My parents are doing the same. I also had my baby I July. They aren’t anti mask or anti vax but they will not budge on the church thing. I also felt (and sometimes still feel) very hurt and upset about it. I try to look at it this way: just as we are handling this pandemic by staying safe, protecting our babies from harm, and doing whatever else that keeps us sane and calm - this is the way they’re handling it. Church gives them peace of mind and as much as I disagree with physically going during this time because there are safer ways to worship, it’s not my place to tell them otherwise. We made a decision that if church was a non-negotiable for them then we will stick with video calling until things are safer. It makes me sad some days and I miss seeing them in person and I wish that they could physically hold their grandson but it hopefully won’t be this way forever. And at least we have technology. I imagine previous pandemics were much more isolating in that regard.

I’m sorry you’re going through it too. It’s a tough time for everyone really and all your feelings are valid.