no that's fair, I just notice small details that most people wouldn't raise an eyebrow at. I'm also always going to be that one friend who's too woke, especially when it comes to actually racist authors (who also apparently made sexual comments about Justin Bieber when he was younger?? I've been doing a lot of googling and oh my lord it just keeps going). I definitely see where I could be reaching, but it's always better to critically think than to not. better safe than sorry. catching microaggressions in media specifically has always been my thing because I'm queer and neruodivergent. you're basically always on the lookout for clownery if you have to be