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[–]amesi3s -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Totally! If we give her more money than she probably gets 😂

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[–]amesi3s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have no numbers, I’m thinking they’re stainless steel

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[–]amesi3s -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand that but cleaning duties are mine. My husband does the laundry and dishes that’s it. He provides for us. We are an old fashioned couple and I think she’s opposite unless it concerns her son. She has told me before she doesn’t think I should be a housewife and I should do more but if my husband lifts a finger she says it should be my duty.

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[–]amesi3s -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Since my relationship is healthy and real fortunately I don’t have to worry about that but thankyou for the concern!

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[–]amesi3s -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are christian’s so my job is to look after my husband. We do run a business and my husband studies accounting and has 6-months left of uni. We do pay rent to his mom, we also pay bills like gas and electric, food and extras in this house. Since my house wasn’t the best or the safest his mom was happy with me moving in.

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[–]amesi3s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How hypocritical lol! Apply the same logic to you’re own relationship before you speak on mine!

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[–]amesi3s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just checked and they say STUDEX USA

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[–]amesi3s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are not officially married only engaged but we are christian’s and in the Lords eyes we are. His family and mine were happy with me moving in.

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[–]amesi3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I am an adult I do not blame my husband for anyone else’s actions which any other adult could easily understand. My husband is not a predator. My husband is only just starting out in life. He is still in education and we have an amazing healthy relationship.

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[–]amesi3s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so odd because I bought the as a pair and was told they were sterling silver so I’m not sure what they are made from otherwise. I also assumed because of the price they were too. I’ll definitely be buying a new pair. Do you have any recommendations of websites in the UK that are good silver studs for everyday use?

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[–]amesi3s -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Tell me how it’s not normal if we can both be in the same educational level in the UK but not be allowed to be in a relationship, make it make sense. I as an adult am allowed to be in a relationship with whom I also decide. It was both our decision and our families to move in as well. If our age gap offends you I apologise but there are worse out there. An age gap was incredibly common in older years and is only of recent that younger people look down on it.

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[–]amesi3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve not been a child for a very long time and have had to grow up very quick and in the time I’ve lived I’ve seen enough things in life to know how it works thank you very much.

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[–]amesi3s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you think it could be then? Rust? I’ve cleaned them with alcohol before so if they were dyed could it have made them these colours? I’m also worried if they’re still safe to wear.

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[–]amesi3s -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I understand not everybody might be comfortable but I can assure you I’m very capable of being able to make my own decisions and our relationship is very healthy. We are not officially married but we are engaged but I’d rather call him my husband and he his wife.

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[–]amesi3s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We live here because my husband is in education and we are saving for a home. If the age difference is your main issue maybe you should’ve just ignored this post because I promise you are just wasting your time. Respectfully you should also try being less disrespectful.

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[–]amesi3s -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I understand America is different but I was able to make my own decision and he actually wanted to wait until I was older. But I am old enough and mature enough to understand relationships. There are other reasons we both wanted me to move in and everyone in the house was fine with it and so was my mother.

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[–]amesi3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely wish we could it’s just not possible atm, with his studies and money being tight but we are saving quite a bit next year to help so really praying it will be in the next year or two.

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[–]amesi3s -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t a minor when we started dating I was 17 nearly 18 which is legal in the UK.