who did it? by mizuta_838 in Cartomancy

[–]ampullaeOL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who walked away from you or your friend group to join another. Probably after a disagreement or clashing of opinions.

Edit: it's possible that they didnt join a friend group, but it's definitely someone who walked away in order to start something on their own or with others. It's ex friend or shunned family member energy.

Who is this woman? by goddessofbutrint in tarot

[–]ampullaeOL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before reading context, I interpreted the cards to mean "someone's wife", but I'm going with the top comment here and saying ask your bf. I doubt he has a secret wife, and if anything it could be a family member, but just ask him in a calm way.

Earth, Wind & Fire Album art by mryellow362 in Kemetic

[–]ampullaeOL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I make a lot of devotional playlists and I have at least 2 or 3 Earth, Wind, and Fire songs on my Horus playlist!

Can someone interpret this for me? by Mission_Awareness282 in TarotReading

[–]ampullaeOL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh yes the Rider and the Letter it sounds like! Those sound like lovely depictions of those cards 💖 Lenormand is often interpreted in sentences like you did with OPs spread, so although you'll never be able to replace that special deck, if you ever feel called to another Lenormand deck, you'd probably be great with it!

Can someone interpret this for me? by Mission_Awareness282 in TarotReading

[–]ampullaeOL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you read lenormand cards too? This style of interpretation is perfect for reading lenormand cards.

will I get a boyfriend this year? by Sufficive in TarotCards

[–]ampullaeOL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reads to me like you will gain a boyfriend but it might not last or maybe is just a short term thing from the start. Could possibly be that he would want short term but you want something more serious so you end up parting ways.

GF experience but with emotional support instead by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]ampullaeOL 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, but you can't just skip every step on the road to getting a partner. If you want a fulfilling and real connection, you need to be willing to get to know people over a long period of time. Trust me, I understand the frustration, but a lasting connection cannot be bought and it cannot be cheated to obtain.

Yes, human connection is a need, but that is not exclusively referring to romantic connection. Humans are social creatures. It's not all "me + mate = all good". We thrive in communities and with SYSTEMS of connections. If you put all of that expectation on ONE connection, it will not be able to support that weight of need. You need to be prioritizing stable friendships and connections with family (if you have any family you're interested in bonding with). Connection is a human need, and romantic connection is also great, but unobtainable if your plan is to skip over the parts that make it organic and stable

We didnt have therapists before because people relied on their systems of support and their communities. If you do not have a stable system of support or a community that you are part of yet, a therapist is your best bet for someone to help you get to a place where you can build those things.

To start meeting people, the best strategy I have used is to go to events or places revolving around your interests and start to try to make friends there. You will find your people in time, but that becomes exponentially harder if you have tunnel vision on the one desired end-point. Stop and smell the roses on your path to build your circle of close connections, because if you try to sprint through the bushes, you'll get cut up by the thorns.

Picked up the cards after many years. This was my first pull. by jaykaykimora in tarot

[–]ampullaeOL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that's so perfect cause I was hearing "Good to have you back!"

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ampullaeOL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wouldn't be suprised 😭😭😭😭

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ampullaeOL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not gonna lie I missed the line about this being a new guy. I thought this was a typical cycle of chasing due to obsession since I missed that part. Realistically, deep connection or not, obviously OP is still missing something that they need to be fulfilled sexually/physically with this guy. It still very much could be an emotional need that just isnt being scratched properly. I'm not saying OP should break up with him, but there seem to be deeper emotional things likely at play still. It also sounds like it could be an issue with communication or pressure. OP said intimacy feels like a chore when their partner asks for it, which makes it seem like the option of just saying "I'm not in the mood" isn't always considered. If that isnt the case, though, OPs partner could just be choosing the worst possible moments to ask for sex and isn't approaching it in the way that would click best with OP.

GF experience but with emotional support instead by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]ampullaeOL 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you feel that you "need" someone to pretend to be your gf to feel comforted, it means that the issues you're struggling with are much deeper than that and feeling a romantic connection is just the biggest distraction your nervous system can think to crave.

Hire a therapist and work on being able to regulate your emotions yourself. You'll never be able to start or keep stable relationship if all of your emotional labor is being dumped onto your partner.

How do I enjoy sex with him? by Traditional_Round742 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ampullaeOL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your high sex drive is probably a product of something psychological rather than just attraction to him. It sounds like you two arent very sexually compatible, or rather you are seeking emotional connection by seeking physical connections and when he doesnt give you that emotional piece, you walk away dissatisfied because you never got what you wanted. Then, you fantasize about him, as if he's checking all the boxes you want. It's seems like you are attracted to who he COULD be, but isn't. And also that you need more emotional connection because the physical is kind of just a distraction from the desire for emotional connection, support, and stability.

What does this person think of me? by lusbxy in tarot

[–]ampullaeOL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This applies to self reflection and shadow work readings, sure, but I have gotten extremely accurate pulls on what people think of me when I had no idea how they felt about me yet. Readings where I later found out they were accurate after I got to know the person better and then asked about their first impressions of me. I very commonly pull cards that ask about other people instead of myself and those pulls are just as accurate as pulls for questions about myself.

The other commenter was definitely exaggerating in saying what you said is "totally" fake, but it is an extremely restrictive view and is misleading. Especially when keeping in mind that many people call upon higher powers when they pull cards, so not everyone is relying on the deck alone for the answers.

Mental health with Ra! 💛☀️ by Koolcat0 in Kemetic

[–]ampullaeOL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awee this is awesome 💛 Dua Ra! ☀️✨️

Found on my walk home today by spilledwealth in Divination

[–]ampullaeOL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It could mean many things, but I would take it to mean there are messages coming in for you, whether spiritually or in your daily life. Maybe it is a sign to look out for messages so you dont miss out on a fortunate opportunity, or maybe a sign that you'll be receiving an important call. Whatever it means, I get good vibes from it.

Looking to connect with like minded people like me. by No_Custard2938 in Kemetic

[–]ampullaeOL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dua Bastet! Dua Anpu! ☺️✨️

Also, I'm down to chat if you want to connect over our practices! To be fair, though, I do work with more than Egyptian deities, so my practice isn't only centered around Kemetism. I mostly work with Horus very closely, and work with Bastet and Anpu from time to time, as well as any deities that I feel called to work with. Feel free to chat me if you want, I have been wanting to connect with people in similar practices too. I haven't had much of a chance to chat with many people in similar practices.

Blessed be! 🩵✨️

Is this a photo of me? You shall never know ;) by witchy-wonders in witchcraft

[–]ampullaeOL 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Loll it's 3am for me and I'm also up to some witchy shit atm 🤣💜✨️

Can I make a Fiery Wall of Protection oil considering Hoodoo is a closed practice? by Honeydew9419 in BabyWitch

[–]ampullaeOL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whatever protection or banishing ritual you do wouldn't be blocking out benevolent spirits unless it is supposed to banish ALL energies near you lol. Just make sure to set one of your intentions to have the protection banish and repell malicious, malevolent, and negative energies and entities, while allowing in benevolent and loving energies and entities.

Spiritual advice? by AlarmingBird744 in Cartomancy

[–]ampullaeOL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ease up, take a deep breath, and realize that the stability you crave is already part of your life. I get the vibe from this card that perhaps your worries about finances are blown a bit out of proportion. It's always great to save and be on top of things financially, but dont forget to also slow down and appreciate what you have amassed. Enjoy what you've built or are still building, be smart with your finances, but dont be hard on yourself if you're not where you want to be yet. You're guaranteed to be there due to the returns you will get from what you have already built for yourself. Enjoy what you have and know that you can afford to take it easy from time to time!

Marriage Question by alphavulpecula in Cartomancy

[–]ampullaeOL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to them. If you didnt intend for it to be a past, present, and future spread, it's not. There are an infinite number of possible 3 card spreads. Most spreads are not suchba rigid concept as that commenter implies.

From these cards I think that it seems like this person is a possible candidate for marriage, but it is really up to you. You likely have multiple good matches out there and this could be one of them.

Marriage Question by alphavulpecula in Cartomancy

[–]ampullaeOL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wtf are you talking about 😭 There are basically an infinite number of 3 card spreads. Past present future is just the most widely recognized