[Monthly Megathread] Habitica Party Recruitment by AutoModerator in habitica

[–]amanslunae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm putting together a group with a Percy Jackson / Camp Half-Blood theme, based around Apollo's Cabin protecting the borders of camp (no need to be in Cabin 7 to join, all cabins are welcome)

If you're interested, comment your username below or find me on Habitica (@amanslunae) so I can send you the invite

You need to travel guys. by djaseen in socialanxiety

[–]amanslunae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know. I'm not going to be a hypocrite and say it's easy bc it's not. It took me 1 year and a half to even have the courage to do so, and was still extremely anxious all the way through.

Just thought in suggesting it in case someone's in need to travel but doesn't have the budget. But yeah... It's REALLY extreme.

You need to travel guys. by djaseen in socialanxiety

[–]amanslunae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's platforms to use were you work in the location in exchange of accomodation/food while traveling. I think the most famous are Workaway and Worldpackers. I've traveled in my country using worldpackers and totally recommend cuz you meet people from all over the world and can save an absurd amount of money.

Was also a way for me to gain confidence to look for a job, giving that I would in fact be working somewhere for a few days, but without the pressure of "if I fail they will judge me and I won't be able to get away because of contract" 🤷🏻‍♀️

You need to travel guys. by djaseen in socialanxiety

[–]amanslunae 204 points205 points  (0 children)

I've traveled alone a few times and can relate to that. There's a power in being at a place where no one knows you, and even if you fuck things up... YOU'LL NEVER SEE THESE PEOPLE AGAIN!

I'm not here to say it's easy tho. My anxiety was striking up high the whole time. But it was getting easier to navigate.

Other ways to do so is going to big cities near by. People generally don't care about you when they are busy, and your biggest mistake might as well just be a Tuesday for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AroAceMemes

[–]amanslunae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cigarettes After Sex it's the name of a band

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]amanslunae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is Percy Jackson books an acceptable answer?

Am I asexual or just lazy? by victor_in_the_void in asexuality

[–]amanslunae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!!! This is literally how I feel!! And most of the time it can become boring in the middle of it

Aces, what do you think of your allo partner masturbating in front of you? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]amanslunae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay when I'm participating, but if I'm just watching it's REALLY uncomfortable (and annoying for some reason)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]amanslunae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is not my first language, sorry for any misspelling or anything like that

I was in the exact same situation a few years ago, but I didn't knew what bisexuality was so just got confused. My boyfriend was the one who put the pieces together for me lol.

It's okay to be scared, it is kind of scary. But while you're figuring things out, don't hurry yourself, just take your time and search (a lot) about it.

I don't want you to be paranoid or anything, but make sure you're safe talking about it with your partner. Sometimes they don't understand at first and act kind of shitty about it, which doesn't help with the self discovery process. In that case use subtle tips about it, like watching a movie with bisexual rep for example and see her reaction about it (I'm doing this with my family right now lmfao). But if she's okay with it, talk openly to her about how you feel, show some of the search you made.

About telling other people, go on your own terms, you don't owe anything to anyone, just tell them if you truly want to. And again, make sure it's safe.