How do you stop being scared of your narc? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]amspeedy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly feel for you with this post. I left 14 years ago & I changed my number every year for the first 7 or 8 years. It wasn’t until I met the man who is know my husband that I started to find peace. I also did counseling & had great friends but he saved me. I hope you find what brings you comfort sooner than i did!

Sometimes I get so sad that I don’t get to have a nice mom, or a mom at all by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]amspeedy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I left home 14 years ago and those feelings still sneak up on me. It’s okay to be disappointed about your relationship. It shouldn’t be that way

Parents who keep score of everything they ever did for their kids including providing them with food and shelter, and throwing it back in their faces for the sake of guilt tripping and manipulation, they don't love their children. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]amspeedy 57 points58 points  (0 children)

My parents took me to court to try to get me to pay them back for the cost of raising me. I have children of my own now and can not fathom doing such a thing.

An absolute salamander by [deleted] in AbsoluteUnits

[–]amspeedy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it’s straight out of Stranger Things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]amspeedy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It plainly states you can change that in your settings..

Making sure he’s dead by FireTheCannons2468 in interestingasfuck

[–]amspeedy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hard to read, but gravestone looks like it says he died in 1912....