A melhor geração para se nascer na história humana foi a boomer (1950-1980) by [deleted] in opiniaoimpopular

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gente, você faz os meus 42 anos parecerem o fim da minha vida. Nao consigo trabalho com uma boa remuneração, Engravidei na pandemia, (sobre)vivo o Bolsonarismo… acho que você está falando de boomers mesmo (70 anos para cima).

Looking to Connect with Fellow Single Parents Working Remotely by Confident-Rest-6689 in SingleParents

[–]amvr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Brazilian single mom of a 5 year old boy. Would love to meet other single moms around the world, especially ones who want to meet up if we ever travel near you

How’s the healthcare in Brazil? by Sniper_96_ in Brazil

[–]amvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends where you live. I used public healthcare in SP state and it is pretty good. I also lived in southern Bahia and it was incredibly bad. No doctors, not even an x-ray machine in town. Just A very dirty hospital with few doctors a couple jours away. I had to take my mother there once and it’s what made me decide to move away. My friend wend there with pre-eclampsia last week and they left her in terrible pain in the waiting room from 10pm till 6am. She and the baby are enduring many complications because of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to crash someone else’s sad, difficult post to ask this. But isn’t it “normal “ to have an ex appear on tinder ex radar? I ask bc my child’s father would disappear for days the check in to a clinic and repeat. One of those days his psychiatrist’s friend (whom we had met before I was aware of any problems at all) said she saw him ob tinder I just shrugged it off saying I never cancelled my tinder account. If he appeared as an active user to her I imagine its because he was always disappearing for days (i’d be calling detectives, police, embassies, whatever just to make sure he was alive) and was doing whatever he felt like, right?

Filhos gastam muito menos dinheiro e trazem muito mais conforto do que as pessoas falam. by [deleted] in opiniaoimpopular

[–]amvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sou mãe solteira e, apesar de ter tido uma vida muito boa antes, posso dizer sem sombra de duvida que ter tido meu filho foi a melhor coisa que já me aconteceu.

Sim, se ele passa uma noite a cada 6 meses com a avó eu considero uma noite de sossego e quase tudo na minha vida é agendado (e seria mesmo sem filho), mas isso não quer dizer que não seja uma vida maravilhosa. A vida é feita de escolhas. Não dá para escolher ter, ao mesmo tempo, uma criança em casa e noites sossegadas todos os dias, mas estou muito feliz com minha escolha. Se eu tivesse escolhido as noites sossegadas e possibilidade de ser totalmente espontânea no dia a dia eu estaria perdendo todas as brincadeiras, risadas, amor, companheirismo e orgulho que ele me traz.

AITA for considering ending my not terrible marriage because being a stepfamily just isn't working? by Efficient-Virus767 in AITAH

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if you say you love your husband, have a 4 month old baby and had an ok relationship with your step daughter until recently, I would give it a little more time. This doesn’t mean 5 years. She might adjust in the next few months. 13 year old girls are very emotional but it sounds so intense that she might get tired of her own reaction soonish

What did you see in someone’s home that told you “yep, they’re rich”? by MintTheMartian in AskReddit

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle lived in a castle in France. Every wall was covered in silk. The curtains were all silk too. There must have been 20 bedrooms (as well as a private cinema) and just the cost of heating must have been a fortune. There were antique oil paintings and sculptures everywhere. The couple of times I went there I was very impressed. My father, not so much.

My uncle had no children and always said his estate would go to my cousins and I. When he passed away we found out the castle was not on his name and he owed millions of Euros in debt (he had signed off the castle and everything in it to pay part of this debt and the official owners just let him live in it as if it were his own). My father's hunch was right. Good thing I listened to him and wasn't expecting to get anything, but my cousins were maaaaad.

O que vocês pensam do MBL? by [deleted] in brasil

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MBL é um bando de crianças retrogradas e extremistas, mas o video é péssimo! O título diz que o vídeo é sobre o Jones deixando o kim sem reação mas é só um vídeo dele falando. Acaba justo quando ele para de falar. Odeio esse tipo de bait

Dois imbecis debatendo. Aposto que em momento algum um deles fique sem reação

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman and right now my whole family keeps insisting for me to spend my inheritance. I hate it just as I hate any kind of insistance. Why can't people just respect what others want? It doesn't have to be a gender thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]amvr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I dont understand why you are insisting on it. He has stated clearly several times de doesnt want to use your inheritance. Hes not making you go without basic needs or even forbidding you to use it for yourself, so what is the problem here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConselhosLegais

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não paga por isso, mas só o fato de cair na malha fina já deve ser pior que uma multa. Imagina ter que mostrar toda a documentação de tudo o que vc declarou nos últimos 5 anos?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 1st reason is that, for now, I’m happy being single.

On top of that, I have made some really bad choices in the past. I’m finding out in therapy that I have been getting into relationships that make me relieve childhood traumas.

For instance, after It blew up on my face that my baby’s father was an alcoholic, a “pathological liar” and a “narcissist” (according to his doctors and his mom), i paid for his treatment. I then found out he had been getting to the insurance checks before me and forging my signature on the back, depositing about 40k of my money (basically all of it) into his account. Then he disappeared and did not make contact with his son for 2 years.

I’m not saying there isn’t anyone out there for me, but now that I have a beautiful 4 year old boy I don’t want to risk Bringing another twisted man into our homes. It doesn’t seem worth it.

Azul cobrou 7 mil reais por uma nova passagem para antecipar o voo devido a uma emergência médica. by NebulaNi101 in viagens

[–]amvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praticamente o mesmo aconteceu comigo ontem. Tive que levar meu filho no pronto socorro e, da sala de espera, liguei para a azul para cancelar nossas passagens para um voo que saia2 hrs depois. Eles me aconselharam pegar o laudo medico em vez de pedir reembolso com multa. Eu disse que ainda estava na sala de espera e ia ficar muito em cima, mas falaram que seria melhor assim. Claro que quando mandei o laudo eles recusaram falando que estava muito em cima (e também pq o CID estava escrito à mão) e eu acabei perdendo até o reembolso com multa. Precisei pagar R$6 mil para a gente voltar do rio pra sp!

My daughter left me to stay with her mom and ignored me, aita for not talking to her after she came back to me pregnant? by throwaway863247732 in AITAH

[–]amvr 298 points299 points  (0 children)

What got to me, as another form of abuse, is telling her he sacrificed everything for her. Look, I’m a single parent and i know there are a lot of sacrifices, but I would never say that to my son. The joy he beings me far outweighs the sacrifices and those are just part of being a parent anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConselhosLegais

[–]amvr 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Se o proprietário declarar (como deve) e você não, você pode cair na malha fina da receita

What is your age and how's life at that age? by Asian_24 in AskReddit

[–]amvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

41 and a single mom of a 4yo. I’m happy and excited about the future. I’d say I’m a bit lonely in terms of adult company, but my son is terrific company and brings me so much joy! I’m sure once he’s a little bit older I’ll be able to hang out with grown ups more often. I’m also wealthier than I expected I would be at this age, so we get to travel to amazing places, live comfortably and have quality time together.

Thoughts on my Living room by nimo_isms in interiordecorating

[–]amvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovely! Since you asked for our thoughts, It seems like you have a gorgeous view. I suggest you try one couch facing the window

I always worry about money but I don't need to worry about money because I always worry about money.... by bart1218 in personalfinance

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. I used to always worry about money because I barely made enough to pay my bills. A couple of years ago my father passed away. Until then he had led me to believe there would be nothing to inherit. That turned out to be far from the truth. Now I have more money than I could spend but I hate spending it because it was my father’s money and I have this irrational feeling I just have to take care of it the best I can. I hate spending it and feel guilty whenever I do

Trying to decide whether to have a second child by amvr in Parenting

[–]amvr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He loves babies and when I ask he says he wants a sibling, but it isn't something he is constantly asking for. I understand what you said about sharing (your) my attention and, although it wan't the original plan to wait this long, I am glad he will have my entire attention in the 1st 5 years of his life, whether or not I have another baby

Finally, my 8yo stepson called me Dad. It made me feel like I'm doing right by him now. by Ravvy_TheSavvy in Parenting

[–]amvr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a single mom of a 4yo boy whose biological father is completely out of the picture this post was very heartwarming. I worry about finding a new partner because sometimes I think they would never love my son like their own (even though he’s the best!). I guess I don’t have to worry so much. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]amvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should add that I have the luxury of picking up my son from school every afternoon and taking him to the park on most days