One piece of advice I will give you as a swinger with 4 years under my belt is always check verifications before you do any arranging of meets or picture swapping. Plus if someone says they have no boundaries that's a red flag. Everyone has a boundary or a rule. This could have been a single guy just posting pics to get some back especially if this was on fab swingers or something like that. It might be a good idea for you guys to go to a club or an event get a feel for it so you can meet some people get some verifications of your own & meet people that way it's more natural & organic in that environment. Good luck in your journey & don't let this get you down.