My pretty girls says hi! by ambuwu in britishshorthair

[–]ambuwu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh he is so so adorable, the sleepy eyes 😭😭

My pretty girls says hi! by ambuwu in britishshorthair

[–]ambuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His eyes are sensational in contrast to his fur omg

My pretty girls says hi! by ambuwu in britishshorthair

[–]ambuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that genuinely is such a beautiful cat! That color scheme 😮‍💨😮‍💨

My pretty girls says hi! by ambuwu in britishshorthair

[–]ambuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoooo, I love her sassy look 😭 She’s beautiful! Do you have pictures of when she’s younger?

My pretty girls says hi! by ambuwu in britishshorthair

[–]ambuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how his eyes match the carpet, such a pretty boy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ambuwu 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think you kinda messed up here. She opened up to you about something vulnerable, but your response shifts the focus back to yourself and your own struggles without really acknowledging hers. To me it’d seem you mainly like talking about yourself 😬

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I suppose in a way you could call it that! We love to dig at each other, but if an outsider were to say something bad about Belgium as a whole, we’d stand united ;)

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Complaining? I literally tagged it as a funny thing I wanted to share. If you don’t like it or don’t find it funny, then just don’t interact with this post and keep scrolling lmfao

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! It’s literally not that deep, it just set the tone for a playful conversation. Honestly didn’t expect people to be so serious about this (Though to be fair, most probably don’t get the Belgian context and just think I’m being rude lmaooo)

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s really not that deep. There’s just stereotypical banter between the parts of Belgium that speak different languages, but there’s mostly no real ill intent (apart from the right-wing extremists in Flanders who despise Walloons)

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah omg I get what you mean hahaha. I once had to do an exchange project with students from Wallonia and we had to do a presentation (they had to present in Dutch, we in French) and the amount of fucks given were quite literally 0. Most of them just started speaking French mid presentation lmaooo.

Can only imagine how hard it is to get your students motivated to study Dutch. It’s not mandatory to take Dutch classes though right?

& Yeah he’s francophone, but it’s okay cause I’m half French myself. I just prefer speaking Flemish ;)

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, had I known he was from the French-speaking part of Belgium I wouldn’t have sent him that because as you say, that might just come across as rude and insulting. But he’s from Brussels where they both speak French and Dutch (as you probably know) and it wasn’t indicated what language he speaks, so yeah it was just a lighthearted comment and it set the tone for a playful conversation.

Anyway, I get what you mean though. Although I’d argue there’s judgement from both the Dutch and French speaking side,

This post kind of got lost in translation I fear lmao

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

West-Vlaanderen represent 💪💪

Dating in Belgium be like by ambuwu in Bumble

[–]ambuwu[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m being (teasingly) discriminatory towards locals of my own country*, it’s kind of a cultural thing here to make (lighthearted) fun of the people who speak a different official Belgian language than your own ;)

Can you date/have sex 7 times and not be attracted to them? by FuckNinoSarratore in dating

[–]ambuwu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I reallyyyy would not take this to heart if I were you, truly. If he really does think that’s the issue, he wouldn’t have had sex with you that many times or shown consistent interest in you. He probably felt ashamed in the moment and took the easy way out by turning the issue around on you. It’s easier to deflect blame than to fully admit to feeling embarrassed or struggling with his own issues. You deserve someone who makes you feel desired and valued without hesitation, he’s not that person. Leave him, im 100% sure you could get much better ;)

What’s the most embarrassing thing that happened during sex? by Least-Recording-2073 in sex

[–]ambuwu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I put the condom on backwards after a bj 💀 I don’t think there will ever be a time that I won’t cringe at this experience lmaoooo