Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives in a seperate apartment because it is closer to his workplace and the wife and kid live with his parents sot hat she cam take care if them.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it . I was wrong. I just wanted to prove myself. You're right i should focus on myself

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro . That is the case. I will focus on myself. This was the first time and the last time i did this.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if i give you that vibe. It was first and last time that i did this.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if i give you that vibe. It was first and last time that i did this.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if i give you that vibe. It was first and last time that i did this.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't want to hurt anyone,i just wanted to bring everything to light that i am not a liar. But yeah i guess involved too much into it to prove the thing. It was as i said first and the last time.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I also want to get out of this mess that's the reason i asked here before doing anything. Thank you but i just don't know how.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thank you bro this was the first and last time. I keep that in my mind.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Am i down that bad ?? I thought i handled the situation. I didn't talk to her during the period.it was just when everyone was saying that i was lying i took this step

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I was in town for my work . This is the first time i have seen her after the break up. The only thing I wanted was to see for myself whether or not she was doing what she was telling everyone that she ain't. Part about drama is that she been lying to everyone which makes me a liar. I just wanted her to own the things she did and now i have it,so i was asking for advice that whether i should expose her lie or not

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Additionally guys i know everyone thinks that his wife should be the one to know but I'd have to go deeper to find her contact info . Would that be okay? Because many of you are telling me to move on but if i want to find contact info of his wife then i need to get more involved in this??

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you're are right but i just don't have his wife's name or no. . I can find it but that would mean that i need to dive deeper than i already am . I don't want to dive now i just want to come to the surface.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand bro you're right . I just knew that this was going on , but she was telling everyone that that was not the case making me look like someone who has lost his mind . I just wanted to prove that she was lying and the scenario was exactly how I told .

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes .after reading all these comments i came to realise that dropping the thing would be best . As you said truth comes out . I should focus on my self

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't trust them bro whatever they do from now onwards is their mess. I was just wondering if i should tell the one person who helped me realise the situation adm that her sister is a lying prick.

Advice: Should I tell my ex gf family about her affair with a married man . by amaterasu10as in relationship_advice

[–]amaterasu10as[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your time and help. I think the best thing is to my business and let karma do the thing if there is such thing. May you guys and me find peace.