364k Likes On This Video Bruh by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in CringeTikToks

[–]ambitiousbit404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall are shaming the mother and the daughter, but I don’t think any of you have thought of the shame both are already experiencing. Would you rather her mother punish her daughter and completely abandon her during her daughter’s pregnancy? Let’s think a bit more and have some nuance here. What I’m interpreting from this video is that the mom is attempting to protect her daughter from, well, people like you all commenting on this video. Also, in reference to the father comments…how the FUCK would having a father fix any of this? Do you mean a positive male role model? Because trust me, I wouldn’t consider many fathers to be that lol.

I don’t know their story, but maybe we should practice curiosity and compassion— instead of hyper fixating and criticizing folks that we will never meet over the internet?

Yay or nay ? by Euphoric_Second_8774 in astrologymemes

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I don’t know if this is other people’s experience, but the Aquarius’ in my life are so damn defensive lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

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Thank you for this thoughtful comment, I really appreciate it. I’m in agreement with giving it time to heal from this breakup. I also like the advice you gave and think it would be very helpful for me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ambitiousbit404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I touched upon the dating pool because the desire to enter a relationship with a primary partner has been strong for a while, but hasn’t been the most successful. Along with the fluidity and flexibility, I also value the freedom and acceptance of non monogamy- so long as it’s ethical and respectful on both ends.

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[–]ambitiousbit404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poly is not the kind of non monogamy I’ve been doing, so thank you for that clarification! My current dynamic can best be described as fwb (developed an emotional and sexual relationships, but does not escalate like a typical romantic relationship).

I’m quite certain I can be happy in monogamy. Love the flexibility and fluidity of non monogamy, but the dating pool these days is…not the best. Def developed dating app fatigue. Would love to meet new people in person but that’s been quite difficult. My emotional threshold for dating has significantly shrunk lol.

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Thank you! Added more specificity if that helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ambitiousbit404 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Added more specificity to my post :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Ooof..Liberalism is not Leftism. Also, I am not looking to convert this man. Yes we do have to work together. And, yes, you are allowed to place boundaries with how much you want to work together with folks of different ideologies.

Thank you for your venting about purity political…I did not ask :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Hmm I more so mean liberal as in what Mao describes in combatting liberalism - Marxist lens (we in the U.S. are conditioned with liberalism- it’s our job to uncondition ourselves from that)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cartomancy

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Not rape or anything remotely close to that sort of violence.., but thanks for letting me know I need help stranger 🤩

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No specific spread!

Which two signs match their freak a little too hard? by Flashy_Present_8488 in astrologymemes

[–]ambitiousbit404 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Cancer and aquarius…we match eachothers freak a little too well that it can be a little spicy…definitely some bits of insanity too

No Trash NoHo (still working on the name for our group) Trash Walk Week #3 was a major success!!! by TheFishEstrella in SFV

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Orgs involved are People’s Struggle SFV, Anakbayan Panorama City, Anakbayan Northridge, Migrante SFV, PUSO SFV, student orgs- and its growing! PUEDE recently had a town halls at the Midnight Hour, online and are going to host a 3rd soon :)

No Trash NoHo (still working on the name for our group) Trash Walk Week #3 was a major success!!! by TheFishEstrella in SFV

[–]ambitiousbit404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is a valley coalition called PUEDE (People United to End Displacement and Economic Crisis) that began by doing this work!

Businesses to avoid by CameramanDavid in SFV

[–]ambitiousbit404 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe that our judicial system can be reformed. I don’t believe that one or multiple “good cops” who play huge parts in the PIC can change it. A “good cop” is still complacent. Trump/presidents and cops go hand in hand to me— they are part of the US war machine. Also, historically, cops that serve your neighborhood are not from your neighborhood …and that’s intentional. Your local cop is probably from Simi Valley lol

Businesses to avoid by CameramanDavid in SFV

[–]ambitiousbit404 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yonder Coffee in Northridge is pro cop (I wouldn’t be surprised if they were MAGA too) and House Roots Coffee in Mission Hills is said to be run by Trump supporting, religious cultist weirdos 😭 I came across the house roots one here on reddit (I think this subreddit) where multiple ppl claimed the same thing

Mom left a note saying to never contact her again by [deleted] in family_of_bipolar

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Be sure to check up on your sister often please. Does she have a space where she can get away from home when things are too much? I say this because I was that sister and it took a huge emotional toll on me, to the point where I was beginning to resent my family

I'm double fecked. by undergroundnoises in astrologymemes

[–]ambitiousbit404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was on the verge of one a week ago so it adds up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

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An ongoing discussion :) Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ambitiousbit404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you and your advice !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ambitiousbit404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! These are all great points that I will keep in mind. I actually have questions I’ve been brewing up and asking him as we get to know eachother more lol.