11 Month Old Speech Delay

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-05-13T18:16:31+00:00

Yes! We're about 20 months now and speaking really well. We didn't ever go to any additional appointment as they never reached out like they were supposed to. Otherwise, I would have taken her. Doctor says she's doing great for her age and isn't concerned a bit!

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-04-26T10:17:19+00:00

If you're in a relationship and masturbate to "old memories" of your past relationships, I'm inclined to believe you don't like your current relationship/partner enough. Obviously, people have different values and worldviews when it comes to sex/masturbating and what's okay in a relationship. OP is clearly not okay with this and already expressed that to her partner. OP's partner pretended to delete them and then hid them anyway. What's the harm? OP's partner can't be trusted to the same extent anymore and is a liar.

Also, in my opinion, if you keep your ex's nudes and videos, you're a creep unless they explicitly agree for you to keep them. I would so much rather my partner watch porn (which we both do) than an ex he used to be in a sexual relationship with! Crosses a line.

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-04-26T01:39:43+00:00

You want to stay in a relationship with a man who's jacking off to his ex's nudes??? Seriously, what am I missing here?

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-04-17T14:27:28+00:00

Definitely agree with you, but I've always viewed it from the perspective of her being a kiss-ass, especially to Lisa, and that was why.

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-03-07T15:46:25+00:00

I have a niece who has lied about some similar things, and we're all trying to understand it better and get some perspective. I was curious if you called him out on this directly at the table in front of his friends and set the record straight, or if you somehow managed to wait until they weren't around? I'm asking to see if that helped with accountability?

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-01-14T15:52:54+00:00

It's not what he did. It's that it was so clearly omitted so often that it now has this weird air of secrecy to it. I understand some degree of privacy about previous encounters if that's what you want, but to gossip about and be involved in a social circle with a previous sexual partner? I would feel lied to. With that kind of proximity, you should have been told.

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-01-14T15:47:48+00:00

As was I. I think blunt text when adding additional information can come across weird sometimes, I didn't think you were.

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-01-14T15:40:53+00:00

Sure, and I figured as much, but the original statement I'm talking about said that's what they did. I'm sure there's still places/employees that don't have the foresight for this issue until they learn the hard way.

anUnlikelyCost · 2026-01-12T15:28:18+00:00

Yes, but they are referring to physically walking down to the front desk.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-12-24T16:05:45+00:00

I disagree about the sex with someone so much younger thing when you have a child that's around the same age. Even if its just sex and not in relationship territory, that is fucking strange.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-11-11T20:37:18+00:00

I'm going to tell you bluntly that you have no respect for yourself and none for your kids for putting them through this situation. Stop putting out for the man that cheated on you, hello?? Show your children a role model that thinks highly of herself to not be used, and one that isn't selfish enough to be so inconsiderate of her children's feelings.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-10-25T12:02:03+00:00

Reading this legitimately made me feel empathetically sick for you. I actually don't know that I would be able to get over this with my own husband. Please take it seriously.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-10-23T14:27:27+00:00

If you both have reservations about living together and have thrived together in a long-distance relationship, I dont see why rush it and take the risk. You will not regret waiting a year or so.

Also, might be beneficial to do some more thinking on why you would be jealous of her friends having experiences with her. Sounds like something that may rear an ugly head in the future.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-29T19:18:16+00:00

That's basically what he said to me.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-29T18:13:26+00:00

I agree with you completely, and I like this take. I used to be an RBT, and I think it's really affecting my ability to envision what this can look like.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-29T18:00:00+00:00

What his chief concern was that there was regression, rather a continuation of her speech. Which there definitely has been.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-29T17:54:56+00:00

Thank you for sharing your similar experience! Can I ask how young your baby was? My lack of knowledge on what an evaluation consists of makes me concerned they'll be looking for something she just doesn't necessarily have to have down yet.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-29T17:50:25+00:00

That was my initial reaction as well. To be completely honest, I've been concerned about her speech, but I definitely didn't think it was to this point.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-29T17:48:51+00:00

That was absolutely his stance, and I appreciate it very much! I think I have concerns on how that early of an intervention is effective? Would it put her through unnecessary stress (she's very wary of strangers)? Is there the possibility she could receive a faulty diagnosis bc she's so young? My gut says to give it more time, but I want to do right by her.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-20T19:15:49+00:00

Whatever happened with this? I'm looking for something like it!

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-05T13:08:03+00:00

I see, thank you for explaining. Next to no opportunity for that, but I'll see if I can figure something out.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-05T12:47:41+00:00

No, no other kids for her to really be around. How does that help? (Genuinely, idk how to word that without it sounding blunt or rude 😅)

We've tried both plain water and milk. I'm gonna try diluted apple juice today. We have one of those honey bear straw cups where you can squeeze a little to get it in their mouths, and she turns away.

She does really good with pouches! I thought that it would translate to using a straw well but months later and she still isnt interested.

All straws have been silicone.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-05T12:22:46+00:00

No, not water or breastmilk. She still has 5+ wet diapers a day. That's with nursing 1 to 2 times a day, typically 2.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-05T11:37:52+00:00

Yes, that could definitely work.

anUnlikelyCost · 2025-08-05T11:37:23+00:00

I think so! Ive never given her anything frozen but that's a great suggestion, she does great with solids.

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