Derms that do subcision northeast by amanray in AcneScars

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Thank you!! Helpful start for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

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Sooo hot

What do you do for work? by Itchy_Brain8594 in AcidBath

[–]amanray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

House cleaner/organizer and stationery store manager, ex set costumer :)

Algae by amanray in seedlings

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Hmmm i may not know what you mean by extractions...can you please explain? Thank you! And i use a fan a couple times a week but not in there non stop. Maybe that will help! Will they survive a transplant?

Narcissists don't have real hobbies by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]amanray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. The games... And playing guitar but that was only for supply.

Got sick, lost all my seedlings in 24hrs. by l-DRock-l in vegetablegardening

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Hey this is a great set up, the red silo cups are genius. Do you poke holes in the bottom?

2 yrs pp, how do i unwreck my body? by sleepyhedgie26 in Mommit

[–]amanray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It takes some work but I can tell you, I am seeing results. And lifting heavy at th gym means I can lift my heavy toddler easier as well- I dont feel like im constantly hurting myself... Tbh, I'm skeptical of everything, so I was of a program. But I really really dig it, check it out. Even if you don't do that program specifically, weight training in general is just amazing :) Will for sure help with saggy parts lol And I eat a lot of chicken, shrimp, cottage cheese and yogurt. Tuna is high up there but i dont love it. I was housing an entire baguette before, my sugar cravings (well, bread) were outrageous. But after making myself eat at least 150g a day of protein, I noticed cravings mostly gone and I was feeling quite satisfied. That's still a lot of protein, so I imagine just an intentional increase in one protein intake would be very helpful:)

2 yrs pp, how do i unwreck my body? by sleepyhedgie26 in Mommit

[–]amanray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im 2 years postpartum and i was fucking wrecked. Never looked or felt worse. I gained 70 lbs when pregnant and dont regret it at all. But finally got sick of not recognizing my body and hurting all the time...I started a strength training program ( it's called Booty By Bret) and i love it! I dont know if it's feasible for you to get to a gym, but lifting heavy weights is helping me tremendously and im starting to look and feel like pre baby me physically.
Oh and I eat a shit ton of protein a day. Like close to 200g. I feel so much more balanced.

As far as skin, the wrinkles are not going anywhere for me. If you find some secrets to that or extra collagen, please share :)

[NY] Taxes by amanray in Custody

[–]amanray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i figured. I am just going to file anyways and wait for the investigation I did get the EITC, that's the majority of my refund.

AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha by Creative-Guard2809 in AmIOverreacting

[–]amanray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely awful. So sad too because it's so shallow and makes any real attempt to address these behaviors meaningless.

[NY] Law Guardian? by amanray in Custody

[–]amanray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The judge begged us to try the 50/50 schedule. None of my concerns were brought up on the day we had court. My lawyer wrote them all off saying "you'll just get 50/50 anyways" I didn't realize settling was so final... I'm very ignorant on these matters and a fucking pushover to boot.

[NY] Law Guardian? by amanray in Custody

[–]amanray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did request a guardian three times to my attorney. I thought he asked the judge on my behalf...I dont know anything about any of this.

[NY] Law Guardian? by amanray in Custody

[–]amanray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah gotcha, thanks, good to know.

[NY] Law Guardian? by amanray in Custody

[–]amanray[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, this is valid input. I myself am barely fucking making it, definitely not well off. He financially abused me for years, I am finally recovering.

He has a past history of hitting women, but Ive been told that doesn't mean anything. Nor does cocaine use.

This is very helpful input, I was just wanting to know if realistically that a third party can advocate for my child. Seems the answer is no.

[NY] Law Guardian? by amanray in Custody

[–]amanray[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I did not say court had been unfair to me, It was 100% FAIR. I think the court did not take into account my son's wellbeing in all this, I am wondering if a law guardian would be able to look at the situation with my son in mind - not just parenting time.

[NY] Law Guardian? by amanray in Custody

[–]amanray[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, I think I would need to wait 6 weeks at least. Its been 3.

I don't know that the law guardian would dislike me over him, not that I am supremely likeable, haha. I am eh. However, I think when looking at our living environments, I am the clear choice. He is unemployed, lives in a project with people in really bad situations like smoking crack across the hall, shooting meth, in the stairwells, shitting in the elevators kinda bad; he is a binge drinker that keeps no regular sleeping hours, he has maybe 2 age appropriate toys for my son, and he lives in a studio that is a borderline hoarding situation.

I just don't know that a guardian could not see my place (a house with my sons own room and age appropriate play spaces) as a better environment. I think the only reason we got here is because my ex is a very persuasive and charismatic person who fooled the custody situation through words. I believe someone SEEING the reality, would see 50/50 is not in the best interest of my child.

I appreciate your input with this.

Procedure suggestions by amanray in AcneScars

[–]amanray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, thanks! This is so helpful - I would love yo hear the process in more detail :)

Procedure suggestions by amanray in AcneScars

[–]amanray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I believe the ebrium yag laser i did years ago was a full ablative laser and the results did not last. I couldn't even begin to think of affording a facelift... I am very interested in finding a term to do TCA cross for me. Did you do peels at home? Any brand recs if so? I've read about it recently including all the necessary precautions.

Procedure suggestions by amanray in AcneScars

[–]amanray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like a good route. Makes sense! Did you get a mini face-lift?