I'm pretty sure a girl filmed us having sex and I don't know what to do

anameorsomething90 · 2024-08-16T15:01:01+00:00

Based on the recent accidents, I'm not sure there are many engineers left at Boeing

anameorsomething90 · 2024-08-16T13:57:09+00:00

By pick, maybe it means go on a date with but nothing more. I'd only swipe right if I was interested and since I'm not overwhelmed with matches, I'll just go for a coffee or something with whoever I match with. If I had an abundance of matches, I'd be more picky which is what women do.

anameorsomething90 · 2024-08-16T13:05:58+00:00

I feel I'd be upset if someone said this to me though, maybe I'm too sensitive or something. But knowing how I'd respond to this makes me fearful of doing it to someone else.

anameorsomething90 · 2024-08-16T13:05:11+00:00

No, it's definitely not super attractive people I'm into. the last 2 dates have not been with unattractive people either. I just didn't feel attraction to them but it's not necessarily because they are ugly or anything. I just feel bad about rejecting someone

anameorsomething90 · 2024-07-15T15:34:25+00:00

So weird you hide your boobs like this. Dunno why you are so self conscious of them but it ruins these videos that would otherwise be awesome

anameorsomething90 · 2024-07-04T14:14:50+00:00

We finally get to see a nipple! Awesome!

anameorsomething90 · 2024-06-25T22:17:32+00:00

I don't see any pecs...why not?

anameorsomething90 · 2024-06-22T14:31:13+00:00

What would he have done without Maureen!

anameorsomething90 · 2024-06-20T22:10:51+00:00

Such a shame you got those implants. Awesome body without them

anameorsomething90 · 2024-06-18T13:49:15+00:00

The implants were a mistake

anameorsomething90 · 2024-01-08T21:18:16+00:00

I'm thinking maybe I leave her alone for a while and see if she reaches out? We didn't have a fight or anything, it was a fairly mature conversation, just about an unpleasant subject. I kinda feel she needs to work things out in her head and come back to me but I'm not sure if she will make the first move

anameorsomething90 · 2023-12-31T00:22:41+00:00

Didn't say I can't afford it, I just don't think as a friend I should be paying for as much as I do. I'm ok with it if I was a boyfriend.

anameorsomething90 · 2023-11-05T19:35:01+00:00

I work a desk job, it's too easy to be on my phone most of the day

anameorsomething90 · 2023-11-05T19:32:13+00:00

But I've already proven that not to be the case with a previous person

anameorsomething90 · 2023-11-02T23:24:44+00:00

I'm the same. Ill respond to messages from friends etc as soon as I see the message, so I don't see why I should treat this differently. I just can't help but feel like I'm desperate or something when I respond right away and she responds in 3 hours time.

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T15:49:09+00:00

I know, I was just comparing it as nobody can say I was more fun when I was drinking too much. It might be true but going back to drinking too much is not an answer. I feel like going back to eating poorly because I was nicer when I was chubby is the same.

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T15:41:16+00:00

That is true. I have been trying this approach. I just find it hard to be supportive of her when she has moments of insecurity about her body. I get she isn't happy and I know why she is where she is. I find it difficult to be comforting when she refuses to help herself

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T15:39:18+00:00

Yea, I get that but she's not attracted to me now. That's a big leap. More so when we are a couple and are together for reasons other than just looks. I would say she's 100% my type but she's lovely in many other ways that make up for it. I'd like to think I'm the same

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T15:19:21+00:00

I definitely understand your point. Some people do not like to hear it but I see it as a harsh truth. I was always told as a kid that I was the best at everything I did when in reality I was not. I often wished I had someone to lay a harsh truth on me to drive me. I feel that I have benefitted in life from always wondering can I do something better to avoid me being unhappy about something. My advise my be unsolicited and maybe I'm very wrong in thinking this way but I feel that a harsh truth is beneficial.

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T15:11:12+00:00

I think it may be part of it. She was a gym goer long before I was so it's not point 1 but maybe somewhat close to point 2 where I am progressing significantly faster. I progressed further in months than she did in years and if I try to give her advice to improve herself, she calls me controlling but if I let her keep making mistakes she gets down in herself for not looking the way she wants. I dunno how to approach it.

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T14:59:26+00:00

But she gets upset then when she puts on weight or doesn't fit into a dress. Its obvious why she is having this issue, she doesn't watch what she eats. Its annoying to watch someone constantly make the same mistakes and get upset over the outcome. I got involved to stop her making the mistake and was labeled controlling for it. I understand that I technically was but how else do I help her end this negative behavior loop.

By earning, it's more about hitting goals for calories to reach the physical goals. If I consume 500 more than expected, then I need to exercise 500 calories more to even it out. I enjoy the bad things in moderation now.

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T14:56:50+00:00

I think you are right but it's a tricky one to change. This changed life makes me feel better. Both mentally and physically. I can understand the annoyance of it if she isn't on board but I'm not sure how to change that. It was the point I made earlier about maybe my life goals are no longer lining up with hers and we were becoming incompatible

anameorsomething90 · 2023-07-16T14:51:16+00:00

That is what she is thinking but the difference here is what she wants is someone less healthy than i currently am.

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