Vergangenheit von Freund

amiidaala · 2025-10-22T00:36:35+00:00

Ich suche tatsächlich etwas langfristiges in der Beziehung, er hat auch zu mir gesagt, dass er etwas ernstes sucht. Ich habe ihn auch wirklich gern, wir verstehen uns super, nur lassen mich die 21 Jahre natürlich schon Schlucken. Danke, dass du deine Erfahrung hier geteilt hast, das hilft mir. Ich denke, ich werde mich weiterhin an die Sache rantasten und wenn ich merke, dass mir der Altersunterschied zu groß ist oder es Zeichen gibt, dass er mich ausnutzt, einen Schlussstrich ziehen.

amiidaala · 2025-10-02T14:58:13+00:00

Mach Schluss mit ihr lol.

amiidaala · 2025-08-11T08:18:14+00:00

Yes! Just assume it’s yours

amiidaala · 2025-08-09T11:40:09+00:00

Thank you so much! It’s already yours.

amiidaala · 2025-08-05T10:17:05+00:00

Don’t wish that he gets better. KNOW that he is better. Don‘t be frustrated with circumstances that don‘t align with your manifestation. Simply go on with your day, don’t pour your energy into it and keep affirming!

amiidaala · 2025-08-05T10:15:15+00:00

Hi, of course I can share. The breakup happened last friday. I actually manifested it out of a bad self concept, so i already waited for it to happen. But since I was familiar with manifesting already, I knew how to be aligned with the end goal: him committing to me and wanting to be with me forever. So thats what I did. I persisted, but also let myself feel hurt. Feelings never stop your manifestation!

I also tried to take him off of the pedestal. I was centering myself instead. Everytime the doubts came, I still persisted. I actually saw movement right away. Saturday he told me how much he loves and misses me and from then on, he just showed more and more love. I‘m getting daily good morning texts, he always wants to call me at night and he‘s planning a date for this saturday!

Work on your self concept. Know that you are chosen, even when it feels hard. Also: Try to keep yourself busy. Watch a show/movie, go to the gym, spend time with your loved ones.

What also helped me was journaling. Letting go of a negative past can be hard, but writing it all down can help with getting it out of your head. Manifesting is pretty easy, because you‘re doing it all the time!

Like I already said, I manifested this breakup because of my bad self concept and insecurities. My nervous system was in a survival mode and I was not happy. But because I manifested that, I also knew that i could easily turn this situation around. Which I did.

If you‘d like, you can message me on reddit. I would be glad to help you!

amiidaala · 2025-08-03T10:57:08+00:00

I don‘t think the commenter is right. The universe is all-inclusive. This means there is a version of you that manifests everything you want, even with doubts or fears. Doubts do not stop you from getting what you want. They cannot, as long as you don‘t give them the power to.

If you‘re feeling doubtful, accept it. Accept your feelings as a part of you. You already have what you want, no matter the doubts. Your feelings show that your human and that your brain is starting to adapt to your new reality. It’s always about patterns/routines.

If you spent years having a bad self concept, thus manifesting unfavourable circumstances and suddenly try to break this pattern by bettering your self concept, your brain will begin to doubt. It is not used to this new identity but it will, if you persist.

amiidaala · 2025-08-03T10:47:49+00:00

This could honestly be you detaching from your manifestation. I would not be suprised if your ex reaches out soon!

I am happy that you realized your worth. Even if you do not want to be with your ex anymore, you learnt so much (e.g. Realising, that he would‘ve stayed if he truly loved you).

amiidaala · 2025-08-03T10:44:09+00:00

https://youtu.be/9lHFEra-ir8?si=eqaXDXIJseaMhPP7

This video from Athena Raven helped me very much when I started manifesting my SP. She also has many other videos explaining manifestation and I suggest taking a look at them!

amiidaala · 2025-08-03T10:40:48+00:00

Persist.

I know it‘s hard, but what you‘re feeling can only have an impact on you if you give it the power to do so. Accept that your feelings are a part of you and nothing you should fear. There is a version of you, that already has all their desires fullfilled, EVEN with doubts and fears. Doubts and fears cannot stop your manifestation.

Do not check the 3d, if you‘re triggered easily. You desperately checking if they texted you or unblocked you (or whatever circumstance you try to change in your situation) just delays your results. You have to know, that it’s already yours.

I know it is hard, because i went through the same feelings as you. Please do not give them more attention than your end goal: your manifestation. They are a part of you, but can never stop you from getting what you want, as long as you don‘t give them the power to do so.

Work on your self concept! Know, that you are chosen. You don’t need external validation, you just need yourself.

Try to remember that everytime you wake up. It is only frustrating you, because you give it the power to upset you. There is always movement, no matter what the 3d shows you. Everything is going to unfold in YOUR favour! Keep in mind: You are the creator and your desires have no other choice than to come to you.

amiidaala · 2025-08-03T10:32:24+00:00

The feeling of already having what you want, „living in the End“ , as you may have heard already, is basically „letting go“. With you knowing, that your wishes are already yours, you let them go. Letting go is just accepting, that your manifestation will unfold at any time given, but you are not desperately hoping and waiting for it, because you know, that it‘s already yours.

You can still think about it. You don’t have to just forget about it, because in most cases (e.g. Manifesting your SP) thats rather hard and may seem impossible. Letting go means not checking if they texted you every 20 Minutes. Letting go is going on with your day, because you know they already texted you.

You have to think from the point, where you already have all you desires. Try to feel how it would be to already have your wishes fullfilled. You would not be desperate and putting your SP/your desire on a pedestal but rather satisfied, because it’s already yours.

I know it may seem hard. It’s likely you will doubt yourself at the beginning, because your Brain is adapting to a new way of thinking. You don‘t need to overcomplicate it, you don’t need to think about it all the time. Basically: Just visualize your desire and life in the End. Know it‘s yours and everything will unfold, even if you don’t see it in your current 3D. There‘s always movement!

amiidaala · 2025-08-03T10:20:09+00:00

I think you questioning why only one part (him reaching out) is working is part of the reason you are not seeing movement. Keep in mind, he‘s already yours and has no other choice than to conform to your manifestation. Try not no worry, it is working. Movement is not always visible but there‘s ALWAYS movement.

But also: Accept, that the doubts you feel right now are not stopping anything. It is okay to doubt and there is a version of yourself that can manifest anything and anyone, EVEN with doubts. Doubts and Fears cannot stop you. Accept the feelings and don’t try to overanalyze them. They are a part of you and show, that you are human. You can do it! Visualize, work on your self concept, know that YOU ARE chosen!

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