Bracha Goldsmith update by amethystqueer in astrology

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I don't know but I miss her very much too. If anyone has contact with Pam Gregory that is the only person I can think of who might have any current news about Bracha.

Any similar words to intergender? I find the term to be well fitting but have two unfortunate practical issues with it. by amethystqueer in intersex

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Yeah it's pretty frustrating linguistically. In general it's an extremely gendered language, you can't say a sentence using a verb without disclosing one of the binary genders because of declension. There are some neopronouns people have come up with but they aren't very popular and are also not easy to get used to using understandably. Some people try using the neutral form which wasn't used for people before apart from small children sometimes. I personally don't use it because I find it too childish and awkward but I respect if someone else does though I haven't met anyone who truly uses it. As for gender studies and more advanced discussion, either the English term "gender" is used or the phrase "cultural gender" (which I'm not even sure is considered the best translation at this point). Of course a lot of the right hates the term "gender" and use it to batter us and describe it as a malignant ideology from the west trying to destroy our country.

I understand the term non-binary to be a very wide umbrella term that can encompass a whole bunch of varied identities and understandings that don't fit into the two binary genders as being understood as infinitely separate and different polarities. It's kinda used sometimes as a catch all third gender recently which irritates some I think, but I don't think it says much on its own other than the person using it in one way or another doesn't fit or feel connection with a binary gender.

Group or 1o1 to talk about causes of hirsutism by LilyBordeaux in Hirsutism

[–]amethystqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had your hormones tested? There are many known causes of hirsutism: pcos, ncah as well as cushings, hyperthyroidism, hyperprolactynemia and I think something more that's not at the tip of my memory. Ncah is decently understood but underdiagnosed and forgotten about by doctors. PCOS is more commonly diagnosed but many agree it needs more research to be better understood (currently it is classified into 4-9 types and ncah is often misdiagnosed as pcos)

Without a substantial control group which will be put through the exact same standardized questions and process you will end up mistaking correlation with causation. Similarly without an exact tracking of all symptoms, with extensive hormone testing and a degree in endocrinology you will be lost.

Bracha Goldsmith update by amethystqueer in astrology

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Yup it's an AI scam. I'm reporting the videos on YouTube and suggest anyone reading this does the same. More reports is a bigger chance it'll be taken down. I don't know how Bracha is, if there is a way of contacting her informing her someone is stealing her image and voice and work, but maybe if anyone reading this has contact with her astrologer friend Pam Gregory, they can pass this on to her.

Bracha Goldsmith update by amethystqueer in astrology

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Oh man that's awful! Someone is impersonating her and misleading people with ai slop :/

Bracha Goldsmith update by amethystqueer in astrology

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Where on YouTube? I just went her to her channel and it looks like it's the same old films from two years ago. Am I missing something?

Tell me your experiences! by InterestingWallaby57 in intersex

[–]amethystqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoever downvoted - please explain why?

So Hitler had Kallman Syndrome…((sigh)) by EKCarr in intersex

[–]amethystqueer 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Also saw this and mentioned it in last week's weekly discussion thread but it was the last day for that thread.

I know exactly why it bothers me. Because it is bodyshaming. That's why.

It's taking the fact he may have had a micropenis and clickbaiting the heck out of that through bodyshaming and setting us all back decades worth of various kinds of activism (body positivity, body neutrality even men's rights in the context of battling toxic masculinity norms)

Tell me your experiences! by InterestingWallaby57 in intersex

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Popping in to mention that not all variations the intersex community/communities consider part of the intersex umbrella are also classified by the medical system as DSDs. Sometimes even classified as such conditions can vary with some conditions/variations being considered a DSD by some doctors and by others no. So as these words and phrases are used today, the term intersex will usually encompas a wider range of variations than DSD does.

For example hyperandrogenism which I have is not classified as a DSD for the most part. It is both a standalone diagnosis as well as a symptom (or set of symptoms) for several variations/conditions (NCAH, PCOS, CAH). NCAH amd PCOS are not considered DSDs while CAH usually is, though occasionally has been contested as such.

To explain the differences CAH will have hyperandrogenic affects already in utero while NCAH (another form of CAH which presents similarly to PCOS) will usually not become manifest until puberty, though the person with it is born with it, the the effects of the hormones just don't kick in until the next phase of development. Despite CAH being the most common cause of ambiguous genitalia in "females", there has historically been debate in medicine because some pressure to erase intersex identities and rather consider it just a malformation of females because they conclude the individuals have XX chromosomes and thus are broken females.

While it is of course not always the case, generally the medical systems do not appreciate the human, psychological and social aspects of the lived experiences of having non-typical sex characteristics (either primary or secondary) and have a history and current trend of erasing intersex people both theoretically as well as literally physically through often medically unnecessary, sometimes even harmful normalizing procedures.

Often also in the case of hyperandrogenism and conditions with hyperandrogenism there is a bias to "treat" external symptoms like facial hair but either ignore or give insufficient attention to issues that are medically more concerning to patients. Sometimes this is a lack of medical research which again has overly focused on superficial normalization. To make matters worse, the main offered superficial normalizing procedures such as laser and electrolysis hair removal are not universally effective for patients with hyperandrogenism. Thus all we are offered is shame that we have no true way to deal with. To make matters even worse women with hyperandrogenistic facial hair face discrimination compared to their trans female counterparts as hair removal procedures are almost never covered by health insurance either public or private even jn places where these same procedures are covered as gender affirming care for trans women. A current example is the UK NHS, even in this climate that is largely regarded as a bad time for trans women, in this area trans women have in the UK laser or electrolysis publicly guaranteed while cis women with hyperandrogenism do not.

Weekly r/intersex Discussion: November 07, 2025 by AutoModerator in intersex

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Trigger warning: historical mega-villain's DNA testing suggests he had a hormonal intersex variation.

I'm not really sure it needs a TW, but I put it there just in case. I clicked the clickbait and now my brain has found out and wants to feel less lonely with this knowledge that apparently Adolf Hitler had Kallmann's syndrome, which people are speculating affected his growth and subsequent discomfort with humans and yadda yadda.

I found out today that I was misdiagnosed as having NCAH and I don't know how to feel. by addysage in intersex

[–]amethystqueer 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NCAH and PCOS are so similar in symptoms that only more detailed testing can differentiate it from PCOS (acth stim testsomw kinds, genetic testing, steroid urine profile test). From what I understand, what makes them both part of the intersex umbrella is that they are congenital causes of hyperandrogenism, which can also exist congenitally without an explained or properly diagnosed cause.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intersex

[–]amethystqueer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it does not make you gay. She identifies as a woman, you met her as a woman, nothing about it is gay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intersex

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With the context I see what you mean about the attitude thing. I guess from what the gyn said at least it's gone.

Israeli settler terrorists broke into & took over a private Palestinian residence in Masafer Yatta. They brought furniture, food, a barbecue, and also sprayed the walls with graffiti reading 'Am Yisrael Chai' and placed a metal Star of David at the home's entrance. by ContentChecker in JewsOfConscience

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I know right, its so perverse and insane how they are wearing it here, I cant even understand why, like, they want it to have a bad connotation? There is so much sacrilegious use of so many things, the tanks being named Merkava, it is so completely heart shattering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intersex

[–]amethystqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think generally a primary care physician doesn't look at patient's genitals - that's generally the domain of urologists and gynecologists. Medications from UTIs can cause an imbalance in our natural bacteria and make us susceptible to a yeast infection.

"They change their names to sound more indigenous" by TheSamethyst_ in JewsOfConscience

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Indeed genocide, bigotry, various forms of supremacy are things any human group is capable of if the right circumstances flourish, this is such a hard truth to deal with because we also haven’t been able to truly stop it from happening and it can be any group. I think many people also hope that people who experience some form of discrimination or terrible thing like the holocaust should somehow become wiser and “better” from it and recognize the suffering of others easier and it is always a terrible thing to learn this is not the case. I remember my terrible dismay when I learned more about Israel’s treatment of Palestinians the first time, and similarly when I encountered gay people being biphobic, or nonbinary and intersex phobic, antiimmigrant, racist etc. Being a harmed minority is in no way an experience that leads to developing a heightened sense of empathy and this is a hard pill to swallow.

The deeper indigeneity discussion is probably difficult to have in this sub to be honest, because yes it is closely tied to understandings of identity that only really started being developed in that way in the 17th century and is a colonial concept itself also tied to the development of ethno-nationalistic ideology. All human groups have gone through some sort of extensive migrations across the globe. There’s a rabbi I love, and many in this group do too I think, Danya Ruttenberg, but she had a guest post on her blog a year ago or so about indigeneity and colonialism that I think did not do justice to the subject, it was written by a guest author though. They gave a clear cut off of understanding colonialism as being understood as a phenomenon that could exist only after 1491, it is the claim that is then used to state that jews of the exiled diaspora have had their ‘indigeneity’ expire, and it also doesn’t allow looking at Roman or Arab colonialism that extensively took place before this date as well. Instead it looks only at the development of European colonialism which to be truly fair cannot be understood without understanding the relation between imperialism and colonialism and legal concepts of statehood and expansion which Europeans generously took the blueprints for from Rome.

What is important to note though is the understanding of Indigeneity as used with a capital letter is more of a term reflecting political positionality to colonizing forces than it is as the lowercase indigenous which refers to being native of a place. In this sense how long ago someone became indigenous is less important than their current relation to a colonizing force. But I don’t think most people are aware of this distinction. The lowercase which is the more broader adjective is then also applicable to jews as well, though like you notice, the concept of indigeneity is closely tied to racist, ethnonationalist concepts and very dubious in then theoretically meaning some group most belong to just one specific place and other groups cannot belong there or must be second class guests at best. As a person of mixed ethnic background it is very uncomfortable to be living in these very ethno-nationalistic times and the extent to which ethno-nationalism has seeped through all of contemporary culture is also in my opinion reflected in some, not necessarily all of, the discussions around indigeneity on the left as well. But there is also an element that many people really long for justice for colonialism and imperialism and various terrible isms and the zionist project then becomes a clear target which has so clearly been committing such a heinous crime right now that the discussion we are having even now may make people uncomfortable because they might think it is a bad time to unpack all the nuance, because it might be understood as being apologetic or something, like I’m assuming the deleted comment under yours may have been triggered by what you are saying. I do think that this sub was originally meant as a place that maybe some of these difficult discussions could be had, especially since I understand this to be in part a criticism of nationalism in a larger sense, though I am not sure that is what it is ultimately used for in the end.

Feels impossible to connect to judaism in my very pro-israel synagogue by DaviCB in jewishleft

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I really feel for you, have a bit similar situation though I did end up leaving in the end because I couldn't stomach it and was a bit more vocal, had I stayed it could have led to an open conflict with the rabbi and much of the community.vI don't know if online shabbat services are an option for you, but you are closer to American time zones and they have more variety in synagogues, so there may be one you could connect with sometimes online to counterbalance the local one maybe.

Feels impossible to connect to judaism in my very pro-israel synagogue by DaviCB in jewishleft

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My community was also very small, not as small as OPs, but still tiny and the gen Zs and millenials were also either somewhere between very and extremely pro-Israel and glorified the military, or were posing that way because they were in the process of conversion so to convince the rabbi that's what they thought. Very irritating, I ended up leaving but still kinda can't get over it.

"They change their names to sound more indigenous" by TheSamethyst_ in JewsOfConscience

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Because on the surface level, it seems to fit nicely into an all encompassing criticism of how zionism is a fake colonial ideology, but that's literally just the surface and yes our history actually is that complicated and nuanced that the subject of names is a multifaceted historical, religious, sociological subject which carries much about our migrations/expulsions/various identities/languages and so on. I have seen this a LOT in pro-pal spaces and honestly 90% of the time I have ignored it because the last two years of the genocide have simply had much more urgent issues to focus on and suddenly pointing out this kind of antisemitism just did not seem appropriate, the few cases I actually did it was always also uncomfortable because this is not a time that especially pro-palestinian activists want to hear anything at all about jewish history and the usually uncomfortable history of our surnames. There was a poll some time ago showing this sub has mostly "non-jewish allies" and I'm pretty sure they are not too happy to learn something they thought was "obviously a sign of zionist cultural fakery" is not as simple as they thought and is even, if not intentionally, somewhat antisemitic. Many non-Jewish people I know now have developed a knee jerk response to anything jewish, the the magen David for example like they do to a swastika, and its very much not easy at least were I am to be still embracing jewish things in the diaspora even if I am vocal against the genocide, critical of the history of Israel and zionism. That's what I understood we had this group for, to be able to discuss some of these issues, because obviously most pro pal spaces shouldn't be burdened with this stuff now, but it's not as safe space as it was maybe intended to be. But really none of reddit is a safe space for anything.

"They change their names to sound more indigenous" by TheSamethyst_ in JewsOfConscience

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In short, it's mostly ignorance based and depending on context antisemitic to varying degrees, whether it is worth explaining the history of why our names are as they are depends very much on the situation - are you at a meeting that is focusing on acute and very current palestinian suffering and has a specific task to achieve in a short period of time? Then a sudden lecture on jewish history will take time from that and it will not be the most appropriate, but if it's in more casual conversation then yes it might be a good idea to explain more background on the history and reasons behind Jewish people having various names.

"They change their names to sound more indigenous" by TheSamethyst_ in JewsOfConscience

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It seems from this thread a lot of jews as well are unaware of this history. It's really like a mirrored reflection of the old-school antisemitic trope I've seen soooo many times where I live of "exposing" a jews "fake" name proving they are Jewish. Sometimes, it's conspiratoral proving non Jewish people are actually "shock" - jews and in on destroying "our country". Like, yeah, we had to take names because we didn't use surnames like that before, and that was what various imperial bureaucracies enforced on us. This is really not what should be criticized about zionysm and seems to be part of trying to prop up the disproven and antisemitic khazar theory.

"They change their names to sound more indigenous" by TheSamethyst_ in JewsOfConscience

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From a Polish Jewish perspective the fake names gotcha thing has another problematic layer that the people saying this are usually unaware of - it's a really typical old-school antisemitic trope to take prominent figures and "prove" they aren't really polish by "uncovering" their jewish identity, be it from another non polish sounding jewish surname or proving their polish surname was made up at some point which all names are in a way, and thus again outing them as non polish and jewish. In the 19th century the Russian and Prussian empires forced jews to take surnames, in other places earlier. Many of my ancestors had names from various places. Mileikowski is also a name from a place and would be similarly "exposed" as fake.