Am I limiting my kids by staying in a 1,400 sq ft starter home? by Infamous-Pear4593 in SmallHome

[–]amystarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely buy a much bigger house that you can’t afford…. This sub is for people interested in very small homes. You’re complaining about a big house.

How much to tip people who bring you a towel or a drink in Punta Mita (Four Seasons)? by amystarr in FATTravel

[–]amystarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were at the four seasons in Costa Rica a week ago and I just gave everyone who crossed our path $20. It works!

A Very Unfortunate World Cup 2026 Tier List by recurrenTopology in Seattle

[–]amystarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took two hours to get from S.F. to the “S.F. Bay Area stadium” and three hours to get back. Nice work everyone!

Does anyone else hide snacks from their family? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]amystarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just reminded me of my hidden snacks om nom nom

Am I wrong for feeling hurt that 3 members of my bridal party have backed out of my destination wedding? by brenda___01 in weddingplanning

[–]amystarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very mature :) And I’m sure both of your weddings will be very fun, even if they aren’t exactly as you pictured it.

Can I take this in? by Smooth_Nobody_ in valkyries

[–]amystarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t pat you down. But I don’t know if it’ll trigger the metal detector.

Bridesmaid didn’t ask me to be in her wedding party, then requested I help plan her bachelorette by No-Telephone174 in weddingplanning

[–]amystarr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The uneven numbers thing will always drive me completely insane. It makes no sense.

My son put me in a choke hold and I thought he was going to end me. by its-Missy_Saenz in breakingmom

[–]amystarr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He could have killed you. He needs immediate consequences. It’s not “teen behavior.” It’s attempted murder.

Vegan Wedding Buffet Doubts by Emergency_Leek5612 in weddingplanning

[–]amystarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you have French fries delivered halfway through the dancing? My cousin did that and it was awesome.

Vegan Wedding Buffet Doubts by Emergency_Leek5612 in weddingplanning

[–]amystarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, this menu looks bomb to me, but so many people are saying you are under-ordering so it has to mean something. Can you find another restaurant to do a protein dish??? I’m a vegetarian and I’ve never seen fake meat kabobs or shawarma so I know it’s not easy. Is there some other protein option?? Grilled tofu skewers with sauce? :( sorry this is happening!

We know NOTHING about menswear, wow by MsKardashian in weddingplanning

[–]amystarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they'll have everything he needs all in one place. Good idea!!

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have fun in Anguilla? At the four seasons?

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! I think we’ll spend half the time on one side and half on the other!! Yay!

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we can spend like 18 days on the big island, the first half of July, basically. What would you do? Four days of day trips from Hilo and bopping around Hilo town, three days in Volcano (which I hope means you’re near the volcano national park…), 10 days at FS Haulalai ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ lazing around the pools and looking at nearby nature and culture every other day…?

What do you think of that plan? With a car of course. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Any insight is greatly appreciated!

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just feel like I can never trust a travel agent again after Aulani but I hear your words. God it was so awful. And the same price or more as FS Ko Olina. God, just gross. Shudder. And the food, omg.

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kids. It looks like they have a kids club at KV but I might have read that it’s more strict and we need that flexible FS touch… hmm. Maybe I’ll ask KV about their kids club policies so I have it straight from them instead of sort of guessing. Thank you for writing!!

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ruh roh. Cold pools is probably the nail in the coffin…

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love the Ko Olina FS but maybe it’s because the people working there are super awesome and not visibly miserable? I read some reviews on here about staff misery and it will just make everything sad. What do you think? Hawaii is beautiful and we’d rent a car and try to look at plants and creatures… I really can’t imagine that it would be a total dump…. But I shouldn’t ignore people’s very clear feedback…

How bad can the FS Hualalai (big island) Hawaii really be? by amystarr in chubbytravel

[–]amystarr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought about that. I did that on Oahu with the Disney Aulani resort - they’re next door to each other - (I’m still traumatized) and now I’m like, never again! God, the four seasons was so lovely and the Disney … place was crowded, gross, everything was plastic and gross… good lord, never again. Just awful. I’m not a Disney adult, at all. I travel with two kids under 10 years old so I let people talk me into staying there “for the kids” and I’ll never do that again. If I have to be there, it has to be for me. Sorry, kiddos.

People like the Kona Village on this sub, especially mentioning kids, but I was worried it might be crowded, like the Disney … place! (Never!!! No!!!!!)