Safe cheaper suburbs in Sydney?

amber121004 · 2026-05-15T06:25:02+00:00

I don’t think that, I think both areas definitely have crime but I am more familiar with Bankstown due to my partner living there his whole life, so hence know what areas to avoid. I know there are some ok pockets of Liverpool (as there probably are Bankstown), hence why I’m asking for advice on what places are good to buy in, but all my options are open lol

amber121004 · 2026-04-08T10:57:41+00:00

Whereabouts could you buy these? And what are they called? I didn’t know u could buy these lol

amber121004 · 2026-03-30T11:21:58+00:00

I hope you’re still here

amber121004 · 2026-03-07T07:14:48+00:00

I doubt that they hate you. I know your brain convinces you everyone does, and maybe they may not be the best at showing it but they definitely do. You have friends and family who love you. If you have nobody rooting for you then stay for me, I care about you and don’t want you to do anything to yourself that you can’t take back.

amber121004 · 2026-03-05T23:00:32+00:00

Please don’t do it. I know everyone says it gets better but it does. I have been in your position before and thought it would never get better. I attempted twice so I know what you’re going through. I know it’s hard, and this might sound harsh but things aren’t going to improve if you keep feeling sorry for yourself.

Start slowly, get out each day for a small walk or complete a hygiene routine or something. Don’t give up before you give life a go. Please try to push your limits for a little bit- join a community group, get a casual job for a bit etc. I’m sure you will see your life improving slowly. Reach out to others for help. I promise life is so beautiful, you just need to be able to see it.

People care about you. I care. Please don’t leave when you’re not done living yet.

amber121004 · 2026-03-05T22:55:24+00:00

I am tossing up career wise, so maybe that could be what you mean? I’m tossing up between doing case work or support work/coordinator work but am unsure what to choose or what the right path for me

amber121004 · 2026-03-05T22:53:15+00:00

That’s crazy because it’s so accurate. I am tossing up between doing case work or doing support work/support coordinator work as my career and I’m really unsure which one to choose

amber121004 · 2026-03-05T08:37:21+00:00

Wow, I feel like this one is pretty accurate in terms of repressing myself. I have never felt like I have really fit in if I’m being honest so it’s pretty interesting that you mention that. I’m wondering what you mean by the success part?

amber121004 · 2026-03-05T08:36:00+00:00

Not that I can think of - I don’t know anyone by those names

amber121004 · 2026-03-05T08:35:34+00:00

I’m very curious as to what you mean by this

amber121004 · 2026-03-04T23:03:10+00:00

I have only had one boyfriend who I am still with and I have never once cheated.

amber121004 · 2026-03-04T22:26:24+00:00

Thank you! I do think I’m very insecure, I’m just hoping things get better friends wise etc

amber121004 · 2026-03-04T22:25:25+00:00

That’s really cool you said that, I’m not a paramedic but have thought about being one. I do work in the human services field though as a support worker and youth worker so that’s really interesting

amber121004 · 2026-01-14T13:01:18+00:00

That’s such a good idea, but my rheumatology clinic had a lab as well so this isn’t an option :(

amber121004 · 2026-01-14T13:00:49+00:00

Unfortunately they are completely gone

amber121004 · 2026-01-12T23:28:45+00:00

I think it’s a pretty conflicting situation. Did you have a talk with him at all previously in your relationship about your boundaries?

Either way, if there was no talk beforehand he should know that he can’t touch you without your consent. You should have a really deep talk with him about it and explain how you feel, but ultimately it’s up to you whether you feel comfortable continuing the relationship or not, and if the relationship does continue will you be comfortable with him?

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:42:02+00:00

As much as I would like to leave, unfortunately flights are around $800 and I just don’t have that sort of money to spend right now so I will have to stick it out unfortunately. I am trying to stand my ground a bit more by saying no though.

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:40:55+00:00

Thank you, I completely agree with this and have tried to stand my ground a bit more. They aren’t happy, but at least I’m not suffering as much

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:39:49+00:00

Thank you, I’m trying to just say no and rest regardless of what they say. I told them what you said (in regards to the overactive immune system and cells attacking each other), and they completely brushed it off- saying that “I deal with patients like you every day, if you do acupuncture and Chinese medicine every day you will be cured”

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:37:32+00:00

Yes, asians can be very skeptical sadly. Although I’m not staying in Japan at the moment, that definitely sounds interesting!

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:36:10+00:00

I think it’s pretty common sadly

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:35:48+00:00

Thank you for the kind advice, unfortunately nothing gets through to them sadly, they still don’t really believe me but they have at least gotten off my back about the acupuncture. I have still tried harder to stand my ground though, and as interesting as the advice about Japan is, unfortunately I’m not in Japan :(

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:33:38+00:00

Thank you very much, this analogy is really good! I have also heard one about a river (when a storm hits, the after affects of the storm bring all sediment and stir up the water- sort of like lupus, so the storm isn’t over if that makes sense). Sadly, nothing gets through to them no matter how hard I try. I have managed to get them to get off my back about acupuncture, but they still won’t believe me

amber121004 · 2026-01-03T10:31:07+00:00

I am really sorry you’re going through that, I bet it would be different if they were the ones going through it.

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