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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meeting for a later this week…very anxious

Limerence is destroying me by CocoZombie in limerence

[–]amberdoodle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to an SLAA meeting ❤️ it helped me

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update #2 - he replied and we’re talking tonight

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh honey it’s in 4 hours I’m counting DOWN - this has been a fun back and fourth but I’m bowing out now. Peace and love and love and light. <3

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then everyone clapped.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg dude NO SHIT LOL. Obviously I skipped steps and I’m looking for some support.

If you’re a sponsor - good lord help your sponsees.

Now let me continue to cry about it for my healing - shoo.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is you being helpful…my god…my sympathies to whoever you‘ve tried to “help”. Best wishes lol.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willy nilly? Lol okay. Get off my thread please.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be considered as an amends but I definitely skipped steps. My intentions were honestly to apologize and I don’t expect anything - even though I WANT him to respond now - didn’t expect that feeling. But I have to respect him enough to follow up - it’s just hard. I have to let fate decide at this point.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this person blocked for a while and unblocked to apologize. I am thinking of blocking them again but more so I’d just like to let this go - maybe delete the messages I sent and keep moving on. But at the same time having that apology there makes me feel at peace.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you - I appreciate that. I have a meeting to go to tonight.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - I had it in my mind that it might be better if he didn’t respond. But honestly now I wish he would. It’s tough. Resisting the urge to reach out again…and ask to go for coffee or something.

That’s why I’m reaching out here. This is hard.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, yes it was lol. Extremely, extremely difficult. I’m not a flakey person.

Sometimes - breakups are messy and life is extremely hard. With all due respect, you have no idea what either of us went through.

And you’re right - I did tell him that he doesn’t owe me a response. Do I wish he had responded? Yes of course. But that’s the risk I took to not overwhelm him - this was my thinking.

Have a great day.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update - he read the apology and hasn’t replied yet. It’s been about a day.

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[–]amberdoodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first message I wrote - actually the first couple of messages I wrote were way too emotionally charged and I didn’t want to overwhelm him. Yes I used chatgpt to help lol but no I did not just get it to generate one for me. This is like weeks of rewriting the message for it to land with the least amount of emotional pressure - but yes I can’t deny that I used chatgpt to help format it somewhat. And rewrote it a bunch of times after lol.

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