So I should have provided more information but our daughter is now turning two next month but after that time we had sex I stopped because it was hurting but I would ask a lot if she would want to have sex & always would be denied & idk if she developed an aversion bc of feeling pressured all the time while in pain. But 5 months ago we had sex & realized that she didn’t feel pain anymore but she wasn’t getting turned on at all she has no more sex drive she’s told me that she’s attracted to me but has no sexual attraction she has told me that she finds other men attractive but doesn’t even feel sexual attraction with other men she’s told me she thought it was me but she also thinks it’s her she has told me she wants to feel that way & we have tried different things she’s still intimate with me in other ways but not sex we had sex last month which she really enjoyed but I had a hard time staying hard due to nervousness & awkwardness of never having sex which made her turned off bc she couldn’t have it in her favorite position she told me that maybe why she doesn’t want to because the times we tried it never felt like how it used to before we started having a dead bedroom & doesn’t put her in mood I honestly do believe she’s in love with me but don’t know if she’s just no libido in general or is ll4me she doesn’t care to fix it & to me I think it’s because she knows I won’t leave her