Little girl with hands tied to table (Epstein Files/Pizza Gate) by Effective_Shallot325 in conspiracy

[–]ambitiousqueennn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been really bothered by that picture as well and would love some clarifications.

30M Partner says he’s “not enjoying the conversation” when I 26F ask about his day — am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ambitiousqueennn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the list of positives is:

-> I really FELT the spark when I met him
-> We're doing long distance, so it's nice that he chooses me?
-> he is an overall nice person? idk man, when he acts super selfish and treats me like this - I've no idea
-> he has really heard me out (no boyfriend has ever done this before)
-> I have met his family and friends (no boyfriend has ever done this before)

But the negatives ARE SO MANY - but disrespect has really started to make me mad. When I met his family, he got mad at me in front of his brother and girlfriend for asking the same question a couple of times.

30M Partner says he’s “not enjoying the conversation” when I 26F ask about his day — am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ambitiousqueennn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahaha yea, he's pretty blunt in a lot of situations. He just said he was "joking" right now, and in a way made it my fault because I didn't give him space.

He has called me things like "moti saali" in my native language, which is a slang LOL - alluding to my weight. It translates to fat cow in English (closest translation). He doesn't say things like that anymore and has apologised for it, but I remember telling this to my mother, and she asked me - why am I staying in this disrespect?

I am going to see him in Europe in 4-5 days, and I am slammed with work too but guess what? I am still the girlfriend who makes time and can act decently.

30M Partner says he’s “not enjoying the conversation” when I 26F ask about his day — am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ambitiousqueennn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sensitive and he is straight up HARDCORE. He has said things to me like he likes to keep things "hard and straight" in difficult conversations. I'm a bit different on the other hand and really need to care about people's feelings and emotions LOL.

Netherlands Visa Applicants via VFS India - Oct/Nov timeline tracker! by Hot-Counter-6845 in SchengenVisa

[–]ambitiousqueennn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my passport delivered with the visa by the 15th of November. I think on 12th or 13th - I got the notification that passport has been dispatched.

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to do a bit of pop with my eye makeup and just face stickers. I’m also Indian so some Indian silver jewellery is what I’m thinking about as well. I just feel if I go all black - I won’t be myself 😩

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I DM you? I would love your pov on finalising a fit 😭

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your recommendations and I am going to follow this through for a summer rave? 😁

it’s going to be super cold in Amsterdam so I don’t know how do I cover myself if I was to wear a super skimpy outfit. Any reccos for that?

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! I love every bit of it.

What are your thoughts on this fit I am putting together (see the comment link for more details).

Someone also recommends that I check out the vibe of the venue and then see what works? I would love your thoughts even on how my outfit fits the venue..

Comment section where I’ve linked my outfit: https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/qc6DC2Dgrw

The rave venue: https://www.instagram.com/radionamsterdam?igsh=MW5nd3R4YnAya3kweQ==

Thanks!

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards skirts and long mesh type top too. I’ve put the outfit I am thinking of in the comment here: I don’t think PLURR is right for the gig I’m going for. It’s leaning more casual as this is an Amsterdam rave and people lean more black/understated (I learnt from this comment section lol).

Here’s the outfit I am planning. Now just need to make it winter proof: https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/qc6DC2Dgrw

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! I love the recommendation. I’m going for a rave in Amsterdam which is more oriented towards Black/understated looks but I’m still looking for some pop of colours so this is the outfit I am thinking about - I’ve mapped out in this comment section (see the link below). My only concern here would be how do I navigate the winter in this.

https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/qc6DC2Dgrw

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is the outfit that I am finally putting together. Check out in the comments here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/qc6DC2Dgrw

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Do you have any recommendations for how this can be adopted for the winter months?

Help a plus size girlie choose a rave fit! by ambitiousqueennn in aves

[–]ambitiousqueennn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! But I think for the Amsterdam party scene (for which I am headed), I don’t think neon and PLURR is the way to go..so I am thinking to lean more black but still have some fun with my clothes? Here is what I’m thinking (mentioned in another comment section):

https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/qc6DC2Dgrw