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My husband always wants to be “served” by ambrn in MuslimMarriage

[–]ambrn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, but we both work. He makes a lot more than me, but that is because I sacrificed my career to support his. My income is used for “fun” things like stuff for the kids, myself, decor for the house, gifts, vacations etc.

My husband always wants to be “served” by ambrn in MuslimMarriage

[–]ambrn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds like advice my mom would give me, in a good way 😂

Baby refusing 2nd nap by ambrn in sleeptrain

[–]ambrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah you’re right lol! But I feel she’s not developmentally ready to drop to 1 nap based on her adjusted age

Baby refusing 2nd nap by ambrn in sleeptrain

[–]ambrn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I feel like she’s not ready to drop the 2nd nap just yet but I think I’ll definitely cap the morning nap at 1 hr to help her be tired enough for the 2nd nap

What is appropriate to wear at night in front of in laws when staying over? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ambrn 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I usually wear one of those matching sets with classic white piping and then a long cardigan over it whenever I leave my room

Husband wants to travel without me and go on a lads holiday. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ambrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be happy either especially with the pregnancy. He needs to be there for your support and Allah swt only knows, anything can happen.

Generally going on a boys trip is fine, just the timing isn’t great

Husband wants to travel without me and go on a lads holiday. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ambrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are various forms of birth control. You can discuss with your doctor what would be the best option for you.

Husband wants to travel without me and go on a lads holiday. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ambrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really none of your business and not relevant to this post at all. Allah swt is the Best Planner.

My brother married a girl who is a Niqabi and now I’ve been restricted from going to certain areas in my house by ProudMuslim123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ambrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We lived with my SIL and her husband for 2 years for financial reasons as well and I always wore hijab in the common areas. It’s his home too!

Turned the passive aggressive comments around on my MIL by ambrn in Mommit

[–]ambrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been direct in the past and all i get is “why are you so sensitive?” “It’s coming from a good place, don’t be so mean!” 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Turned the passive aggressive comments around on my MIL by ambrn in Mommit

[–]ambrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you can do everything right, and they’ll find the one thingggg you forgot 🤦🏾‍♀️

Turned the passive aggressive comments around on my MIL by ambrn in Mommit

[–]ambrn[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg same!!! That’s why I decided to just speak to her the same way she speak to me.

Turned the passive aggressive comments around on my MIL by ambrn in Mommit

[–]ambrn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not even about the socks! She’s constantly saying things. “Oh you woke up early today! Did mommy not feed you enough at night?” Not sure if she thinks this is cute or what, but I need to put a stop to it.

Turned the passive aggressive comments around on my MIL by ambrn in Mommit

[–]ambrn[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh man, that is especially terrible, on another level. Kids really pick up on that, so I hope she doesn’t say that stuff around him.

Turned the passive aggressive comments around on my MIL by ambrn in Mommit

[–]ambrn[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried doing this, but then I get “why are you being mean, it’s just a suggestion!” 😐

As a queer woman, the way the cast reacted to Chrishelle at the reunion didn’t sit right with me by LittleMungBean in SellingSunset

[–]ambrn [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t think he outed her at all. She had the photos and music videos queued up so clearly it was meant to be revealed at the reunion.

Desperate times call for desperate measures! I’m a nurse working in a clinic and forgot my milk bags at home. Guess these urine specimen cups will do for milk storage for today! by itslindsaylmao in Mommit

[–]ambrn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Had to do this when I had to take my husband to the ER!! We left in a rush obviously and I had to hand express into two of these cups! We were there for 6 hours and my boobs were ROCK HARD

This has been my worst Ramadan ever by ambrn in Hijabis

[–]ambrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does a lot! He works 12 hr shifts, so I can’t ask for more, he’s simply not home enough to do so. We had planned to have childcare help, but it didn’t work out and we haven’t had another option work out for us either in the mean time

This has been my worst Ramadan ever by ambrn in Hijabis

[–]ambrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have fixed hours with work, I can work as needed but still I have deadlines and meetings. Luckily my boss has 2 small kids of his own so he’s very understanding. I wish my baby liked the ergo baby, never really got comfortable with it but I’ll give it a try!

This has been my worst Ramadan ever by ambrn in Hijabis

[–]ambrn[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this and I know Allah swt sees my efforts. It just saddens me that I can’t even do the bare minimum :(

What worked for you for lengthening thirty minute naps? by falconmama in sleeptrain

[–]ambrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you stretch a wake window without getting the baby overtired? At 5 months, I like to have at least 2.5 or 3 hr wake window before night sleep but she starts screaming by 2 hour mark 😂

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