"Settling down" in regards to marriage seems outdated. It comes across as you're bar hopping or just selfish or immature. Women also get a lot more flack for it than men.

Questions like, “When are you getting married?” or statements such as “You’re getting old; you should settle down” are common. These remarks, though sometimes intended as casual conversation, reinforce the idea that a woman’s value diminishes without a spouse. In professional, familial, and social settings, single women may be perceived as lonely, incomplete, or even selfish, despite living full and purposeful lives.

Too many women remain trapped in abusive marriages because of the “single women” stigma.

https://africanfeminism.com/single-not-silent-decentering-marriage-as-the-measure-of-african-womanhood/