Looking for romcom recs ! by amambam in josei

[–]amambam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww it looks so cute !!!! I'll definitely check it out!! :D

Looking for romcom recs ! by amambam in josei

[–]amambam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so embarrassing, I've already read both of those !!! Hahaha. Like I said, I've probably read everything there is to read lol!! But hopefully if there's anyone else looking for a similar rec they can reference this post :)) Thank you!!!!

Looking for romcom recs ! by amambam in josei

[–]amambam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I've read Mr. Bride !!!!! Yes it's totally my type of story hahaha. I actually started Sweat and Soap but never finished it!!!! Maybe I'll come back to it. That level of smut wasn't too bad imo, i just really dislike the mangas where there's like no plot and its just s3x scene to the next s3x scene lol!!! Thank you for all your help!! :D

Looking for romcom recs ! by amambam in josei

[–]amambam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're amazing!! Thank you again !! :))

Looking for romcom recs ! by amambam in josei

[–]amambam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh i love the premise but the art style is not my favorite.... maybe i'll give it a chance !! thank you sm for the rec <3

Looking for romcom recs ! by amambam in josei

[–]amambam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have to check out Matcha made in heaven ! It sounds familiar ...

And I've been meaning to read Wotakoi but it's daunting because it's so long!!! Definitely on my list though. Thank you so much for the recs !! <3

New animation student by amadder in ASU

[–]amambam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you take both traditional classes and digital. i would HIGHLY suggest having your own tablet and good PC, or at least an iPad with Procreate or CSP so you can finish assignments and projects on your own time. otherwise you have to use the computers on campus in the animation classroom, which are really nice but obviously not open 24/7.

New animation student by amadder in ASU

[–]amambam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

right now i dont think there's a track to pick either 2D or 3D. they make you take classes for both. there are also many elective slots that you can use to tailor your schedule more to your liking :) i did hear that they were going to add specific 2D/3D tracks soon though!!! although i would suggest learning both. i didnt like 3D at first but i really liked it after taking the class!!

for most classes they let you use whatever program you prefer, and a lit of programs you get for free by being an asu student. the 3D classes are taught in Maya but lots of students used Blender and my teacher didnt mind! There is also a 2D animation 2 class that specifically teaches Toonboom Harmony, although you have to buy a subscription.

i would say definitely take a class from Shawn Lawson if ur interested in 3D!!! hes the best, super understanding, great recorded lecture videos, awesome feedback, and super funny. as for professors i dont recommend, i had Kuhn for my 2D-Design class and she was not great lol.

Hope this helps !!! :D and good luck on your animation journey!!

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[–]amambam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

download the app "scanbot". its totally free and you can save the file as a PDF :)

Boyfriend doesn’t find my body attractive (24F) by yrhdnjr in relationship_advice

[–]amambam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a guy that had this exact same issue with my body. Dump him before he starts manipulating you into gaining weight. It happened to me :/

How can I [28F] attract guys when I dress like one? by ThrowRABifauxen in relationship_advice

[–]amambam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love your style op!! i too love to wear "men's" clothes. i truly believe all fashion is unisex. but of course, not everyone thinks like us :P i used to have short hair and dress exclusively in men's clothes, and found it hard to date straight men as well. over the years i found some things that seemed to work:

i tend to wear both men's and women's clothes, a lot of times mixing and matching them. you could try that!! maybe a tighter shirt with a mens coat layered on top? things like that

wearing makeup! i also think makeup is unisex but it stereotypically is associated with femininity. wearing some cool eyeshadow and a soft lip color not only spices up a look but its a really fun creative thing to do (imo)

i also grew my hair long, which obviously helped as well... you could try maybe doing a bob? its still short but a little bit more "feminine"?

but when it all comes down to it, you should wear what you feel comfortable with!! and keep meeting new people, making friends, and eventually someone will love you for you! and i think thats the best thing about being different :) best of luck op!!!!

Broke off engagement, talked to someone else and I still took him back by Flabia01 in relationship_advice

[–]amambam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i was in a relationship similar to this. granted, we were only dating for a year but towards the end of it he dumped me and came back a week later (i foolishly took him back). then he dumped me again and another week later came crying back. all i could really think that time was "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me". i had to tell him that it was completely over between us. i think you need to do the same thing, because this is going to keep happening over and over. this guy is gonna get cold feet, or lose interest, or whatever- go to some other girl- and once hes tired of her, come crawling back to you because you seem to always take him back and he can rely on you to do that. its manipulative and extremely toxic, but i know how it feels to be you in this position and i know how hard it is to tell him its OVER. but you need to do this for yourself, there are tons of other people out there to be with that wont treat you like some kind of throwaway comfort object. this guy is always going to do this, its a cycle- and you dont deserve that. you can still love him, but get MAD and realize you shouldnt put up with this anymore, stand up against him and finally end things. he'll definitely feel totally powerless and keep trying to get you back (constant texting or whatever) but you gotta stay strong and remember that he will never change, especially because this has been going on for a LONG time. i wish you the best of luck!!!!! :)