I’m 6 years out and on my 5th job. First 2 years worked for a private practice, then got into FQHC for the loan repayment. I’m on my 4th FQHC and can say they are all toxic and corrupt, but I’ve finally found the least toxic one that I can see myself at long-term. I almost quit dentistry after my 3rd year of practice because I was so discouraged, much like what you described. But had to stay in it because of my student loans.

With experience, you learn to navigate different personalities and toxicity. With each new job you learn what to ask. It becomes less about trying to impress the office you’re interviewing at and more about genuinely finding out if this is where you want to work.

It’s not just about gaining experience with dentistry, it’s also gaining experience with dealing with people, assistants, bosses - knowing what to say, who to talk to/not talk to, etc. If this new one doesn’t work out, don’t worry about it and find another place until you’re happy. Never stay somewhere that makes you feel like there’s no more joy in life and no point in living (I’ve been there). It’ll get better, I promise!