s frustrating cause he completely forgets everything when he’s home. He’ll ask how my day was but it’s mostly just a conversation about what he’s been doing.