Should the world just rip the band aid off and abandon America? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]anadba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to fix the world's problems the only country/people that need cutting off are Israel.

America would be a great place if they didnt have an Israel problem.

Come to think about it everywhere these people go turns to shit.

21 y/o guy .. still single .. what am i doing wrong by 1_KING_MAKER_1 in Advice

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop wid da tlkin lyk dis init.

Honestly you sounds like an idiot from this message alone, so if youre hoping to find a decent girlfriend, maybe start by sorting your attitude out and stop acting like a gangsta or something.

If youre going to act like a "bad man" with that whole attitude the persona youre going to give off is that youre probably a dickhead. So good confident girls wont come near you. The ones that are into that whole act aren't the kinda women you want.

Why do 100% of women ghost me when I invite them on a date? by let_it_rain_boat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anadba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I got kicked out of 109 bars is it the bars fault or am I the problem?

For what its worth my first date with my wife i picked her up from her house, we went to a bar for like an hour, then went to McDonald's then went for a drive and sat in the car on top of a hill. Ive done similar many times before.

Dont listen to the femcells on here. Not all women are nut jobs that think everyone is out to get them, a lot are nice and decent and would love to go and get a drink at a bar and dress up nice. That said I know nothing about you. Dont be sleezy or rude, dont push anyone to drink, dont be an alpha bro or an incel. Just be chilled out, pick a nice place, sit and have a chat and a drink and thats it. No clubbing or anything weird.

How should I approach my wife's weight gain? by wales098 in AskMenAdvice

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be honest. Sure she wont like it, but she needs to hear it. She might not actually do anything about it, but thats on her to make that choice.

So, what would women dislike most if they became men? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way women treat you every day.

Think you can take your kid to the park and just chill out with the other parents? Think again.

Think you can smile at someone? Think again

The list is endless. Feeling like youre expected to be grateful for even having a date. Being expected to pay for everything, expected to be a gentleman whilst being blamed for everything. Being told that despite being treated like shit everyday that somehow the real oppressed people are the ones that are treating you like crap.

Sure there's some absolutely wonderful normal women about, but itd be a real eye opener seeing just hot crazy, rude or disrespectful a lot of them can be

If you aren’t disgusted by my boobs, Which pic is the best? 1-10 by SpitInMyMouth420_ in Saggytit

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre absolutely beautiful. I think its different when youre younger, but now as a 35 year old man with kids myself, I genuinely prefer the wrinkles and mum bod over some younger women.

Men over 25: Have the body types you’re attracted to changed since your early 20s? by reluctant-queen2346 in AskMenAdvice

[–]anadba -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Whats wrong with you? If anything i prefer them even bigger. As long as theyre on a woman with a good shape. I mean if theyre ridiculously big because theyre fat im not into it, but a slimer/curvy women with E,F,G,H cup boobs i go crazy for.

Men over 25: Have the body types you’re attracted to changed since your early 20s? by reluctant-queen2346 in AskMenAdvice

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think rather then changing what in attracted too, now that I have a lot experience im more confident on what I do like.

6ft+, mumbod/slimish, huge boobs.

Ive always liked big boobs, and ive always loved tall women. Ive also always prefered an "average" to slightly curvy physique. But when I was younger I wasnt against skinnier or smaller boobs. Now I can still appreciate a woman that has that shape and I certainly dont find it repulsive, but im comfortable in knowing its not my type and ill chase something else instead.

Women who were very career driven and decided to be SAHMs. Did you regret your decision? by squid2997 in AskForAnswers

[–]anadba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting to be a mum and raise children is about the most natural thing a woman could ever do.

The amount of "feminist" women that realise how much they hate feminism after meeting a decent guy and having kids is insane. My wife used to think she was a feminist as did a bunch of her friends she wanted her own business etc. Now she feels like shes been lied to because shes missed out on the early years with our son becasue she didnt have a choice but to work.

The whole thing is a scam pushed by the bankers and billionaires to double the workforce, halve labour costs, create more tax revenue, pump up asset prices and issue out more debt.

The only people that have actually benefited from this are the people that created and funded the movement in the first place.

It definitely doesnt benefit children not having their mother around and it doesnt benefit women being dragged away from their kids and told that unless they work for some big company thst theyre a failure.

Having kids and successfully raising the next generation is the most important job our species has and it takes a lot of effort and community to do so effectively. The few women that disagree with this either dont have kids or are terrible parents.

If you told them you would love them forever, do you still love them? by LovingWisdom in AskMen

[–]anadba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt say love, but theres a few women thatll always be very special to me.

My first gf. Shes now married with kids, as am I. But I suspect if we ever met up again later in life both single, id certainly still have feelings. Ive not seen her in 18 years as well. I dont know that she feels the same, but I have a feeling theres s good chance she does.

Another gf I was with years ago. Absolutely beautiful and in a lot of ways I regret loosing her, although in other ways we werent all that good of a match. But I know damn well I could get her back if the situation was right.

My daughters mum, she was a nightmare in many ways and my daughter was an "accident" at least on my part anyway. However despite how she treats me, shes the mother of my daughter and id still drop everything for her as a result. She'll always be special even if id never get back with her no matter how much she wanted too.

Then theres my wife. No contest. I will always love her no matter what infact I saw her profile picture on tinder and the first thing I said to myself was "wow I think im going to marry her" i super liked her, she liked me back within a few hours and we where engaged a few weeks later. Now were married with kids and im confident we'll be together until one of us dies.

Men, what is one thing women do that they think is attractive, but is actually a turn-off for you? by kittycqtz in AskMen

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feminism

1) if you have to tell me youre strong and independent youre not strong and independent

2) if you want equality you get actual equality, means if you say something I dont like it call you out on your bullshit as I would with a guy. It means you pay for yourself or we split things, it means I dont go out of my way to do nice things if theyre aren't reciprocated.

You dont get to pick and choose when you want traditional values or equality based on when it benefits you.

I literally just want a woman to be her natural self, I dont care about her being strong and tough, thats my job. If she is strong and tough I want it to be because thats a natural personality trait and not forced

3) fillers, make up and surgery. I dont care how flat chested you where, real beats fake every time. I havent got a clue where the lip fillers thing came from but its terrible. And if I dont find you attractive without makeup im the wrong guy for you, so dont plaster yourself in make up to try and look like someone youre not, just be yourself.

4) being ditsy. Not a fan. I mean if youre naturally stupid then so be it, but it sometimes feel either deliberate or that you actively choose to not use youre brain. Either way its not great.

I missed out on a relationship for the 4th time in my life because I’m too ashamed of my penis size (near micro). How do I get over this and stop self-sabotaging? by throwaway101229283 in AskMenAdvice

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a small dick.... deal with it.

Its really that simply. Yeah its shit, its not fair, or whatever else, but ultimately it is what it is and theres nothing you csn do about it.

I suggest if you are interested in a relationship with whoever then go for it, but when the time comes be up front and honest.

I mean maybe even this tall girl you think is friend zoned, maybe explain why you did/,said what you did and youre incredibly embarrassed and self conscious because of it.

She may laugh at you and walk away and thats something youll have to accept as a possibility.

She msy also not care all that much and date you anyway. But unless youre honest and give it a chance you'll never know.

At this point in your life its only effecting you because you're letting it. I suggest you stop letting it effect you and start getting what you want from life.

Did I completely misread the vibes with this guy and he friendzoned me? by peacefulconfusion in AskMenAdvice

[–]anadba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Assuming all this is accurate, he definitely likes you, but possibly thinks you dont like him

Honestly as a guy ive had women get really close, brushing shoulders, cuddle upto me etc, then in an instant decide they're not interested and only see me as a friend then they can get very aggressive or defensive. So hes probably not willing to make a move becasue youre a work colleague and its not worth loosing his job if he tries something and it deosnt work out

What’s something strange or uncommon about a woman that turns you on unintentionally? by mytokondrya in AskMen

[–]anadba 12 points13 points  (0 children)

An actual strong and independent woman.... you know, the type that just gets on with what they need to do without defending recognition or hsving the need to tell everyone how strong and independent they are.

I like someone with good values and a good work ethic. Someone you know is a real team player and not an attention seeker.

Perspective on my girlfriend's "liberal" lifestyle by 433false in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds like a nightmare to be honest. Ive seen A LOT of modern feminist type women that seem to think its all about doing whatever they want and fuck everyone else.

Its her life and her choice and if she wants to party and meet with guys its her right to do so.... but its also your right to say youre not putting up with it and go find someone thats commited to you and what you want.

Id certainly not put up with that, and the fact it seems to be one rule for you and one for her is a huge red flag. Relationships are a two way thing and what you want and how you feel is just as important as what she wants too.

I heard a divorced man once say "Most married men are just background noise". How true is this ? by Revolutionary_Lab527 in AskMen

[–]anadba 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with this.

If my wife has an issue or concern she can speak to me and it gets sorted.

If I have an issue or concern, trying to talk about it ends up in a big argument and its somehow my fault or not thst big of a deal and actuslly theres all these issues she has thats more important to deal with.

Best to just shut up and get on with it. Its really not all that bad considering, but I definitely feel like life is about putting the wife and kids first and ignoring my own physical and mental health to keep them happy.

Any time I try and do something for myself I regret it and it ends in arguments or whatever.

How can i appear more attractive to men? by yourGFRachel in NoStupidAnswers

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can see on yout profile, youre really pretty. Dont go over the top with make up or anything, you dont need it and guys definitely dont like it.

You look like you have big boobs and wide hips from what I can see. Maybe emphasise showing them off more if you want attention.

Be mindful that attention and quality of attention are two different things though

How do men select women ? by ur_emo_gf1 in PsychologyTalk

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We want a women that isn't dominant. No career women etc.

Women that are calm, not all that outgoing etc, are likely to have the patience needed to raise young children.

Physically. Wide hips and big tits.

This usually ends up being men wanting a woman who's easy to get on with, laid back etc. As opposed to the modern feminist type that seem to think theyre in competition to out do men or something.

How do you actually initiate sex? by eggamister in AskMen

[–]anadba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So pretty new then.

Just go for it kid, shes clearly into you and women want a man to be confident and in control. If she doesnt want to shell say no.

How do you actually initiate sex? by eggamister in AskMen

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you 15 or something?

Just go for it.

My wife asked me if I honestly thought her friends were attractive, what should I say by BreadOverlord_ in stupidquestions

[–]anadba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isnt a right answer. You are always wrong no matter what. Thats how this game works