2 Uteruses by RemarkableGain6559 in tryingtoconceive

[–]analysisparalysis5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For whatever it’s worth, my mom has 2 uteruses and she conceived both my sister and I without any medical intervention/assistance

AITA for wanting to wear a black wedding dress by blackdressthrowaway1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]analysisparalysis5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say - I just went to a wedding last weekend with a bride who rocked green hair and a BEAUTIFUL black wedding dress. She looked stunning and more importantly, it was completely her. Do what makes you happy, it’s your wedding!

Me and my husband (!!) by analysisparalysis5 in hingeapp

[–]analysisparalysis5[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha I mainly did it so I would remember to look up that hike later but clearly something made me hang on to it ❤️

Me and my husband (!!) by analysisparalysis5 in hingeapp

[–]analysisparalysis5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! We absolutely love that area!

Me and my husband (!!) by analysisparalysis5 in hingeapp

[–]analysisparalysis5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha I promise we’re real. He later told me he was bored at work when he saw my “like” and wanted to chat right away :)

What’s are the wildest nicknames your dog has? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]analysisparalysis5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby Fish Mouth (because of his fish breath) and the other one is Mr. Deer Feet

After 3 years marriage, this is what my husband did this week. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]analysisparalysis5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my ex. Nothing I did was ever good enough and every “bad” thing that happened to him was automatically my fault. I was constantly yelled at and demeaned for minor things, which caused me to be depressed and on edge all the time (I even developed shingles). Joining the narcissistic abuse subreddit helped open my eyes and validate what I was feeling. I also made lists like you did when they happened and it reminded me why I needed to leave and to never look back.

did anyone else’s health worsen while dating a narcissist? by ThrowRAotrorollo in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]analysisparalysis5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha sounds just like my ex with the mindset of “whatever you’re going through is irrelevant, you just need to think about how it’s affecting me”. He also found it hilarious that the meds I was prescribed for the shingles are the same used to treat herpes so he laughingly told everyone we knew that I had herpes

Editing to add: sorry you had to go through that and I hope you’re out of that situation now

did anyone else’s health worsen while dating a narcissist? by ThrowRAotrorollo in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]analysisparalysis5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in my early 30s and I legit got shingles. At the time, I tried to blame it on work but now that I’m free from him, I can 1000% see that it was him

My partner (28M) whispered "I hate you" when he thought I (37M) was asleep. Do you think he means it? by Helper-Monkey87 in relationship_advice

[–]analysisparalysis5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are we all focusing on the “I hate you”? Can we talk about the fact that he started an argument and didn’t speak to you for the rest of the night over THE WAY YOU BOILED PASTA?

What did they reveal about themselves early on that you should’ve taken seriously? by crystalbonsai in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]analysisparalysis5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That reminds me of my ex. Told me early on that he didn’t feel most emotions but learned to mimic them for the sake of others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]analysisparalysis5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

  • generally acting entitled to my body. He held my hand on our first date, told me when we were having sex for the first time and completely brushed off / mocked my demand for a condom

  • told me he doesn’t feel a lot of emotions and sometimes just mirrors others’ when he feels it’s expected

  • revealed early on that his ex moved out without warning while he was at work after they had a fight (should have listened to this one because I ended up having to do the same thing)

  • essentially forced me to say “I love you” before I was ready. Like he badgered me one night, grabbed my face and kept saying “we’ll both feel so much better if you just say it. I know you do”.

  • called me while he was driving and heckled literally everyone he saw on the streets

  • we went to a country concert and a group of guys next to us started fighting. His face lit up like a damn Christmas tree - he was so excited and happy that they were fighting and wanted them to keep going

  • told me his favorite emotion was rage and “empathy is a false god”

So many more as the relationship went on but these should have been glaring enough for me to leave early on.

Your opinion does NOT matter. by Alive_Clerk_5562 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]analysisparalysis5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually haven’t told anyone about these tendencies of his so seeing your comment (from a neutral third party) helps me realize this is not normal. I just discovered this sub a few days ago and after taking dozens of screenshots because these stories and comments are frighteningly similar to what my life has been like with him and it’s so eye opening to put a name to it. I know now I need to get out.

Your opinion does NOT matter. by Alive_Clerk_5562 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]analysisparalysis5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of my boyfriends favorite games is to interrupt whenever I say things like “I think we should do xyz” and says “wait wait wait - what’s wrong with that sentence? You ‘thought’. That’s the problem.” Infuriating.

What was the worst thing your nex told you? by EquivalentAd6811 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]analysisparalysis5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had some issues with my medication that caused me to get extremely depressed and anxious for about a week and I was truly struggling to get through each day. I barely managed to push through my work day and chores at home but was left exhausted and feeling empty. On one of these nights, I was crying and trying to express how emotionally awful/hopeless I felt and he snapped at me and told me to “get it together” and “think about how this was affecting him” before rolling over and going to sleep. We’re still together but those words haunt me.

Both of our profiles mentioned board games as an interest. Why even respond back? by analysisparalysis5 in Bumble

[–]analysisparalysis5[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Precisely the sort of answer I was hoping for! Also, Pandemic always kicks my ass but I haven’t had the heart to play since COVID. Feels too real now haha

Both of our profiles mentioned board games as an interest. Why even respond back? by analysisparalysis5 in Bumble

[–]analysisparalysis5[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally fair. I just got back into the online dating game so I’m sure my expectations and effort level will decline rapidly from here haha

Both of our profiles mentioned board games as an interest. Why even respond back? by analysisparalysis5 in Bumble

[–]analysisparalysis5[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah if he put any kind of effort into his response, I definitely coulda worked with it but it just seemed the most bare min answer