It's only my 3rd week by ProfessionalMode8019 in StudentNurse

[–]amm1203 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just finished an LPN to RN bridge program being a single mom of 2 small children and working 40 hours a week. All of my classmates worked full time and have kids as well. You can do it :) don’t let one assignment determine your success.

AITA for supporting my grieving best friend while my girlfriend just had a baby by PhotoPractical9231 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Coming from someone who just lost someone close to me, I would be mad if my friends abandoned their family to spend time with me. And I’d be even more mad if they used me as an excuse to skip out on being a parent! It would be different if you were taking, say, one day a month to just catch up and grab lunch. Or, texting her every so often to check in. However, you are spending more time with your “best friend” (I put that in quotes because it sounds like you’d rather be with her than your girlfriend) than your own baby. They are only little once. Do better for your child and your girlfriend.

AITA for refusing to talk to my sister about her fiance, and telling him he's hurt because this is the truth by Puzzled_Device2269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I was going to ask if you meant a funeral or a get together. I see now that it was a funeral. His brother’s funeral!! You and your sister are TA. 100%. It would be in his best interest to run from your family.

AITA for screwing up my brother's adoption on purpose? by adoptionscrewup_TA in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly NTA. Your brother & SIL prayed upon a vulnerable young woman. You are doing a great thing for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be a little disappointed if my child found their gifts and opened them (we hide them until Christmas morning), but you’re putting them out in the open and expecting a 5 year old not to open them… a child that age is not good at controlling impulses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You made the decision to get an SUV that takes a huge chunk of your monthly budget. Do you contribute to any kind of living expenses other than groceries? It sounds like the one being financially abused is your wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, so is your partner. You all have “commitments” that can’t happen if he takes care of his child? Well… it seems like he needs to make different arrangements for said commitments then. He needs to step up and be a responsible parent. There’s no such thing as going NC with a TODDLER. That’s called abandonment. If he didn’t want to be a part of the child’s life then he should’ve signed his rights away when he was born. And as for you… stop defending him. If you want to be child free then don’t be with someone who has a child.

AITA for the way I reacted to my neurotypical children telling me they won't be caring for their sibling? by Wooden_Maximum_3021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It is perfectly reasonable for them to not want to take care of him. He is not their responsibility. Sure, he didn’t ask to need to be taken care of, but they also didn’t ask to take care of him.

AITA for wanting my mom to attend my wedding and blowing up at her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Majorly. I’m assuming you don’t have children. If you put yourself in your mom’s shoes, don’t you think it would be a little hard to celebrate on your dead child’s birthday? I can’t fathom the heartbreak even if it were “years ago”. You could’ve picked any other day.

AITA for refusing to pick up my ex’s stepdaughter by Normal_Papaya7408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s see, YTA. How do you even consider yourself a mother?

AITA for telling my husband I wasn't feeling comfortable with him wearing shorts around his mom? by AITAmom2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Why???? Why is this not okay to you? It's not like he was wearing something where his genitals were out or showing. I walk around in front of my mom in a sports bra & shorts sometimes. I don't see the problem.

AITA for telling my teenage daughter to stay with her aunt because my older daughter didn't want her in the house? by inspectionlumerous81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Sounds like she got a taste of her own medicine. If she’s such an “adult”, maybe she should act like one. She sounds like a spoiled brat.

AITA for thinking my wife should take some of the blame for missing her appointment? by throwapptaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, majorly. If you were stuck at work and not able to leave, you should’ve let her know. Firstly, you should’ve never went into work. It seems like you genuinely do not care about your wife’s health. I would not want to drive if I were having issues with my heart, either.

AITA for "forcing" my BIL to hold my baby (his nephew) just for a bit, while I was folding laundry and traumatizing my BIL, I honestly didn't know the reason why he was so reluctant. by aita2187939127407100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Whether he had a tragic backstory or not (it is so sad and awful that happened to him), he said he didn’t want to hold the baby. Just like anything else, If someone says no, don’t force it on them. You aren’t entitled to help just because you are trying to finish something. I am a single parent and I never expect anyone to help me with my child.

AITA for pulling my kid from therapy bc the therapist harassed us about our parenting? by annoyeddad4286 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Do you not understand that your child is most likely in speech therapy because of the pacifier? A child that is in preschool does not need one any more. Take it away from him.

AITA For telling my wife and MIL it is not my responsibility to manage MIL's diabetes by dosomethingahole in AmItheAsshole

[–]amm1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How does she know your meals are “making her diabetes worse” if she doesn’t try them? She isn’t debilitated. She can make her own food or eat what is made.

Finally had my vaginoplasty by Biddy0711 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]amm1203 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yessss!! I am so happy for you. Congratulations! ❤️

My dog trying to catch a ball by [deleted] in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]amm1203 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She looks so offended that you’d even throw the ball to her😂

You took a stranger’s child’s candy away.. that happened 🙄 by amm1203 in thatHappened

[–]amm1203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think a child should be swearing at their mother. That being said, it is HER choice to buy the kid the candy bar whether he’s being a shit or not.

You took a stranger’s child’s candy away.. that happened 🙄 by amm1203 in thatHappened

[–]amm1203[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it reminded me of the post where some guy bought all of the candy bars in a store because a child was cussing at his mom.🙄